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ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 01:16 AM
Why did I have an anxiety attack today?

I just don't get it. I've known about the money issues for months. But something about getting the foreclosure letter and then a phone call from the car lender saying they were going to start repossesion procedures kinda sent me off the deep end. I freaked, called my mom at her work and she said to call her once I figured out what I needed $ wise. Then I called DH who managed to get me calmed down. I mean I was hyperventilating, my heart was racing, I was crying, my face was tingling and my hands went numb. It was so scary. Thank goodness Maddy was sleeping but poor Jarred got to witness his mommy's freak out.

To make matters worse my mom wouldn't take my phone call this evening to apologize for wigging out. I feel rotten, my uncle (her brother) seperated from his wife on Friday, and she spent all weekend listening to his emotional baggage and then I call her AT WORK and act like a maniac. What is wrong with me? And I don't want to ask my parents for money anymore, they practically have supported us for the last month.

DH feels rotten because he can't find a better job where he would be happy and I can stay home. I probably have a night job starting August 28th, but I don't know FOR SURE yet, so it is still up in the air. I took too long to take care of this and feel like it is all my fault.

I feel like my life is falling apart, and yet I am medicated. Maybe the pills aren't working anymore. I need to see a thearpist, but honestly HOW can I do that and pay the weekly co-pays when the bill collectors are going to take the house away if we don't make a payment? I know things will get better, but in the middle of this right now, I am way beyond stressed out. I used to be so organized and the house was at least decent, but now it isn't even close. I need to get the house clean, get the bills into one place, and I can't get myself off the computer and get it done. I feel immobilized but the chaos that is surrounding me right now. It has gotten to be too much. I can't sleep, I tried and failed twice already this evening.

No need to respond, I just needed to get that off my chest. I am just so tired of coping with all this drama in my head. I never thought it would be this bad, I don't know why we didn't plan better. ;(

Christy
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ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 01:16 AM
Why did I have an anxiety attack today?

I just don't get it. I've known about the money issues for months. But something about getting the foreclosure letter and then a phone call from the car lender saying they were going to start repossesion procedures kinda sent me off the deep end. I freaked, called my mom at her work and she said to call her once I figured out what I needed $ wise. Then I called DH who managed to get me calmed down. I mean I was hyperventilating, my heart was racing, I was crying, my face was tingling and my hands went numb. It was so scary. Thank goodness Maddy was sleeping but poor Jarred got to witness his mommy's freak out.

To make matters worse my mom wouldn't take my phone call this evening to apologize for wigging out. I feel rotten, my uncle (her brother) seperated from his wife on Friday, and she spent all weekend listening to his emotional baggage and then I call her AT WORK and act like a maniac. What is wrong with me? And I don't want to ask my parents for money anymore, they practically have supported us for the last month.

DH feels rotten because he can't find a better job where he would be happy and I can stay home. I probably have a night job starting August 28th, but I don't know FOR SURE yet, so it is still up in the air. I took too long to take care of this and feel like it is all my fault.

I feel like my life is falling apart, and yet I am medicated. Maybe the pills aren't working anymore. I need to see a thearpist, but honestly HOW can I do that and pay the weekly co-pays when the bill collectors are going to take the house away if we don't make a payment? I know things will get better, but in the middle of this right now, I am way beyond stressed out. I used to be so organized and the house was at least decent, but now it isn't even close. I need to get the house clean, get the bills into one place, and I can't get myself off the computer and get it done. I feel immobilized but the chaos that is surrounding me right now. It has gotten to be too much. I can't sleep, I tried and failed twice already this evening.

No need to respond, I just needed to get that off my chest. I am just so tired of coping with all this drama in my head. I never thought it would be this bad, I don't know why we didn't plan better. ;(

Christy
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ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 01:16 AM
Why did I have an anxiety attack today?

I just don't get it. I've known about the money issues for months. But something about getting the foreclosure letter and then a phone call from the car lender saying they were going to start repossesion procedures kinda sent me off the deep end. I freaked, called my mom at her work and she said to call her once I figured out what I needed $ wise. Then I called DH who managed to get me calmed down. I mean I was hyperventilating, my heart was racing, I was crying, my face was tingling and my hands went numb. It was so scary. Thank goodness Maddy was sleeping but poor Jarred got to witness his mommy's freak out.

To make matters worse my mom wouldn't take my phone call this evening to apologize for wigging out. I feel rotten, my uncle (her brother) seperated from his wife on Friday, and she spent all weekend listening to his emotional baggage and then I call her AT WORK and act like a maniac. What is wrong with me? And I don't want to ask my parents for money anymore, they practically have supported us for the last month.

DH feels rotten because he can't find a better job where he would be happy and I can stay home. I probably have a night job starting August 28th, but I don't know FOR SURE yet, so it is still up in the air. I took too long to take care of this and feel like it is all my fault.

I feel like my life is falling apart, and yet I am medicated. Maybe the pills aren't working anymore. I need to see a thearpist, but honestly HOW can I do that and pay the weekly co-pays when the bill collectors are going to take the house away if we don't make a payment? I know things will get better, but in the middle of this right now, I am way beyond stressed out. I used to be so organized and the house was at least decent, but now it isn't even close. I need to get the house clean, get the bills into one place, and I can't get myself off the computer and get it done. I feel immobilized but the chaos that is surrounding me right now. It has gotten to be too much. I can't sleep, I tried and failed twice already this evening.

No need to respond, I just needed to get that off my chest. I am just so tired of coping with all this drama in my head. I never thought it would be this bad, I don't know why we didn't plan better. ;(

Christy
My Waterbabies
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http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

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ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 01:16 AM
Why did I have an anxiety attack today?

I just don't get it. I've known about the money issues for months. But something about getting the foreclosure letter and then a phone call from the car lender saying they were going to start repossesion procedures kinda sent me off the deep end. I freaked, called my mom at her work and she said to call her once I figured out what I needed $ wise. Then I called DH who managed to get me calmed down. I mean I was hyperventilating, my heart was racing, I was crying, my face was tingling and my hands went numb. It was so scary. Thank goodness Maddy was sleeping but poor Jarred got to witness his mommy's freak out.

To make matters worse my mom wouldn't take my phone call this evening to apologize for wigging out. I feel rotten, my uncle (her brother) seperated from his wife on Friday, and she spent all weekend listening to his emotional baggage and then I call her AT WORK and act like a maniac. What is wrong with me? And I don't want to ask my parents for money anymore, they practically have supported us for the last month.

DH feels rotten because he can't find a better job where he would be happy and I can stay home. I probably have a night job starting August 28th, but I don't know FOR SURE yet, so it is still up in the air. I took too long to take care of this and feel like it is all my fault.

I feel like my life is falling apart, and yet I am medicated. Maybe the pills aren't working anymore. I need to see a thearpist, but honestly HOW can I do that and pay the weekly co-pays when the bill collectors are going to take the house away if we don't make a payment? I know things will get better, but in the middle of this right now, I am way beyond stressed out. I used to be so organized and the house was at least decent, but now it isn't even close. I need to get the house clean, get the bills into one place, and I can't get myself off the computer and get it done. I feel immobilized but the chaos that is surrounding me right now. It has gotten to be too much. I can't sleep, I tried and failed twice already this evening.

No need to respond, I just needed to get that off my chest. I am just so tired of coping with all this drama in my head. I never thought it would be this bad, I don't know why we didn't plan better. ;(

Christy
My Waterbabies
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http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

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ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 01:16 AM
Why did I have an anxiety attack today?

I just don't get it. I've known about the money issues for months. But something about getting the foreclosure letter and then a phone call from the car lender saying they were going to start repossesion procedures kinda sent me off the deep end. I freaked, called my mom at her work and she said to call her once I figured out what I needed $ wise. Then I called DH who managed to get me calmed down. I mean I was hyperventilating, my heart was racing, I was crying, my face was tingling and my hands went numb. It was so scary. Thank goodness Maddy was sleeping but poor Jarred got to witness his mommy's freak out.

To make matters worse my mom wouldn't take my phone call this evening to apologize for wigging out. I feel rotten, my uncle (her brother) seperated from his wife on Friday, and she spent all weekend listening to his emotional baggage and then I call her AT WORK and act like a maniac. What is wrong with me? And I don't want to ask my parents for money anymore, they practically have supported us for the last month.

DH feels rotten because he can't find a better job where he would be happy and I can stay home. I probably have a night job starting August 28th, but I don't know FOR SURE yet, so it is still up in the air. I took too long to take care of this and feel like it is all my fault.

I feel like my life is falling apart, and yet I am medicated. Maybe the pills aren't working anymore. I need to see a thearpist, but honestly HOW can I do that and pay the weekly co-pays when the bill collectors are going to take the house away if we don't make a payment? I know things will get better, but in the middle of this right now, I am way beyond stressed out. I used to be so organized and the house was at least decent, but now it isn't even close. I need to get the house clean, get the bills into one place, and I can't get myself off the computer and get it done. I feel immobilized but the chaos that is surrounding me right now. It has gotten to be too much. I can't sleep, I tried and failed twice already this evening.

No need to respond, I just needed to get that off my chest. I am just so tired of coping with all this drama in my head. I never thought it would be this bad, I don't know why we didn't plan better. ;(

Christy
My Waterbabies
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http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

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ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 01:16 AM
Why did I have an anxiety attack today?

I just don't get it. I've known about the money issues for months. But something about getting the foreclosure letter and then a phone call from the car lender saying they were going to start repossesion procedures kinda sent me off the deep end. I freaked, called my mom at her work and she said to call her once I figured out what I needed $ wise. Then I called DH who managed to get me calmed down. I mean I was hyperventilating, my heart was racing, I was crying, my face was tingling and my hands went numb. It was so scary. Thank goodness Maddy was sleeping but poor Jarred got to witness his mommy's freak out.

To make matters worse my mom wouldn't take my phone call this evening to apologize for wigging out. I feel rotten, my uncle (her brother) seperated from his wife on Friday, and she spent all weekend listening to his emotional baggage and then I call her AT WORK and act like a maniac. What is wrong with me? And I don't want to ask my parents for money anymore, they practically have supported us for the last month.

DH feels rotten because he can't find a better job where he would be happy and I can stay home. I probably have a night job starting August 28th, but I don't know FOR SURE yet, so it is still up in the air. I took too long to take care of this and feel like it is all my fault.

I feel like my life is falling apart, and yet I am medicated. Maybe the pills aren't working anymore. I need to see a thearpist, but honestly HOW can I do that and pay the weekly co-pays when the bill collectors are going to take the house away if we don't make a payment? I know things will get better, but in the middle of this right now, I am way beyond stressed out. I used to be so organized and the house was at least decent, but now it isn't even close. I need to get the house clean, get the bills into one place, and I can't get myself off the computer and get it done. I feel immobilized but the chaos that is surrounding me right now. It has gotten to be too much. I can't sleep, I tried and failed twice already this evening.

No need to respond, I just needed to get that off my chest. I am just so tired of coping with all this drama in my head. I never thought it would be this bad, I don't know why we didn't plan better. ;(

Christy
My Waterbabies
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http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

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ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 01:16 AM
Why did I have an anxiety attack today?

I just don't get it. I've known about the money issues for months. But something about getting the foreclosure letter and then a phone call from the car lender saying they were going to start repossesion procedures kinda sent me off the deep end. I freaked, called my mom at her work and she said to call her once I figured out what I needed $ wise. Then I called DH who managed to get me calmed down. I mean I was hyperventilating, my heart was racing, I was crying, my face was tingling and my hands went numb. It was so scary. Thank goodness Maddy was sleeping but poor Jarred got to witness his mommy's freak out.

To make matters worse my mom wouldn't take my phone call this evening to apologize for wigging out. I feel rotten, my uncle (her brother) seperated from his wife on Friday, and she spent all weekend listening to his emotional baggage and then I call her AT WORK and act like a maniac. What is wrong with me? And I don't want to ask my parents for money anymore, they practically have supported us for the last month.

DH feels rotten because he can't find a better job where he would be happy and I can stay home. I probably have a night job starting August 28th, but I don't know FOR SURE yet, so it is still up in the air. I took too long to take care of this and feel like it is all my fault.

I feel like my life is falling apart, and yet I am medicated. Maybe the pills aren't working anymore. I need to see a thearpist, but honestly HOW can I do that and pay the weekly co-pays when the bill collectors are going to take the house away if we don't make a payment? I know things will get better, but in the middle of this right now, I am way beyond stressed out. I used to be so organized and the house was at least decent, but now it isn't even close. I need to get the house clean, get the bills into one place, and I can't get myself off the computer and get it done. I feel immobilized but the chaos that is surrounding me right now. It has gotten to be too much. I can't sleep, I tried and failed twice already this evening.

No need to respond, I just needed to get that off my chest. I am just so tired of coping with all this drama in my head. I never thought it would be this bad, I don't know why we didn't plan better. ;(

Christy
My Waterbabies
http://b3.lilypie.com/uVw3m4/.png

http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v221/steitzsmith/Other/jump.gif

ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 01:16 AM
Why did I have an anxiety attack today?

I just don't get it. I've known about the money issues for months. But something about getting the foreclosure letter and then a phone call from the car lender saying they were going to start repossesion procedures kinda sent me off the deep end. I freaked, called my mom at her work and she said to call her once I figured out what I needed $ wise. Then I called DH who managed to get me calmed down. I mean I was hyperventilating, my heart was racing, I was crying, my face was tingling and my hands went numb. It was so scary. Thank goodness Maddy was sleeping but poor Jarred got to witness his mommy's freak out.

To make matters worse my mom wouldn't take my phone call this evening to apologize for wigging out. I feel rotten, my uncle (her brother) seperated from his wife on Friday, and she spent all weekend listening to his emotional baggage and then I call her AT WORK and act like a maniac. What is wrong with me? And I don't want to ask my parents for money anymore, they practically have supported us for the last month.

DH feels rotten because he can't find a better job where he would be happy and I can stay home. I probably have a night job starting August 28th, but I don't know FOR SURE yet, so it is still up in the air. I took too long to take care of this and feel like it is all my fault.

I feel like my life is falling apart, and yet I am medicated. Maybe the pills aren't working anymore. I need to see a thearpist, but honestly HOW can I do that and pay the weekly co-pays when the bill collectors are going to take the house away if we don't make a payment? I know things will get better, but in the middle of this right now, I am way beyond stressed out. I used to be so organized and the house was at least decent, but now it isn't even close. I need to get the house clean, get the bills into one place, and I can't get myself off the computer and get it done. I feel immobilized but the chaos that is surrounding me right now. It has gotten to be too much. I can't sleep, I tried and failed twice already this evening.

No need to respond, I just needed to get that off my chest. I am just so tired of coping with all this drama in my head. I never thought it would be this bad, I don't know why we didn't plan better. ;(

Christy
My Waterbabies
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http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v221/steitzsmith/Other/jump.gif

ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 01:16 AM
Why did I have an anxiety attack today?

I just don't get it. I've known about the money issues for months. But something about getting the foreclosure letter and then a phone call from the car lender saying they were going to start repossesion procedures kinda sent me off the deep end. I freaked, called my mom at her work and she said to call her once I figured out what I needed $ wise. Then I called DH who managed to get me calmed down. I mean I was hyperventilating, my heart was racing, I was crying, my face was tingling and my hands went numb. It was so scary. Thank goodness Maddy was sleeping but poor Jarred got to witness his mommy's freak out.

To make matters worse my mom wouldn't take my phone call this evening to apologize for wigging out. I feel rotten, my uncle (her brother) seperated from his wife on Friday, and she spent all weekend listening to his emotional baggage and then I call her AT WORK and act like a maniac. What is wrong with me? And I don't want to ask my parents for money anymore, they practically have supported us for the last month.

DH feels rotten because he can't find a better job where he would be happy and I can stay home. I probably have a night job starting August 28th, but I don't know FOR SURE yet, so it is still up in the air. I took too long to take care of this and feel like it is all my fault.

I feel like my life is falling apart, and yet I am medicated. Maybe the pills aren't working anymore. I need to see a thearpist, but honestly HOW can I do that and pay the weekly co-pays when the bill collectors are going to take the house away if we don't make a payment? I know things will get better, but in the middle of this right now, I am way beyond stressed out. I used to be so organized and the house was at least decent, but now it isn't even close. I need to get the house clean, get the bills into one place, and I can't get myself off the computer and get it done. I feel immobilized but the chaos that is surrounding me right now. It has gotten to be too much. I can't sleep, I tried and failed twice already this evening.

No need to respond, I just needed to get that off my chest. I am just so tired of coping with all this drama in my head. I never thought it would be this bad, I don't know why we didn't plan better. ;(

Christy
My Waterbabies
http://b3.lilypie.com/uVw3m4/.png

http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v221/steitzsmith/Other/jump.gif

Mommie2MadLyn
07-25-2006, 06:54 AM
I'm sorry you're going through this. I can relate to being stressed about money. DH and I have been struggling financially for over 2 years now. Its not fun! I work FT and DH works 2 PT jobs and any side work he can find (so basically he works more than FT!) We are definitely trying but due to poor planning and CC debt we are just barely keeping our heads above water.
Madison has also seen some of my meltdowns, but I try not to let that happen. She's just a kid, she doesn't need to know about $ problems.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that I feel for you. Sometimes the stress is so bad. Also it has effected my marriage. Its hard not to pass blame on eachother sometimes.
Keep your chin up, things will get better. And good luck with your job opportunity!!!

Mommie2MadLyn
07-25-2006, 06:54 AM
I'm sorry you're going through this. I can relate to being stressed about money. DH and I have been struggling financially for over 2 years now. Its not fun! I work FT and DH works 2 PT jobs and any side work he can find (so basically he works more than FT!) We are definitely trying but due to poor planning and CC debt we are just barely keeping our heads above water.
Madison has also seen some of my meltdowns, but I try not to let that happen. She's just a kid, she doesn't need to know about $ problems.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that I feel for you. Sometimes the stress is so bad. Also it has effected my marriage. Its hard not to pass blame on eachother sometimes.
Keep your chin up, things will get better. And good luck with your job opportunity!!!

Mommie2MadLyn
07-25-2006, 06:54 AM
I'm sorry you're going through this. I can relate to being stressed about money. DH and I have been struggling financially for over 2 years now. Its not fun! I work FT and DH works 2 PT jobs and any side work he can find (so basically he works more than FT!) We are definitely trying but due to poor planning and CC debt we are just barely keeping our heads above water.
Madison has also seen some of my meltdowns, but I try not to let that happen. She's just a kid, she doesn't need to know about $ problems.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that I feel for you. Sometimes the stress is so bad. Also it has effected my marriage. Its hard not to pass blame on eachother sometimes.
Keep your chin up, things will get better. And good luck with your job opportunity!!!

Mommie2MadLyn
07-25-2006, 06:54 AM
I'm sorry you're going through this. I can relate to being stressed about money. DH and I have been struggling financially for over 2 years now. Its not fun! I work FT and DH works 2 PT jobs and any side work he can find (so basically he works more than FT!) We are definitely trying but due to poor planning and CC debt we are just barely keeping our heads above water.
Madison has also seen some of my meltdowns, but I try not to let that happen. She's just a kid, she doesn't need to know about $ problems.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that I feel for you. Sometimes the stress is so bad. Also it has effected my marriage. Its hard not to pass blame on eachother sometimes.
Keep your chin up, things will get better. And good luck with your job opportunity!!!

Mommie2MadLyn
07-25-2006, 06:54 AM
I'm sorry you're going through this. I can relate to being stressed about money. DH and I have been struggling financially for over 2 years now. Its not fun! I work FT and DH works 2 PT jobs and any side work he can find (so basically he works more than FT!) We are definitely trying but due to poor planning and CC debt we are just barely keeping our heads above water.
Madison has also seen some of my meltdowns, but I try not to let that happen. She's just a kid, she doesn't need to know about $ problems.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that I feel for you. Sometimes the stress is so bad. Also it has effected my marriage. Its hard not to pass blame on eachother sometimes.
Keep your chin up, things will get better. And good luck with your job opportunity!!!

Mommie2MadLyn
07-25-2006, 06:54 AM
I'm sorry you're going through this. I can relate to being stressed about money. DH and I have been struggling financially for over 2 years now. Its not fun! I work FT and DH works 2 PT jobs and any side work he can find (so basically he works more than FT!) We are definitely trying but due to poor planning and CC debt we are just barely keeping our heads above water.
Madison has also seen some of my meltdowns, but I try not to let that happen. She's just a kid, she doesn't need to know about $ problems.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that I feel for you. Sometimes the stress is so bad. Also it has effected my marriage. Its hard not to pass blame on eachother sometimes.
Keep your chin up, things will get better. And good luck with your job opportunity!!!

Mommie2MadLyn
07-25-2006, 06:54 AM
I'm sorry you're going through this. I can relate to being stressed about money. DH and I have been struggling financially for over 2 years now. Its not fun! I work FT and DH works 2 PT jobs and any side work he can find (so basically he works more than FT!) We are definitely trying but due to poor planning and CC debt we are just barely keeping our heads above water.
Madison has also seen some of my meltdowns, but I try not to let that happen. She's just a kid, she doesn't need to know about $ problems.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that I feel for you. Sometimes the stress is so bad. Also it has effected my marriage. Its hard not to pass blame on eachother sometimes.
Keep your chin up, things will get better. And good luck with your job opportunity!!!

Mommie2MadLyn
07-25-2006, 06:54 AM
I'm sorry you're going through this. I can relate to being stressed about money. DH and I have been struggling financially for over 2 years now. Its not fun! I work FT and DH works 2 PT jobs and any side work he can find (so basically he works more than FT!) We are definitely trying but due to poor planning and CC debt we are just barely keeping our heads above water.
Madison has also seen some of my meltdowns, but I try not to let that happen. She's just a kid, she doesn't need to know about $ problems.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that I feel for you. Sometimes the stress is so bad. Also it has effected my marriage. Its hard not to pass blame on eachother sometimes.
Keep your chin up, things will get better. And good luck with your job opportunity!!!

Mommie2MadLyn
07-25-2006, 06:54 AM
I'm sorry you're going through this. I can relate to being stressed about money. DH and I have been struggling financially for over 2 years now. Its not fun! I work FT and DH works 2 PT jobs and any side work he can find (so basically he works more than FT!) We are definitely trying but due to poor planning and CC debt we are just barely keeping our heads above water.
Madison has also seen some of my meltdowns, but I try not to let that happen. She's just a kid, she doesn't need to know about $ problems.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that I feel for you. Sometimes the stress is so bad. Also it has effected my marriage. Its hard not to pass blame on eachother sometimes.
Keep your chin up, things will get better. And good luck with your job opportunity!!!

elliput
07-25-2006, 08:20 AM
Just big hugs from me. You need lots of big hugs right now. {{{{HUG}}}}

elliput
07-25-2006, 08:20 AM
Just big hugs from me. You need lots of big hugs right now. {{{{HUG}}}}

elliput
07-25-2006, 08:20 AM
Just big hugs from me. You need lots of big hugs right now. {{{{HUG}}}}

elliput
07-25-2006, 08:20 AM
Just big hugs from me. You need lots of big hugs right now. {{{{HUG}}}}

elliput
07-25-2006, 08:20 AM
Just big hugs from me. You need lots of big hugs right now. {{{{HUG}}}}

elliput
07-25-2006, 08:20 AM
Just big hugs from me. You need lots of big hugs right now. {{{{HUG}}}}

elliput
07-25-2006, 08:20 AM
Just big hugs from me. You need lots of big hugs right now. {{{{HUG}}}}

elliput
07-25-2006, 08:20 AM
Just big hugs from me. You need lots of big hugs right now. {{{{HUG}}}}

elliput
07-25-2006, 08:20 AM
Just big hugs from me. You need lots of big hugs right now. {{{{HUG}}}}

Nicsmom
07-25-2006, 08:37 AM
I am so sorry that you are going through this. Big big hugs.

Nicsmom
07-25-2006, 08:37 AM
I am so sorry that you are going through this. Big big hugs.

Nicsmom
07-25-2006, 08:37 AM
I am so sorry that you are going through this. Big big hugs.

Nicsmom
07-25-2006, 08:37 AM
I am so sorry that you are going through this. Big big hugs.

Nicsmom
07-25-2006, 08:37 AM
I am so sorry that you are going through this. Big big hugs.

Nicsmom
07-25-2006, 08:37 AM
I am so sorry that you are going through this. Big big hugs.

Nicsmom
07-25-2006, 08:37 AM
I am so sorry that you are going through this. Big big hugs.

Nicsmom
07-25-2006, 08:37 AM
I am so sorry that you are going through this. Big big hugs.

Nicsmom
07-25-2006, 08:37 AM
I am so sorry that you are going through this. Big big hugs.

bcky2
07-25-2006, 09:29 AM
huge (((hugs))) Christy, im so sorry that you are going thru this. it is a hard place to be. i have anxiety attacks and usually it is about money and alot of times it hits me at bed time when my mind wanders. my mom told me something that helps a litte bit, she said to ask myself if there is anything at that moment i can do to fix the problem, if the answer is no i need to let it go for the moment, if the answer is yes then do it. easier said then done but it does help me get thru the attacks a bit better. im sorry that your mom wont take your call, that is really rough. i know how you feel, i was the one home when we got served our forclosure papers and when they came to take my car, it is hard and scary. my mom had to give us alot of money to get thru it but we did get thru it. i have come to realize that as long as i have my dh and my boys it will all be ok. if they take the house there is always an apartment, if they take a car we always have our other one. i know that none of that sounds appealing but even at the bleakest moment there are options. hang in there my froggie friend and things will look up soon even if it doesnt look that way.

bcky2
07-25-2006, 09:29 AM
huge (((hugs))) Christy, im so sorry that you are going thru this. it is a hard place to be. i have anxiety attacks and usually it is about money and alot of times it hits me at bed time when my mind wanders. my mom told me something that helps a litte bit, she said to ask myself if there is anything at that moment i can do to fix the problem, if the answer is no i need to let it go for the moment, if the answer is yes then do it. easier said then done but it does help me get thru the attacks a bit better. im sorry that your mom wont take your call, that is really rough. i know how you feel, i was the one home when we got served our forclosure papers and when they came to take my car, it is hard and scary. my mom had to give us alot of money to get thru it but we did get thru it. i have come to realize that as long as i have my dh and my boys it will all be ok. if they take the house there is always an apartment, if they take a car we always have our other one. i know that none of that sounds appealing but even at the bleakest moment there are options. hang in there my froggie friend and things will look up soon even if it doesnt look that way.

bcky2
07-25-2006, 09:29 AM
huge (((hugs))) Christy, im so sorry that you are going thru this. it is a hard place to be. i have anxiety attacks and usually it is about money and alot of times it hits me at bed time when my mind wanders. my mom told me something that helps a litte bit, she said to ask myself if there is anything at that moment i can do to fix the problem, if the answer is no i need to let it go for the moment, if the answer is yes then do it. easier said then done but it does help me get thru the attacks a bit better. im sorry that your mom wont take your call, that is really rough. i know how you feel, i was the one home when we got served our forclosure papers and when they came to take my car, it is hard and scary. my mom had to give us alot of money to get thru it but we did get thru it. i have come to realize that as long as i have my dh and my boys it will all be ok. if they take the house there is always an apartment, if they take a car we always have our other one. i know that none of that sounds appealing but even at the bleakest moment there are options. hang in there my froggie friend and things will look up soon even if it doesnt look that way.

bcky2
07-25-2006, 09:29 AM
huge (((hugs))) Christy, im so sorry that you are going thru this. it is a hard place to be. i have anxiety attacks and usually it is about money and alot of times it hits me at bed time when my mind wanders. my mom told me something that helps a litte bit, she said to ask myself if there is anything at that moment i can do to fix the problem, if the answer is no i need to let it go for the moment, if the answer is yes then do it. easier said then done but it does help me get thru the attacks a bit better. im sorry that your mom wont take your call, that is really rough. i know how you feel, i was the one home when we got served our forclosure papers and when they came to take my car, it is hard and scary. my mom had to give us alot of money to get thru it but we did get thru it. i have come to realize that as long as i have my dh and my boys it will all be ok. if they take the house there is always an apartment, if they take a car we always have our other one. i know that none of that sounds appealing but even at the bleakest moment there are options. hang in there my froggie friend and things will look up soon even if it doesnt look that way.

bcky2
07-25-2006, 09:29 AM
huge (((hugs))) Christy, im so sorry that you are going thru this. it is a hard place to be. i have anxiety attacks and usually it is about money and alot of times it hits me at bed time when my mind wanders. my mom told me something that helps a litte bit, she said to ask myself if there is anything at that moment i can do to fix the problem, if the answer is no i need to let it go for the moment, if the answer is yes then do it. easier said then done but it does help me get thru the attacks a bit better. im sorry that your mom wont take your call, that is really rough. i know how you feel, i was the one home when we got served our forclosure papers and when they came to take my car, it is hard and scary. my mom had to give us alot of money to get thru it but we did get thru it. i have come to realize that as long as i have my dh and my boys it will all be ok. if they take the house there is always an apartment, if they take a car we always have our other one. i know that none of that sounds appealing but even at the bleakest moment there are options. hang in there my froggie friend and things will look up soon even if it doesnt look that way.

bcky2
07-25-2006, 09:29 AM
huge (((hugs))) Christy, im so sorry that you are going thru this. it is a hard place to be. i have anxiety attacks and usually it is about money and alot of times it hits me at bed time when my mind wanders. my mom told me something that helps a litte bit, she said to ask myself if there is anything at that moment i can do to fix the problem, if the answer is no i need to let it go for the moment, if the answer is yes then do it. easier said then done but it does help me get thru the attacks a bit better. im sorry that your mom wont take your call, that is really rough. i know how you feel, i was the one home when we got served our forclosure papers and when they came to take my car, it is hard and scary. my mom had to give us alot of money to get thru it but we did get thru it. i have come to realize that as long as i have my dh and my boys it will all be ok. if they take the house there is always an apartment, if they take a car we always have our other one. i know that none of that sounds appealing but even at the bleakest moment there are options. hang in there my froggie friend and things will look up soon even if it doesnt look that way.

bcky2
07-25-2006, 09:29 AM
huge (((hugs))) Christy, im so sorry that you are going thru this. it is a hard place to be. i have anxiety attacks and usually it is about money and alot of times it hits me at bed time when my mind wanders. my mom told me something that helps a litte bit, she said to ask myself if there is anything at that moment i can do to fix the problem, if the answer is no i need to let it go for the moment, if the answer is yes then do it. easier said then done but it does help me get thru the attacks a bit better. im sorry that your mom wont take your call, that is really rough. i know how you feel, i was the one home when we got served our forclosure papers and when they came to take my car, it is hard and scary. my mom had to give us alot of money to get thru it but we did get thru it. i have come to realize that as long as i have my dh and my boys it will all be ok. if they take the house there is always an apartment, if they take a car we always have our other one. i know that none of that sounds appealing but even at the bleakest moment there are options. hang in there my froggie friend and things will look up soon even if it doesnt look that way.

bcky2
07-25-2006, 09:29 AM
huge (((hugs))) Christy, im so sorry that you are going thru this. it is a hard place to be. i have anxiety attacks and usually it is about money and alot of times it hits me at bed time when my mind wanders. my mom told me something that helps a litte bit, she said to ask myself if there is anything at that moment i can do to fix the problem, if the answer is no i need to let it go for the moment, if the answer is yes then do it. easier said then done but it does help me get thru the attacks a bit better. im sorry that your mom wont take your call, that is really rough. i know how you feel, i was the one home when we got served our forclosure papers and when they came to take my car, it is hard and scary. my mom had to give us alot of money to get thru it but we did get thru it. i have come to realize that as long as i have my dh and my boys it will all be ok. if they take the house there is always an apartment, if they take a car we always have our other one. i know that none of that sounds appealing but even at the bleakest moment there are options. hang in there my froggie friend and things will look up soon even if it doesnt look that way.

bcky2
07-25-2006, 09:29 AM
huge (((hugs))) Christy, im so sorry that you are going thru this. it is a hard place to be. i have anxiety attacks and usually it is about money and alot of times it hits me at bed time when my mind wanders. my mom told me something that helps a litte bit, she said to ask myself if there is anything at that moment i can do to fix the problem, if the answer is no i need to let it go for the moment, if the answer is yes then do it. easier said then done but it does help me get thru the attacks a bit better. im sorry that your mom wont take your call, that is really rough. i know how you feel, i was the one home when we got served our forclosure papers and when they came to take my car, it is hard and scary. my mom had to give us alot of money to get thru it but we did get thru it. i have come to realize that as long as i have my dh and my boys it will all be ok. if they take the house there is always an apartment, if they take a car we always have our other one. i know that none of that sounds appealing but even at the bleakest moment there are options. hang in there my froggie friend and things will look up soon even if it doesnt look that way.

boolady
07-25-2006, 09:49 AM
As someone who went through about a 2 year period of getting very intense anxiety attacks, you are absolutely right that they hit when your mind wanders. I was constantly asking the doctor why they seemed to happen when I hadn't really been thinking about anything stressful (ie. in line at Target, in the middle of the night out of a dead sleep, etc.). He said that is when it often happens. I think you are also correct, in my experience, that the best thing to do to try and control it, though it's hard, is to ask if there is anything you can do to fix it AT THE MOMENT.

Christy, your attack sounds like mine were--always about a million things at once, none of which could be addressed at that moment. It always helped me to tell myself to slow down and think about whether I could do anything about any of the things I was worrying about, and prioritize by addressing those I could, and telling myself that I couldn't really do anything about the ones I couldn't. I know it really stinks to have this happen. With myself, I had to learn to recognize that I was having an attack, and just slow everything down, because in my experience, they feed off themselves like a snowball going downhill. Good luck. I'll be thinking of you.

boolady
07-25-2006, 09:49 AM
As someone who went through about a 2 year period of getting very intense anxiety attacks, you are absolutely right that they hit when your mind wanders. I was constantly asking the doctor why they seemed to happen when I hadn't really been thinking about anything stressful (ie. in line at Target, in the middle of the night out of a dead sleep, etc.). He said that is when it often happens. I think you are also correct, in my experience, that the best thing to do to try and control it, though it's hard, is to ask if there is anything you can do to fix it AT THE MOMENT.

Christy, your attack sounds like mine were--always about a million things at once, none of which could be addressed at that moment. It always helped me to tell myself to slow down and think about whether I could do anything about any of the things I was worrying about, and prioritize by addressing those I could, and telling myself that I couldn't really do anything about the ones I couldn't. I know it really stinks to have this happen. With myself, I had to learn to recognize that I was having an attack, and just slow everything down, because in my experience, they feed off themselves like a snowball going downhill. Good luck. I'll be thinking of you.

boolady
07-25-2006, 09:49 AM
As someone who went through about a 2 year period of getting very intense anxiety attacks, you are absolutely right that they hit when your mind wanders. I was constantly asking the doctor why they seemed to happen when I hadn't really been thinking about anything stressful (ie. in line at Target, in the middle of the night out of a dead sleep, etc.). He said that is when it often happens. I think you are also correct, in my experience, that the best thing to do to try and control it, though it's hard, is to ask if there is anything you can do to fix it AT THE MOMENT.

Christy, your attack sounds like mine were--always about a million things at once, none of which could be addressed at that moment. It always helped me to tell myself to slow down and think about whether I could do anything about any of the things I was worrying about, and prioritize by addressing those I could, and telling myself that I couldn't really do anything about the ones I couldn't. I know it really stinks to have this happen. With myself, I had to learn to recognize that I was having an attack, and just slow everything down, because in my experience, they feed off themselves like a snowball going downhill. Good luck. I'll be thinking of you.

boolady
07-25-2006, 09:49 AM
As someone who went through about a 2 year period of getting very intense anxiety attacks, you are absolutely right that they hit when your mind wanders. I was constantly asking the doctor why they seemed to happen when I hadn't really been thinking about anything stressful (ie. in line at Target, in the middle of the night out of a dead sleep, etc.). He said that is when it often happens. I think you are also correct, in my experience, that the best thing to do to try and control it, though it's hard, is to ask if there is anything you can do to fix it AT THE MOMENT.

Christy, your attack sounds like mine were--always about a million things at once, none of which could be addressed at that moment. It always helped me to tell myself to slow down and think about whether I could do anything about any of the things I was worrying about, and prioritize by addressing those I could, and telling myself that I couldn't really do anything about the ones I couldn't. I know it really stinks to have this happen. With myself, I had to learn to recognize that I was having an attack, and just slow everything down, because in my experience, they feed off themselves like a snowball going downhill. Good luck. I'll be thinking of you.

boolady
07-25-2006, 09:49 AM
As someone who went through about a 2 year period of getting very intense anxiety attacks, you are absolutely right that they hit when your mind wanders. I was constantly asking the doctor why they seemed to happen when I hadn't really been thinking about anything stressful (ie. in line at Target, in the middle of the night out of a dead sleep, etc.). He said that is when it often happens. I think you are also correct, in my experience, that the best thing to do to try and control it, though it's hard, is to ask if there is anything you can do to fix it AT THE MOMENT.

Christy, your attack sounds like mine were--always about a million things at once, none of which could be addressed at that moment. It always helped me to tell myself to slow down and think about whether I could do anything about any of the things I was worrying about, and prioritize by addressing those I could, and telling myself that I couldn't really do anything about the ones I couldn't. I know it really stinks to have this happen. With myself, I had to learn to recognize that I was having an attack, and just slow everything down, because in my experience, they feed off themselves like a snowball going downhill. Good luck. I'll be thinking of you.

boolady
07-25-2006, 09:49 AM
As someone who went through about a 2 year period of getting very intense anxiety attacks, you are absolutely right that they hit when your mind wanders. I was constantly asking the doctor why they seemed to happen when I hadn't really been thinking about anything stressful (ie. in line at Target, in the middle of the night out of a dead sleep, etc.). He said that is when it often happens. I think you are also correct, in my experience, that the best thing to do to try and control it, though it's hard, is to ask if there is anything you can do to fix it AT THE MOMENT.

Christy, your attack sounds like mine were--always about a million things at once, none of which could be addressed at that moment. It always helped me to tell myself to slow down and think about whether I could do anything about any of the things I was worrying about, and prioritize by addressing those I could, and telling myself that I couldn't really do anything about the ones I couldn't. I know it really stinks to have this happen. With myself, I had to learn to recognize that I was having an attack, and just slow everything down, because in my experience, they feed off themselves like a snowball going downhill. Good luck. I'll be thinking of you.

boolady
07-25-2006, 09:49 AM
As someone who went through about a 2 year period of getting very intense anxiety attacks, you are absolutely right that they hit when your mind wanders. I was constantly asking the doctor why they seemed to happen when I hadn't really been thinking about anything stressful (ie. in line at Target, in the middle of the night out of a dead sleep, etc.). He said that is when it often happens. I think you are also correct, in my experience, that the best thing to do to try and control it, though it's hard, is to ask if there is anything you can do to fix it AT THE MOMENT.

Christy, your attack sounds like mine were--always about a million things at once, none of which could be addressed at that moment. It always helped me to tell myself to slow down and think about whether I could do anything about any of the things I was worrying about, and prioritize by addressing those I could, and telling myself that I couldn't really do anything about the ones I couldn't. I know it really stinks to have this happen. With myself, I had to learn to recognize that I was having an attack, and just slow everything down, because in my experience, they feed off themselves like a snowball going downhill. Good luck. I'll be thinking of you.

boolady
07-25-2006, 09:49 AM
As someone who went through about a 2 year period of getting very intense anxiety attacks, you are absolutely right that they hit when your mind wanders. I was constantly asking the doctor why they seemed to happen when I hadn't really been thinking about anything stressful (ie. in line at Target, in the middle of the night out of a dead sleep, etc.). He said that is when it often happens. I think you are also correct, in my experience, that the best thing to do to try and control it, though it's hard, is to ask if there is anything you can do to fix it AT THE MOMENT.

Christy, your attack sounds like mine were--always about a million things at once, none of which could be addressed at that moment. It always helped me to tell myself to slow down and think about whether I could do anything about any of the things I was worrying about, and prioritize by addressing those I could, and telling myself that I couldn't really do anything about the ones I couldn't. I know it really stinks to have this happen. With myself, I had to learn to recognize that I was having an attack, and just slow everything down, because in my experience, they feed off themselves like a snowball going downhill. Good luck. I'll be thinking of you.

boolady
07-25-2006, 09:49 AM
As someone who went through about a 2 year period of getting very intense anxiety attacks, you are absolutely right that they hit when your mind wanders. I was constantly asking the doctor why they seemed to happen when I hadn't really been thinking about anything stressful (ie. in line at Target, in the middle of the night out of a dead sleep, etc.). He said that is when it often happens. I think you are also correct, in my experience, that the best thing to do to try and control it, though it's hard, is to ask if there is anything you can do to fix it AT THE MOMENT.

Christy, your attack sounds like mine were--always about a million things at once, none of which could be addressed at that moment. It always helped me to tell myself to slow down and think about whether I could do anything about any of the things I was worrying about, and prioritize by addressing those I could, and telling myself that I couldn't really do anything about the ones I couldn't. I know it really stinks to have this happen. With myself, I had to learn to recognize that I was having an attack, and just slow everything down, because in my experience, they feed off themselves like a snowball going downhill. Good luck. I'll be thinking of you.

buddyleebaby
07-25-2006, 09:52 AM
ITA with Becky. A house is just a house. A car is just a car. It is all just STUFF. If it comes down to it, you will survive. You will be ok. You are healthy, you have two beautiful healthy kids, and this is just a rough patch. It will pass.
Sometimes I find myself complaining about my crappy apartment and have to remind myself home lucky I am. I think about how thrilled mothers in third world countries would be to have what I have. A roof over their heads (albeit a small one), running water, heat, Medicine for my children. And I am grateful for what I DO have.
Just remember the truly important things in life. Hugs to you, I hope you and your dh find a way soon.

buddyleebaby
07-25-2006, 09:52 AM
ITA with Becky. A house is just a house. A car is just a car. It is all just STUFF. If it comes down to it, you will survive. You will be ok. You are healthy, you have two beautiful healthy kids, and this is just a rough patch. It will pass.
Sometimes I find myself complaining about my crappy apartment and have to remind myself home lucky I am. I think about how thrilled mothers in third world countries would be to have what I have. A roof over their heads (albeit a small one), running water, heat, Medicine for my children. And I am grateful for what I DO have.
Just remember the truly important things in life. Hugs to you, I hope you and your dh find a way soon.

buddyleebaby
07-25-2006, 09:52 AM
ITA with Becky. A house is just a house. A car is just a car. It is all just STUFF. If it comes down to it, you will survive. You will be ok. You are healthy, you have two beautiful healthy kids, and this is just a rough patch. It will pass.
Sometimes I find myself complaining about my crappy apartment and have to remind myself home lucky I am. I think about how thrilled mothers in third world countries would be to have what I have. A roof over their heads (albeit a small one), running water, heat, Medicine for my children. And I am grateful for what I DO have.
Just remember the truly important things in life. Hugs to you, I hope you and your dh find a way soon.

buddyleebaby
07-25-2006, 09:52 AM
ITA with Becky. A house is just a house. A car is just a car. It is all just STUFF. If it comes down to it, you will survive. You will be ok. You are healthy, you have two beautiful healthy kids, and this is just a rough patch. It will pass.
Sometimes I find myself complaining about my crappy apartment and have to remind myself home lucky I am. I think about how thrilled mothers in third world countries would be to have what I have. A roof over their heads (albeit a small one), running water, heat, Medicine for my children. And I am grateful for what I DO have.
Just remember the truly important things in life. Hugs to you, I hope you and your dh find a way soon.

buddyleebaby
07-25-2006, 09:52 AM
ITA with Becky. A house is just a house. A car is just a car. It is all just STUFF. If it comes down to it, you will survive. You will be ok. You are healthy, you have two beautiful healthy kids, and this is just a rough patch. It will pass.
Sometimes I find myself complaining about my crappy apartment and have to remind myself home lucky I am. I think about how thrilled mothers in third world countries would be to have what I have. A roof over their heads (albeit a small one), running water, heat, Medicine for my children. And I am grateful for what I DO have.
Just remember the truly important things in life. Hugs to you, I hope you and your dh find a way soon.

buddyleebaby
07-25-2006, 09:52 AM
ITA with Becky. A house is just a house. A car is just a car. It is all just STUFF. If it comes down to it, you will survive. You will be ok. You are healthy, you have two beautiful healthy kids, and this is just a rough patch. It will pass.
Sometimes I find myself complaining about my crappy apartment and have to remind myself home lucky I am. I think about how thrilled mothers in third world countries would be to have what I have. A roof over their heads (albeit a small one), running water, heat, Medicine for my children. And I am grateful for what I DO have.
Just remember the truly important things in life. Hugs to you, I hope you and your dh find a way soon.

buddyleebaby
07-25-2006, 09:52 AM
ITA with Becky. A house is just a house. A car is just a car. It is all just STUFF. If it comes down to it, you will survive. You will be ok. You are healthy, you have two beautiful healthy kids, and this is just a rough patch. It will pass.
Sometimes I find myself complaining about my crappy apartment and have to remind myself home lucky I am. I think about how thrilled mothers in third world countries would be to have what I have. A roof over their heads (albeit a small one), running water, heat, Medicine for my children. And I am grateful for what I DO have.
Just remember the truly important things in life. Hugs to you, I hope you and your dh find a way soon.

buddyleebaby
07-25-2006, 09:52 AM
ITA with Becky. A house is just a house. A car is just a car. It is all just STUFF. If it comes down to it, you will survive. You will be ok. You are healthy, you have two beautiful healthy kids, and this is just a rough patch. It will pass.
Sometimes I find myself complaining about my crappy apartment and have to remind myself home lucky I am. I think about how thrilled mothers in third world countries would be to have what I have. A roof over their heads (albeit a small one), running water, heat, Medicine for my children. And I am grateful for what I DO have.
Just remember the truly important things in life. Hugs to you, I hope you and your dh find a way soon.

buddyleebaby
07-25-2006, 09:52 AM
ITA with Becky. A house is just a house. A car is just a car. It is all just STUFF. If it comes down to it, you will survive. You will be ok. You are healthy, you have two beautiful healthy kids, and this is just a rough patch. It will pass.
Sometimes I find myself complaining about my crappy apartment and have to remind myself home lucky I am. I think about how thrilled mothers in third world countries would be to have what I have. A roof over their heads (albeit a small one), running water, heat, Medicine for my children. And I am grateful for what I DO have.
Just remember the truly important things in life. Hugs to you, I hope you and your dh find a way soon.

kaylinsmommy2
07-25-2006, 12:08 PM
Christy, what a stressful situation. No wonder you're having so much anxiety. Huge hugs to you. And props to you for taking the steps to try to get the situation fixed: looking for a job. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Hugs.

kaylinsmommy2
07-25-2006, 12:08 PM
Christy, what a stressful situation. No wonder you're having so much anxiety. Huge hugs to you. And props to you for taking the steps to try to get the situation fixed: looking for a job. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Hugs.

kaylinsmommy2
07-25-2006, 12:08 PM
Christy, what a stressful situation. No wonder you're having so much anxiety. Huge hugs to you. And props to you for taking the steps to try to get the situation fixed: looking for a job. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Hugs.

kaylinsmommy2
07-25-2006, 12:08 PM
Christy, what a stressful situation. No wonder you're having so much anxiety. Huge hugs to you. And props to you for taking the steps to try to get the situation fixed: looking for a job. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Hugs.

kaylinsmommy2
07-25-2006, 12:08 PM
Christy, what a stressful situation. No wonder you're having so much anxiety. Huge hugs to you. And props to you for taking the steps to try to get the situation fixed: looking for a job. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Hugs.

kaylinsmommy2
07-25-2006, 12:08 PM
Christy, what a stressful situation. No wonder you're having so much anxiety. Huge hugs to you. And props to you for taking the steps to try to get the situation fixed: looking for a job. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Hugs.

kaylinsmommy2
07-25-2006, 12:08 PM
Christy, what a stressful situation. No wonder you're having so much anxiety. Huge hugs to you. And props to you for taking the steps to try to get the situation fixed: looking for a job. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Hugs.

kaylinsmommy2
07-25-2006, 12:08 PM
Christy, what a stressful situation. No wonder you're having so much anxiety. Huge hugs to you. And props to you for taking the steps to try to get the situation fixed: looking for a job. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Hugs.

kaylinsmommy2
07-25-2006, 12:08 PM
Christy, what a stressful situation. No wonder you're having so much anxiety. Huge hugs to you. And props to you for taking the steps to try to get the situation fixed: looking for a job. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Hugs.

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:19 PM
Christy,

Big ((HUG)). Hang in there. I haven't had an anxiety attack in a while. But I do remember how awful they were when I did have one.

A long time ago.. .I was living in the Bay Area and got downsized. I had a lot of bills and car payment etc... I was about to have creditors on my back. This is what I did and maybe it can work for you.

1) Gather all your paperwork, check stubs etc....
2) Call your bank and mortage companies and ask to speak to the loan officers or someone who can help you.
3) Ask these people if there is anyway you can pay the interest only for the time you owe or for the next 2-3 months due to money issues. Most companies will let you do this. The interest is a lot lower than the whole payment for both your mortage and car payment. You will have to pay a couple of extra months eventually, but it allows you to catch-up money wise.
4) Then take a look at your credit cards etc.. See if you could get a consolidated loan for all these cards and combine them together with one loan. Usually when you do this you don't have to start paying them back for one-two months.
5) If you have any student loans, contact them and ask for time off due to financial distress. You have to fillout some paperwork but most loans let you do this.

Please just take a deep breath and start breaking it down to see what you can do. You will probably spend a couple of days on the phone non-stop but try to see what you can work out w/these institutions. It's in there best interest to work with you. The lose money on foreclosures etc..

Please let us know how you are doing. Take care!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:19 PM
Christy,

Big ((HUG)). Hang in there. I haven't had an anxiety attack in a while. But I do remember how awful they were when I did have one.

A long time ago.. .I was living in the Bay Area and got downsized. I had a lot of bills and car payment etc... I was about to have creditors on my back. This is what I did and maybe it can work for you.

1) Gather all your paperwork, check stubs etc....
2) Call your bank and mortage companies and ask to speak to the loan officers or someone who can help you.
3) Ask these people if there is anyway you can pay the interest only for the time you owe or for the next 2-3 months due to money issues. Most companies will let you do this. The interest is a lot lower than the whole payment for both your mortage and car payment. You will have to pay a couple of extra months eventually, but it allows you to catch-up money wise.
4) Then take a look at your credit cards etc.. See if you could get a consolidated loan for all these cards and combine them together with one loan. Usually when you do this you don't have to start paying them back for one-two months.
5) If you have any student loans, contact them and ask for time off due to financial distress. You have to fillout some paperwork but most loans let you do this.

Please just take a deep breath and start breaking it down to see what you can do. You will probably spend a couple of days on the phone non-stop but try to see what you can work out w/these institutions. It's in there best interest to work with you. The lose money on foreclosures etc..

Please let us know how you are doing. Take care!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:19 PM
Christy,

Big ((HUG)). Hang in there. I haven't had an anxiety attack in a while. But I do remember how awful they were when I did have one.

A long time ago.. .I was living in the Bay Area and got downsized. I had a lot of bills and car payment etc... I was about to have creditors on my back. This is what I did and maybe it can work for you.

1) Gather all your paperwork, check stubs etc....
2) Call your bank and mortage companies and ask to speak to the loan officers or someone who can help you.
3) Ask these people if there is anyway you can pay the interest only for the time you owe or for the next 2-3 months due to money issues. Most companies will let you do this. The interest is a lot lower than the whole payment for both your mortage and car payment. You will have to pay a couple of extra months eventually, but it allows you to catch-up money wise.
4) Then take a look at your credit cards etc.. See if you could get a consolidated loan for all these cards and combine them together with one loan. Usually when you do this you don't have to start paying them back for one-two months.
5) If you have any student loans, contact them and ask for time off due to financial distress. You have to fillout some paperwork but most loans let you do this.

Please just take a deep breath and start breaking it down to see what you can do. You will probably spend a couple of days on the phone non-stop but try to see what you can work out w/these institutions. It's in there best interest to work with you. The lose money on foreclosures etc..

Please let us know how you are doing. Take care!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:19 PM
Christy,

Big ((HUG)). Hang in there. I haven't had an anxiety attack in a while. But I do remember how awful they were when I did have one.

A long time ago.. .I was living in the Bay Area and got downsized. I had a lot of bills and car payment etc... I was about to have creditors on my back. This is what I did and maybe it can work for you.

1) Gather all your paperwork, check stubs etc....
2) Call your bank and mortage companies and ask to speak to the loan officers or someone who can help you.
3) Ask these people if there is anyway you can pay the interest only for the time you owe or for the next 2-3 months due to money issues. Most companies will let you do this. The interest is a lot lower than the whole payment for both your mortage and car payment. You will have to pay a couple of extra months eventually, but it allows you to catch-up money wise.
4) Then take a look at your credit cards etc.. See if you could get a consolidated loan for all these cards and combine them together with one loan. Usually when you do this you don't have to start paying them back for one-two months.
5) If you have any student loans, contact them and ask for time off due to financial distress. You have to fillout some paperwork but most loans let you do this.

Please just take a deep breath and start breaking it down to see what you can do. You will probably spend a couple of days on the phone non-stop but try to see what you can work out w/these institutions. It's in there best interest to work with you. The lose money on foreclosures etc..

Please let us know how you are doing. Take care!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:19 PM
Christy,

Big ((HUG)). Hang in there. I haven't had an anxiety attack in a while. But I do remember how awful they were when I did have one.

A long time ago.. .I was living in the Bay Area and got downsized. I had a lot of bills and car payment etc... I was about to have creditors on my back. This is what I did and maybe it can work for you.

1) Gather all your paperwork, check stubs etc....
2) Call your bank and mortage companies and ask to speak to the loan officers or someone who can help you.
3) Ask these people if there is anyway you can pay the interest only for the time you owe or for the next 2-3 months due to money issues. Most companies will let you do this. The interest is a lot lower than the whole payment for both your mortage and car payment. You will have to pay a couple of extra months eventually, but it allows you to catch-up money wise.
4) Then take a look at your credit cards etc.. See if you could get a consolidated loan for all these cards and combine them together with one loan. Usually when you do this you don't have to start paying them back for one-two months.
5) If you have any student loans, contact them and ask for time off due to financial distress. You have to fillout some paperwork but most loans let you do this.

Please just take a deep breath and start breaking it down to see what you can do. You will probably spend a couple of days on the phone non-stop but try to see what you can work out w/these institutions. It's in there best interest to work with you. The lose money on foreclosures etc..

Please let us know how you are doing. Take care!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:19 PM
Christy,

Big ((HUG)). Hang in there. I haven't had an anxiety attack in a while. But I do remember how awful they were when I did have one.

A long time ago.. .I was living in the Bay Area and got downsized. I had a lot of bills and car payment etc... I was about to have creditors on my back. This is what I did and maybe it can work for you.

1) Gather all your paperwork, check stubs etc....
2) Call your bank and mortage companies and ask to speak to the loan officers or someone who can help you.
3) Ask these people if there is anyway you can pay the interest only for the time you owe or for the next 2-3 months due to money issues. Most companies will let you do this. The interest is a lot lower than the whole payment for both your mortage and car payment. You will have to pay a couple of extra months eventually, but it allows you to catch-up money wise.
4) Then take a look at your credit cards etc.. See if you could get a consolidated loan for all these cards and combine them together with one loan. Usually when you do this you don't have to start paying them back for one-two months.
5) If you have any student loans, contact them and ask for time off due to financial distress. You have to fillout some paperwork but most loans let you do this.

Please just take a deep breath and start breaking it down to see what you can do. You will probably spend a couple of days on the phone non-stop but try to see what you can work out w/these institutions. It's in there best interest to work with you. The lose money on foreclosures etc..

Please let us know how you are doing. Take care!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:19 PM
Christy,

Big ((HUG)). Hang in there. I haven't had an anxiety attack in a while. But I do remember how awful they were when I did have one.

A long time ago.. .I was living in the Bay Area and got downsized. I had a lot of bills and car payment etc... I was about to have creditors on my back. This is what I did and maybe it can work for you.

1) Gather all your paperwork, check stubs etc....
2) Call your bank and mortage companies and ask to speak to the loan officers or someone who can help you.
3) Ask these people if there is anyway you can pay the interest only for the time you owe or for the next 2-3 months due to money issues. Most companies will let you do this. The interest is a lot lower than the whole payment for both your mortage and car payment. You will have to pay a couple of extra months eventually, but it allows you to catch-up money wise.
4) Then take a look at your credit cards etc.. See if you could get a consolidated loan for all these cards and combine them together with one loan. Usually when you do this you don't have to start paying them back for one-two months.
5) If you have any student loans, contact them and ask for time off due to financial distress. You have to fillout some paperwork but most loans let you do this.

Please just take a deep breath and start breaking it down to see what you can do. You will probably spend a couple of days on the phone non-stop but try to see what you can work out w/these institutions. It's in there best interest to work with you. The lose money on foreclosures etc..

Please let us know how you are doing. Take care!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:19 PM
Christy,

Big ((HUG)). Hang in there. I haven't had an anxiety attack in a while. But I do remember how awful they were when I did have one.

A long time ago.. .I was living in the Bay Area and got downsized. I had a lot of bills and car payment etc... I was about to have creditors on my back. This is what I did and maybe it can work for you.

1) Gather all your paperwork, check stubs etc....
2) Call your bank and mortage companies and ask to speak to the loan officers or someone who can help you.
3) Ask these people if there is anyway you can pay the interest only for the time you owe or for the next 2-3 months due to money issues. Most companies will let you do this. The interest is a lot lower than the whole payment for both your mortage and car payment. You will have to pay a couple of extra months eventually, but it allows you to catch-up money wise.
4) Then take a look at your credit cards etc.. See if you could get a consolidated loan for all these cards and combine them together with one loan. Usually when you do this you don't have to start paying them back for one-two months.
5) If you have any student loans, contact them and ask for time off due to financial distress. You have to fillout some paperwork but most loans let you do this.

Please just take a deep breath and start breaking it down to see what you can do. You will probably spend a couple of days on the phone non-stop but try to see what you can work out w/these institutions. It's in there best interest to work with you. The lose money on foreclosures etc..

Please let us know how you are doing. Take care!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:19 PM
Christy,

Big ((HUG)). Hang in there. I haven't had an anxiety attack in a while. But I do remember how awful they were when I did have one.

A long time ago.. .I was living in the Bay Area and got downsized. I had a lot of bills and car payment etc... I was about to have creditors on my back. This is what I did and maybe it can work for you.

1) Gather all your paperwork, check stubs etc....
2) Call your bank and mortage companies and ask to speak to the loan officers or someone who can help you.
3) Ask these people if there is anyway you can pay the interest only for the time you owe or for the next 2-3 months due to money issues. Most companies will let you do this. The interest is a lot lower than the whole payment for both your mortage and car payment. You will have to pay a couple of extra months eventually, but it allows you to catch-up money wise.
4) Then take a look at your credit cards etc.. See if you could get a consolidated loan for all these cards and combine them together with one loan. Usually when you do this you don't have to start paying them back for one-two months.
5) If you have any student loans, contact them and ask for time off due to financial distress. You have to fillout some paperwork but most loans let you do this.

Please just take a deep breath and start breaking it down to see what you can do. You will probably spend a couple of days on the phone non-stop but try to see what you can work out w/these institutions. It's in there best interest to work with you. The lose money on foreclosures etc..

Please let us know how you are doing. Take care!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:25 PM
I am having some computer issues... but only w/the BBB board. I keep double posting sorry. I keep getting unable to load messages but then am surprised when things actually do load. ARGH!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:25 PM
I am having some computer issues... but only w/the BBB board. I keep double posting sorry. I keep getting unable to load messages but then am surprised when things actually do load. ARGH!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:25 PM
I am having some computer issues... but only w/the BBB board. I keep double posting sorry. I keep getting unable to load messages but then am surprised when things actually do load. ARGH!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:25 PM
I am having some computer issues... but only w/the BBB board. I keep double posting sorry. I keep getting unable to load messages but then am surprised when things actually do load. ARGH!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:25 PM
I am having some computer issues... but only w/the BBB board. I keep double posting sorry. I keep getting unable to load messages but then am surprised when things actually do load. ARGH!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:25 PM
I am having some computer issues... but only w/the BBB board. I keep double posting sorry. I keep getting unable to load messages but then am surprised when things actually do load. ARGH!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:25 PM
I am having some computer issues... but only w/the BBB board. I keep double posting sorry. I keep getting unable to load messages but then am surprised when things actually do load. ARGH!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:25 PM
I am having some computer issues... but only w/the BBB board. I keep double posting sorry. I keep getting unable to load messages but then am surprised when things actually do load. ARGH!

BaileyBea
07-25-2006, 12:25 PM
I am having some computer issues... but only w/the BBB board. I keep double posting sorry. I keep getting unable to load messages but then am surprised when things actually do load. ARGH!

saschalicks
07-25-2006, 03:20 PM
Christy,
Please know you are not alone. My DH & I BOTH work full time and we are behind on rent our car payment is always late. We have bill collectors calling all of the time and we don't own a home. My DH was out of work for almost 2 years total before he got this job.

Christy you are not alone. Please know that. I understand I am with you, and I am on medication too. :P Vent here b/c I know there are others like us who understand.

Don't worry about your mom she will understand when she actually answers the phone. If it helps my mom just got off of the phone b/c I was complaining about no money and she said, "not to worry that she struggled too, and in the end it will all work out."

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

saschalicks
07-25-2006, 03:20 PM
Christy,
Please know you are not alone. My DH & I BOTH work full time and we are behind on rent our car payment is always late. We have bill collectors calling all of the time and we don't own a home. My DH was out of work for almost 2 years total before he got this job.

Christy you are not alone. Please know that. I understand I am with you, and I am on medication too. :P Vent here b/c I know there are others like us who understand.

Don't worry about your mom she will understand when she actually answers the phone. If it helps my mom just got off of the phone b/c I was complaining about no money and she said, "not to worry that she struggled too, and in the end it will all work out."

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

saschalicks
07-25-2006, 03:20 PM
Christy,
Please know you are not alone. My DH & I BOTH work full time and we are behind on rent our car payment is always late. We have bill collectors calling all of the time and we don't own a home. My DH was out of work for almost 2 years total before he got this job.

Christy you are not alone. Please know that. I understand I am with you, and I am on medication too. :P Vent here b/c I know there are others like us who understand.

Don't worry about your mom she will understand when she actually answers the phone. If it helps my mom just got off of the phone b/c I was complaining about no money and she said, "not to worry that she struggled too, and in the end it will all work out."

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

saschalicks
07-25-2006, 03:20 PM
Christy,
Please know you are not alone. My DH & I BOTH work full time and we are behind on rent our car payment is always late. We have bill collectors calling all of the time and we don't own a home. My DH was out of work for almost 2 years total before he got this job.

Christy you are not alone. Please know that. I understand I am with you, and I am on medication too. :P Vent here b/c I know there are others like us who understand.

Don't worry about your mom she will understand when she actually answers the phone. If it helps my mom just got off of the phone b/c I was complaining about no money and she said, "not to worry that she struggled too, and in the end it will all work out."

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

saschalicks
07-25-2006, 03:20 PM
Christy,
Please know you are not alone. My DH & I BOTH work full time and we are behind on rent our car payment is always late. We have bill collectors calling all of the time and we don't own a home. My DH was out of work for almost 2 years total before he got this job.

Christy you are not alone. Please know that. I understand I am with you, and I am on medication too. :P Vent here b/c I know there are others like us who understand.

Don't worry about your mom she will understand when she actually answers the phone. If it helps my mom just got off of the phone b/c I was complaining about no money and she said, "not to worry that she struggled too, and in the end it will all work out."

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

saschalicks
07-25-2006, 03:20 PM
Christy,
Please know you are not alone. My DH & I BOTH work full time and we are behind on rent our car payment is always late. We have bill collectors calling all of the time and we don't own a home. My DH was out of work for almost 2 years total before he got this job.

Christy you are not alone. Please know that. I understand I am with you, and I am on medication too. :P Vent here b/c I know there are others like us who understand.

Don't worry about your mom she will understand when she actually answers the phone. If it helps my mom just got off of the phone b/c I was complaining about no money and she said, "not to worry that she struggled too, and in the end it will all work out."

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

saschalicks
07-25-2006, 03:20 PM
Christy,
Please know you are not alone. My DH & I BOTH work full time and we are behind on rent our car payment is always late. We have bill collectors calling all of the time and we don't own a home. My DH was out of work for almost 2 years total before he got this job.

Christy you are not alone. Please know that. I understand I am with you, and I am on medication too. :P Vent here b/c I know there are others like us who understand.

Don't worry about your mom she will understand when she actually answers the phone. If it helps my mom just got off of the phone b/c I was complaining about no money and she said, "not to worry that she struggled too, and in the end it will all work out."

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

saschalicks
07-25-2006, 03:20 PM
Christy,
Please know you are not alone. My DH & I BOTH work full time and we are behind on rent our car payment is always late. We have bill collectors calling all of the time and we don't own a home. My DH was out of work for almost 2 years total before he got this job.

Christy you are not alone. Please know that. I understand I am with you, and I am on medication too. :P Vent here b/c I know there are others like us who understand.

Don't worry about your mom she will understand when she actually answers the phone. If it helps my mom just got off of the phone b/c I was complaining about no money and she said, "not to worry that she struggled too, and in the end it will all work out."

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

saschalicks
07-25-2006, 03:20 PM
Christy,
Please know you are not alone. My DH & I BOTH work full time and we are behind on rent our car payment is always late. We have bill collectors calling all of the time and we don't own a home. My DH was out of work for almost 2 years total before he got this job.

Christy you are not alone. Please know that. I understand I am with you, and I am on medication too. :P Vent here b/c I know there are others like us who understand.

Don't worry about your mom she will understand when she actually answers the phone. If it helps my mom just got off of the phone b/c I was complaining about no money and she said, "not to worry that she struggled too, and in the end it will all work out."

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 04:22 PM
I feel a little better today. Still stressed and very tired. I didn't get much sleep last night. Today I contacted the loss mitigation services for the house and the car company. We are working with them to see if there is anything we can do in the mean time.

I went out and weeded my garden and that helped as an outlet for my frustration.

Thank you so much to all of you for your words of encouragement. I really feel like I just complain anymore and I've been so isolated doing the SAHM thing. It just made it all that much worse yesterday. I want to stay home with the kids more than anything, but I have been feeling so overwhelmed that I can relate to Liza's post in the lounge.

I really hope we can dig ourselves out of this hole. Thanks again. {{{Hugs}}}

Christy
My Waterbabies
http://b3.lilypie.com/uVw3m4/.png

http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v221/steitzsmith/Other/jump.gif

ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 04:22 PM
I feel a little better today. Still stressed and very tired. I didn't get much sleep last night. Today I contacted the loss mitigation services for the house and the car company. We are working with them to see if there is anything we can do in the mean time.

I went out and weeded my garden and that helped as an outlet for my frustration.

Thank you so much to all of you for your words of encouragement. I really feel like I just complain anymore and I've been so isolated doing the SAHM thing. It just made it all that much worse yesterday. I want to stay home with the kids more than anything, but I have been feeling so overwhelmed that I can relate to Liza's post in the lounge.

I really hope we can dig ourselves out of this hole. Thanks again. {{{Hugs}}}

Christy
My Waterbabies
http://b3.lilypie.com/uVw3m4/.png

http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v221/steitzsmith/Other/jump.gif

ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 04:22 PM
I feel a little better today. Still stressed and very tired. I didn't get much sleep last night. Today I contacted the loss mitigation services for the house and the car company. We are working with them to see if there is anything we can do in the mean time.

I went out and weeded my garden and that helped as an outlet for my frustration.

Thank you so much to all of you for your words of encouragement. I really feel like I just complain anymore and I've been so isolated doing the SAHM thing. It just made it all that much worse yesterday. I want to stay home with the kids more than anything, but I have been feeling so overwhelmed that I can relate to Liza's post in the lounge.

I really hope we can dig ourselves out of this hole. Thanks again. {{{Hugs}}}

Christy
My Waterbabies
http://b3.lilypie.com/uVw3m4/.png

http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v221/steitzsmith/Other/jump.gif

ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 04:22 PM
I feel a little better today. Still stressed and very tired. I didn't get much sleep last night. Today I contacted the loss mitigation services for the house and the car company. We are working with them to see if there is anything we can do in the mean time.

I went out and weeded my garden and that helped as an outlet for my frustration.

Thank you so much to all of you for your words of encouragement. I really feel like I just complain anymore and I've been so isolated doing the SAHM thing. It just made it all that much worse yesterday. I want to stay home with the kids more than anything, but I have been feeling so overwhelmed that I can relate to Liza's post in the lounge.

I really hope we can dig ourselves out of this hole. Thanks again. {{{Hugs}}}

Christy
My Waterbabies
http://b3.lilypie.com/uVw3m4/.png

http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v221/steitzsmith/Other/jump.gif

ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 04:22 PM
I feel a little better today. Still stressed and very tired. I didn't get much sleep last night. Today I contacted the loss mitigation services for the house and the car company. We are working with them to see if there is anything we can do in the mean time.

I went out and weeded my garden and that helped as an outlet for my frustration.

Thank you so much to all of you for your words of encouragement. I really feel like I just complain anymore and I've been so isolated doing the SAHM thing. It just made it all that much worse yesterday. I want to stay home with the kids more than anything, but I have been feeling so overwhelmed that I can relate to Liza's post in the lounge.

I really hope we can dig ourselves out of this hole. Thanks again. {{{Hugs}}}

Christy
My Waterbabies
http://b3.lilypie.com/uVw3m4/.png

http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v221/steitzsmith/Other/jump.gif

ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 04:22 PM
I feel a little better today. Still stressed and very tired. I didn't get much sleep last night. Today I contacted the loss mitigation services for the house and the car company. We are working with them to see if there is anything we can do in the mean time.

I went out and weeded my garden and that helped as an outlet for my frustration.

Thank you so much to all of you for your words of encouragement. I really feel like I just complain anymore and I've been so isolated doing the SAHM thing. It just made it all that much worse yesterday. I want to stay home with the kids more than anything, but I have been feeling so overwhelmed that I can relate to Liza's post in the lounge.

I really hope we can dig ourselves out of this hole. Thanks again. {{{Hugs}}}

Christy
My Waterbabies
http://b3.lilypie.com/uVw3m4/.png

http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v221/steitzsmith/Other/jump.gif

ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 04:22 PM
I feel a little better today. Still stressed and very tired. I didn't get much sleep last night. Today I contacted the loss mitigation services for the house and the car company. We are working with them to see if there is anything we can do in the mean time.

I went out and weeded my garden and that helped as an outlet for my frustration.

Thank you so much to all of you for your words of encouragement. I really feel like I just complain anymore and I've been so isolated doing the SAHM thing. It just made it all that much worse yesterday. I want to stay home with the kids more than anything, but I have been feeling so overwhelmed that I can relate to Liza's post in the lounge.

I really hope we can dig ourselves out of this hole. Thanks again. {{{Hugs}}}

Christy
My Waterbabies
http://b3.lilypie.com/uVw3m4/.png

http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v221/steitzsmith/Other/jump.gif

ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 04:22 PM
I feel a little better today. Still stressed and very tired. I didn't get much sleep last night. Today I contacted the loss mitigation services for the house and the car company. We are working with them to see if there is anything we can do in the mean time.

I went out and weeded my garden and that helped as an outlet for my frustration.

Thank you so much to all of you for your words of encouragement. I really feel like I just complain anymore and I've been so isolated doing the SAHM thing. It just made it all that much worse yesterday. I want to stay home with the kids more than anything, but I have been feeling so overwhelmed that I can relate to Liza's post in the lounge.

I really hope we can dig ourselves out of this hole. Thanks again. {{{Hugs}}}

Christy
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ribbit1019
07-25-2006, 04:22 PM
I feel a little better today. Still stressed and very tired. I didn't get much sleep last night. Today I contacted the loss mitigation services for the house and the car company. We are working with them to see if there is anything we can do in the mean time.

I went out and weeded my garden and that helped as an outlet for my frustration.

Thank you so much to all of you for your words of encouragement. I really feel like I just complain anymore and I've been so isolated doing the SAHM thing. It just made it all that much worse yesterday. I want to stay home with the kids more than anything, but I have been feeling so overwhelmed that I can relate to Liza's post in the lounge.

I really hope we can dig ourselves out of this hole. Thanks again. {{{Hugs}}}

Christy
My Waterbabies
http://b3.lilypie.com/uVw3m4/.png

http://b1.lilypie.com/tbvhm4/.png
http://www.tickercentral.com/view/6p3x/1.png

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v221/steitzsmith/Other/jump.gif

mommyoftwo
07-25-2006, 09:12 PM
Christy, I'm really sorry about what you are going through. Things are not quite as bad here, but it is really tight financially. I totally underestand how stressful and overwhelming it is. I get totally overwhelmed and paralyzed by things too. I just try to focus on one or two things that I can physically do to help the situation at that time and try to let the rest go for a while. Definitely easier said than done. I hope you are able to get things worked out and I hope you start feeling better soon. Good for you getting out to weed the garden. Physical activity is a great way to blow off some steam.

mommyoftwo
07-25-2006, 09:12 PM
Christy, I'm really sorry about what you are going through. Things are not quite as bad here, but it is really tight financially. I totally underestand how stressful and overwhelming it is. I get totally overwhelmed and paralyzed by things too. I just try to focus on one or two things that I can physically do to help the situation at that time and try to let the rest go for a while. Definitely easier said than done. I hope you are able to get things worked out and I hope you start feeling better soon. Good for you getting out to weed the garden. Physical activity is a great way to blow off some steam.

mommyoftwo
07-25-2006, 09:12 PM
Christy, I'm really sorry about what you are going through. Things are not quite as bad here, but it is really tight financially. I totally underestand how stressful and overwhelming it is. I get totally overwhelmed and paralyzed by things too. I just try to focus on one or two things that I can physically do to help the situation at that time and try to let the rest go for a while. Definitely easier said than done. I hope you are able to get things worked out and I hope you start feeling better soon. Good for you getting out to weed the garden. Physical activity is a great way to blow off some steam.

mommyoftwo
07-25-2006, 09:12 PM
Christy, I'm really sorry about what you are going through. Things are not quite as bad here, but it is really tight financially. I totally underestand how stressful and overwhelming it is. I get totally overwhelmed and paralyzed by things too. I just try to focus on one or two things that I can physically do to help the situation at that time and try to let the rest go for a while. Definitely easier said than done. I hope you are able to get things worked out and I hope you start feeling better soon. Good for you getting out to weed the garden. Physical activity is a great way to blow off some steam.

mommyoftwo
07-25-2006, 09:12 PM
Christy, I'm really sorry about what you are going through. Things are not quite as bad here, but it is really tight financially. I totally underestand how stressful and overwhelming it is. I get totally overwhelmed and paralyzed by things too. I just try to focus on one or two things that I can physically do to help the situation at that time and try to let the rest go for a while. Definitely easier said than done. I hope you are able to get things worked out and I hope you start feeling better soon. Good for you getting out to weed the garden. Physical activity is a great way to blow off some steam.

mommyoftwo
07-25-2006, 09:12 PM
Christy, I'm really sorry about what you are going through. Things are not quite as bad here, but it is really tight financially. I totally underestand how stressful and overwhelming it is. I get totally overwhelmed and paralyzed by things too. I just try to focus on one or two things that I can physically do to help the situation at that time and try to let the rest go for a while. Definitely easier said than done. I hope you are able to get things worked out and I hope you start feeling better soon. Good for you getting out to weed the garden. Physical activity is a great way to blow off some steam.

mommyoftwo
07-25-2006, 09:12 PM
Christy, I'm really sorry about what you are going through. Things are not quite as bad here, but it is really tight financially. I totally underestand how stressful and overwhelming it is. I get totally overwhelmed and paralyzed by things too. I just try to focus on one or two things that I can physically do to help the situation at that time and try to let the rest go for a while. Definitely easier said than done. I hope you are able to get things worked out and I hope you start feeling better soon. Good for you getting out to weed the garden. Physical activity is a great way to blow off some steam.

mommyoftwo
07-25-2006, 09:12 PM
Christy, I'm really sorry about what you are going through. Things are not quite as bad here, but it is really tight financially. I totally underestand how stressful and overwhelming it is. I get totally overwhelmed and paralyzed by things too. I just try to focus on one or two things that I can physically do to help the situation at that time and try to let the rest go for a while. Definitely easier said than done. I hope you are able to get things worked out and I hope you start feeling better soon. Good for you getting out to weed the garden. Physical activity is a great way to blow off some steam.

mommyoftwo
07-25-2006, 09:12 PM
Christy, I'm really sorry about what you are going through. Things are not quite as bad here, but it is really tight financially. I totally underestand how stressful and overwhelming it is. I get totally overwhelmed and paralyzed by things too. I just try to focus on one or two things that I can physically do to help the situation at that time and try to let the rest go for a while. Definitely easier said than done. I hope you are able to get things worked out and I hope you start feeling better soon. Good for you getting out to weed the garden. Physical activity is a great way to blow off some steam.

mommy_someday
07-25-2006, 10:29 PM
Oh, Christy! (((HUGS))) to you. Anyone going through all of that would have every right to have a freak-out. I know I would've had one! I think it's crummy that your mom didn't take your call (although I get that she was possibly maxxed out emotionally). I hope you and DH can get things figured out soon. Just try to take lots of deep breaths and take it one step at a time.

mommy_someday
07-25-2006, 10:29 PM
Oh, Christy! (((HUGS))) to you. Anyone going through all of that would have every right to have a freak-out. I know I would've had one! I think it's crummy that your mom didn't take your call (although I get that she was possibly maxxed out emotionally). I hope you and DH can get things figured out soon. Just try to take lots of deep breaths and take it one step at a time.

mommy_someday
07-25-2006, 10:29 PM
Oh, Christy! (((HUGS))) to you. Anyone going through all of that would have every right to have a freak-out. I know I would've had one! I think it's crummy that your mom didn't take your call (although I get that she was possibly maxxed out emotionally). I hope you and DH can get things figured out soon. Just try to take lots of deep breaths and take it one step at a time.

mommy_someday
07-25-2006, 10:29 PM
Oh, Christy! (((HUGS))) to you. Anyone going through all of that would have every right to have a freak-out. I know I would've had one! I think it's crummy that your mom didn't take your call (although I get that she was possibly maxxed out emotionally). I hope you and DH can get things figured out soon. Just try to take lots of deep breaths and take it one step at a time.

mommy_someday
07-25-2006, 10:29 PM
Oh, Christy! (((HUGS))) to you. Anyone going through all of that would have every right to have a freak-out. I know I would've had one! I think it's crummy that your mom didn't take your call (although I get that she was possibly maxxed out emotionally). I hope you and DH can get things figured out soon. Just try to take lots of deep breaths and take it one step at a time.

mommy_someday
07-25-2006, 10:29 PM
Oh, Christy! (((HUGS))) to you. Anyone going through all of that would have every right to have a freak-out. I know I would've had one! I think it's crummy that your mom didn't take your call (although I get that she was possibly maxxed out emotionally). I hope you and DH can get things figured out soon. Just try to take lots of deep breaths and take it one step at a time.

mommy_someday
07-25-2006, 10:29 PM
Oh, Christy! (((HUGS))) to you. Anyone going through all of that would have every right to have a freak-out. I know I would've had one! I think it's crummy that your mom didn't take your call (although I get that she was possibly maxxed out emotionally). I hope you and DH can get things figured out soon. Just try to take lots of deep breaths and take it one step at a time.

mommy_someday
07-25-2006, 10:29 PM
Oh, Christy! (((HUGS))) to you. Anyone going through all of that would have every right to have a freak-out. I know I would've had one! I think it's crummy that your mom didn't take your call (although I get that she was possibly maxxed out emotionally). I hope you and DH can get things figured out soon. Just try to take lots of deep breaths and take it one step at a time.

mommy_someday
07-25-2006, 10:29 PM
Oh, Christy! (((HUGS))) to you. Anyone going through all of that would have every right to have a freak-out. I know I would've had one! I think it's crummy that your mom didn't take your call (although I get that she was possibly maxxed out emotionally). I hope you and DH can get things figured out soon. Just try to take lots of deep breaths and take it one step at a time.