momofmany
11-17-2006, 12:58 AM
I need some insight (I'm a lurker but rarely post). My DH is returning from a 10 day trip to Asia tomorrow morning. He traveled to visit his ailing father (age 87 and is is decline of mental health). The trip, while unexpected, was booked about 1 month ago and is his second to see his father this year. i understand his need to go and support him.
However, my issue that in the 10 days he was gone, he didn't call - not even once! He e-mailed me a twice and I responded to both, but he couldn't be bothered to call. I'm feeling irritated and hurt. I know he'll say "it's expensive to call" - .20 cents/minutes - roughly the same as a cup of coffee for a short call. Unbelieveable.
I could have called him - however it's a bit complicated and I never know if the person answering will speak English. It's very easy for him to call - he has a cell phone as do all the relatives he's visiting and his father has a land line.
I am totally able to parent our family on my own, however with four dc, a part time business of my own, and a busy volunteer schedule this trip has taken alot out of me. All I needed was one call - my children would have liked to talk to him too.
Ok - I feel better. I also just booked a trip to Mexico with my sisters in Feb. I don't think I'll call home then either.
Thanks for the space to get this off my chest.
However, my issue that in the 10 days he was gone, he didn't call - not even once! He e-mailed me a twice and I responded to both, but he couldn't be bothered to call. I'm feeling irritated and hurt. I know he'll say "it's expensive to call" - .20 cents/minutes - roughly the same as a cup of coffee for a short call. Unbelieveable.
I could have called him - however it's a bit complicated and I never know if the person answering will speak English. It's very easy for him to call - he has a cell phone as do all the relatives he's visiting and his father has a land line.
I am totally able to parent our family on my own, however with four dc, a part time business of my own, and a busy volunteer schedule this trip has taken alot out of me. All I needed was one call - my children would have liked to talk to him too.
Ok - I feel better. I also just booked a trip to Mexico with my sisters in Feb. I don't think I'll call home then either.
Thanks for the space to get this off my chest.