annasmom
12-19-2006, 02:39 PM
I just got off of the phone with my sil and she never ceases to amaze me. Some background . . . my dh's family doesn't celebrate Christmas as a religious holiday, but does get together as a family and exchange gifts. About a month or two ago, I suggested to dh that we set in motion a date when we could all get together at our house and celebrate. Anyway, somehow it got changed to my sil's house. I think because her dh is working that day.
A side note- my sil refuses to drive alone with her ds for distances greater than 10 minutes (I kid you not). She says that he once threw a sippy cup at her and she cannot do it. So there is no way she would come to our house with her ds without her dh. She gets no sympathy from me who routinely drives 1.5 hours to my parents' house alone with 3 children.
Anyway, we have been trying to call her for about a week now to solidify plans, and guess what! There are no plans. I know this may sound petty, but the last time I spent a major holiday with this woman was a Thanksgiving and I kid you not the only food we were given was chips and salsa. Oh, and she ordered take-out at about 10:30 at night. So someone tell me please, why I am packing up my three kids to go to her house??? OH!! And, her house is completely not child-friendly. Even though she has a two year old she refuses to child-proof her house. Again, I kid you not, instead of child-proofing her house she sends her ds to child care 3 days a week. I am not kidding- that is the reason she sent him to daycare.
I just so wish that we had stuck with our original plan to have everyone over here. I guess a good point about going to their house, is that we can leave!!
O.k., vent over. I feel better now.
A side note- my sil refuses to drive alone with her ds for distances greater than 10 minutes (I kid you not). She says that he once threw a sippy cup at her and she cannot do it. So there is no way she would come to our house with her ds without her dh. She gets no sympathy from me who routinely drives 1.5 hours to my parents' house alone with 3 children.
Anyway, we have been trying to call her for about a week now to solidify plans, and guess what! There are no plans. I know this may sound petty, but the last time I spent a major holiday with this woman was a Thanksgiving and I kid you not the only food we were given was chips and salsa. Oh, and she ordered take-out at about 10:30 at night. So someone tell me please, why I am packing up my three kids to go to her house??? OH!! And, her house is completely not child-friendly. Even though she has a two year old she refuses to child-proof her house. Again, I kid you not, instead of child-proofing her house she sends her ds to child care 3 days a week. I am not kidding- that is the reason she sent him to daycare.
I just so wish that we had stuck with our original plan to have everyone over here. I guess a good point about going to their house, is that we can leave!!
O.k., vent over. I feel better now.