SpaceGal
05-23-2007, 12:14 AM
So it's been a really rough month for me, for every week this month I've had bad things happen.
First week, my grandma passed away, the next week, I had a D&C done because my OB found placental tissue in my uterus that my body never got rid of after the birth of DS#2, then last week DS#1 caused a big accident resulting in me falling off a few steps and bruising my tailbone.
But I'm not actually bothered too much about these things...more so that when I was telling a friend of mine about my accident I got that condensending tone from my friend. Long story short, DS#1 was outside playing and started to act up...he's two and well there's been a lot going on, new baby, the summer's here and heck he's got cabin fever being couped up most days since we're not out and about as much as we used to be. Well once he began his temper tantrum, I told him he's got to go inside if he can't behave, so of course he doesn't want to so I pick him up and bring him inside, as I do, he kicks the door before I could open it making me fall back on my butt.
When I told her this story I was like yeah oh well just the normal 2 year old terrible twos. She was like wow he's crazy and you could tell she's thinking I have like a devil child or something. So I ask her, how her two year old is and she tells me he's not like that at all, he listens and behaves all the time and has never thrown a tantrum. UGH!! PLEASE!! Spare me that crap. Seriously I never thought her two year was normal. Yes he's a good kid but a bit oddly too quiet and introverted. But you don't need to make me feel like I have the devil's child. DS#1 is pretty normal and I would say 60-70% of the time is good and listens...but there's that 30-40% where he's not that great. Most kids I know are like this...nothing like my friend's son...it just pissed me off so much that she gave me that whole oh man he's nuts and gave me that oh my son is an angel tone.
I know i'm probably not in the best of moods these days since my butt is in serious pain and will be for the next two months or so...but geez...tell me I'm not the only one to feel lik I can't stand those moms that have the abnormally well behaved children but make you feel like you're sore out of luck with your devil child.
Oh well I just needed to vent...thank you for listening I feel tons better now.
First week, my grandma passed away, the next week, I had a D&C done because my OB found placental tissue in my uterus that my body never got rid of after the birth of DS#2, then last week DS#1 caused a big accident resulting in me falling off a few steps and bruising my tailbone.
But I'm not actually bothered too much about these things...more so that when I was telling a friend of mine about my accident I got that condensending tone from my friend. Long story short, DS#1 was outside playing and started to act up...he's two and well there's been a lot going on, new baby, the summer's here and heck he's got cabin fever being couped up most days since we're not out and about as much as we used to be. Well once he began his temper tantrum, I told him he's got to go inside if he can't behave, so of course he doesn't want to so I pick him up and bring him inside, as I do, he kicks the door before I could open it making me fall back on my butt.
When I told her this story I was like yeah oh well just the normal 2 year old terrible twos. She was like wow he's crazy and you could tell she's thinking I have like a devil child or something. So I ask her, how her two year old is and she tells me he's not like that at all, he listens and behaves all the time and has never thrown a tantrum. UGH!! PLEASE!! Spare me that crap. Seriously I never thought her two year was normal. Yes he's a good kid but a bit oddly too quiet and introverted. But you don't need to make me feel like I have the devil's child. DS#1 is pretty normal and I would say 60-70% of the time is good and listens...but there's that 30-40% where he's not that great. Most kids I know are like this...nothing like my friend's son...it just pissed me off so much that she gave me that whole oh man he's nuts and gave me that oh my son is an angel tone.
I know i'm probably not in the best of moods these days since my butt is in serious pain and will be for the next two months or so...but geez...tell me I'm not the only one to feel lik I can't stand those moms that have the abnormally well behaved children but make you feel like you're sore out of luck with your devil child.
Oh well I just needed to vent...thank you for listening I feel tons better now.