Originally Posted by ahisma
Thanks, all. Some time and the BBB wisdom has helped - I'm letting it go
But, we're inviting them up to the beach next week and I *know* DS1 will say something, if not DS2. Not sure how to handle that.
When it happens, it will be a great learning opportunity for everyone involved. Kids are notorious for speaking their minds, and, if you are there, you can always comment about feelings. And, if you aren't there, but it comes back to you that something was said, then it's still a good teachable moment.