McQ
01-20-2004, 09:28 PM
I just can’t believe the nerve of some people. I’m mad, upset and a nervous wreck all rolled into one. I need a beer, need to vent and want to yell “leave my nanny alone!”.
As I’ve posted before I used to share a nanny with my neighbor. This neighbor was gracious enough to offer the nanny share when I was pregnant. And for that I will always be grateful. But that only goes so far.
A couple months ago my neighbor decided to move many states away. And I say decided as she didn’t have to move. She had a job here that she liked but took a job there. Reasons be what they may she made the decision to move. She asked if I was could take on the nanny full time, duh yeah, you bet.
Then she changed her mind. Not about moving but said she couldn’t bear to lose the nanny and tried to get her to move down there with them. She really put a lot of pressure on her to go with them ~ twice. But fortunately my nanny said no. Whew! She said no!
So anyway the neighbor gets an au pair and moves a week an a half ago. After a few days she calls my nanny all frazzled, a what have I done type of call. Whatever. So then this weekend she calls my nanny and tells her the little girl just isn’t happy and begs my nanny to move down there, that she’d get rid of the au pair. So my nanny says no again. Double whew!
So tonight I run into her husband. Said he’s going to be here for a week. And I’m thinking with all the chaos down there what in the world is he doing up here! He doesn’t work during the week so he could be home with his 2 ½ year old helping her adjust. So we talk and he says things aren’t going well down there, that the au pair will just never stack up to the nanny, how they have met with the agency, taking it day by day yada yada yada. Then he drops the bomb on me that his wife and daughter are coming up for the weekend. WTF!!! I’m sure that they are going to try and see the nanny. And I know they are going to put all kinds of pressure on her to move. I’m so worried that my neighbor will make it too hard to for her to say no. I know this is out of my hands and I can’t force my nanny to stay if she doesn’t want to. But come on, give me a break.
I could go on for pages about how wonderful this nanny is but in a nutshell, she’s a gem. I’d be a basket case if I lost her so I can understand what my neighbor is going through. But she obviously made a decision that was best for her family, my nanny has already told her no numerous times, and this would really screw me. So suck it up, deal with your decision and leave my nanny alone!
Allison
~ mommy to Declan 3.24.03
As I’ve posted before I used to share a nanny with my neighbor. This neighbor was gracious enough to offer the nanny share when I was pregnant. And for that I will always be grateful. But that only goes so far.
A couple months ago my neighbor decided to move many states away. And I say decided as she didn’t have to move. She had a job here that she liked but took a job there. Reasons be what they may she made the decision to move. She asked if I was could take on the nanny full time, duh yeah, you bet.
Then she changed her mind. Not about moving but said she couldn’t bear to lose the nanny and tried to get her to move down there with them. She really put a lot of pressure on her to go with them ~ twice. But fortunately my nanny said no. Whew! She said no!
So anyway the neighbor gets an au pair and moves a week an a half ago. After a few days she calls my nanny all frazzled, a what have I done type of call. Whatever. So then this weekend she calls my nanny and tells her the little girl just isn’t happy and begs my nanny to move down there, that she’d get rid of the au pair. So my nanny says no again. Double whew!
So tonight I run into her husband. Said he’s going to be here for a week. And I’m thinking with all the chaos down there what in the world is he doing up here! He doesn’t work during the week so he could be home with his 2 ½ year old helping her adjust. So we talk and he says things aren’t going well down there, that the au pair will just never stack up to the nanny, how they have met with the agency, taking it day by day yada yada yada. Then he drops the bomb on me that his wife and daughter are coming up for the weekend. WTF!!! I’m sure that they are going to try and see the nanny. And I know they are going to put all kinds of pressure on her to move. I’m so worried that my neighbor will make it too hard to for her to say no. I know this is out of my hands and I can’t force my nanny to stay if she doesn’t want to. But come on, give me a break.
I could go on for pages about how wonderful this nanny is but in a nutshell, she’s a gem. I’d be a basket case if I lost her so I can understand what my neighbor is going through. But she obviously made a decision that was best for her family, my nanny has already told her no numerous times, and this would really screw me. So suck it up, deal with your decision and leave my nanny alone!
Allison
~ mommy to Declan 3.24.03