Torey
01-29-2004, 07:39 PM
Hey all,
I haven't posted in forever, but hopefully someone will be able to help me. First of, up until last week DD, who is 13 months old, nursed at least 7-8 times a day (and a few times every night as well). We went to the Dr. for a checkup (last Thurs.) and when we came home she refused to nurse. She has done this once before and it only lasted a day. So anyway, I was able to get her to nurse from a sound sleep a couple times that day. Unfortunately, the next day (Fri.) I was having surgery to repair an umbilical hernia so I was away from her for several hours that morning. When my DH and I returned she still refused to nurse and seemed generally irritable. We decided that she must have an ear infection and took her to the Dr. the next morning (Sat.). The Dr. thought her disinterest in nursing was due to the ear infection and predicted she would be back to nursing as soon as she felt better.
Anyway, I continued to try to offer her the chance to nurse, but she screamed at me when I even showed her a breast. After several days of antibiotics she seems better, but still refuses to nurse (even when drowsy). I had to rent a good breastpump to maintain supply and she will drink maybe a cup of BM a day. Her increase in solid food has gone up 200%. I think she associates BF'ding with ear pain (even though she isn't in pain right now) and I have no idea how to convince her that it won't hurt. At this point she has gone cold turkey - no nursing for an entire week. I have no idea what to do.
Should I continue to try to nurse her, or just let her be weaned? I am sad that our nursing relationship seems to be at an end - especially since she seemed to be a very happy and frequent nursing baby last week. Also, since she doesn't seem interested in regular milk either, so how can I get her to drink milk? Should I buy a breastpump and continue to pump out a cup of milk for her every day? I hope someone with more experience can answer my questions. I know nursing strikes can last up to 2 weeks, but honestly, after 1 week I wonder if she even remembers what it was like to nurse. I'm so confused.
Thanks for reading this very long saga.
Torey
I haven't posted in forever, but hopefully someone will be able to help me. First of, up until last week DD, who is 13 months old, nursed at least 7-8 times a day (and a few times every night as well). We went to the Dr. for a checkup (last Thurs.) and when we came home she refused to nurse. She has done this once before and it only lasted a day. So anyway, I was able to get her to nurse from a sound sleep a couple times that day. Unfortunately, the next day (Fri.) I was having surgery to repair an umbilical hernia so I was away from her for several hours that morning. When my DH and I returned she still refused to nurse and seemed generally irritable. We decided that she must have an ear infection and took her to the Dr. the next morning (Sat.). The Dr. thought her disinterest in nursing was due to the ear infection and predicted she would be back to nursing as soon as she felt better.
Anyway, I continued to try to offer her the chance to nurse, but she screamed at me when I even showed her a breast. After several days of antibiotics she seems better, but still refuses to nurse (even when drowsy). I had to rent a good breastpump to maintain supply and she will drink maybe a cup of BM a day. Her increase in solid food has gone up 200%. I think she associates BF'ding with ear pain (even though she isn't in pain right now) and I have no idea how to convince her that it won't hurt. At this point she has gone cold turkey - no nursing for an entire week. I have no idea what to do.
Should I continue to try to nurse her, or just let her be weaned? I am sad that our nursing relationship seems to be at an end - especially since she seemed to be a very happy and frequent nursing baby last week. Also, since she doesn't seem interested in regular milk either, so how can I get her to drink milk? Should I buy a breastpump and continue to pump out a cup of milk for her every day? I hope someone with more experience can answer my questions. I know nursing strikes can last up to 2 weeks, but honestly, after 1 week I wonder if she even remembers what it was like to nurse. I'm so confused.
Thanks for reading this very long saga.
Torey