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Christeen_Trevor
06-16-2007, 10:19 PM
When the kids and I came home from shopping for a shirt for fathers day. DH had piled his stuff by the door and told me he was leaving me.
Chris
Wife_and_mommy
06-16-2007, 10:25 PM
OMGosh. I am so sorry. What a day he picked. :(
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tarabenet
06-16-2007, 10:26 PM
Wow, Chris. How are you? Or can you even tell, through the shock? I don't have anything useful to tell you. Right now, no one really can, I suspect. But I want you ton know someone else is awake at on-line and hears you.
gatorsmom
06-16-2007, 10:32 PM
Wow, what the hell is wrong with him that he did that in front of the kids? And today of all days. Big, big hugs- I'm so sorry.
Lisa
Mom to Gator July 2003
And Cha-Cha July 2005
and surprise! twins due 11/07!
trumansmom
06-16-2007, 11:03 PM
((((Hugs))))
I don't have a clue what to say to you, but please, please know we are all here for you. Whenever you need us. Whenever.
More ((((Hugs))))
Jeanne
Mom to Truman 11/01 and Eleanor 4/04
almostamom
06-16-2007, 11:08 PM
Selfish is the first word that comes to mind. What a selfish act to do especially when your family is planning on a celebration in your honor. I'm so sorry, Chris. Hugs to you....
Linda
caffeinedreams
06-17-2007, 01:12 AM
Oh, Chris, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Hugs to you and your kids.
niccig
06-17-2007, 01:32 AM
Oh No. I'm sorry you and the kids are going through this. ITA with PP, there's always someone here when you need to vent. Hugs.
mommy111
06-17-2007, 03:04 AM
Hugs. We're here to listen. I hope it works out for you
DebbieJ
06-17-2007, 08:36 AM
I'm so sorry.
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MamaMolly
06-17-2007, 08:55 AM
Oh my oh my oh my. {{{HUGS}}}}}}}
and more {{{hugs}}}}}}.
I'll be thinking about you, praying for what ever is best for your family. {{{{{hugs}}}}}
Jenn98
06-17-2007, 09:40 AM
(((HUGS))) I cannot imagine what you are going through. Please know we are praying for you. Keep us updated.
denna
06-17-2007, 10:33 AM
Im so sorry.
wencit
06-17-2007, 10:42 AM
Oh no! I'm so terribly sorry. :( Prayers and good thoughts going out to you and your children.
stella
06-17-2007, 11:02 AM
Oh My Gosh! I am so sorry!
candybomiller
06-17-2007, 11:03 AM
What an asshat.
casey0729
06-17-2007, 11:04 AM
What a horrible thing to do. *hugs* I am so sorry.
KC
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buddyleebaby
06-17-2007, 11:11 AM
I am sorry you were put in such a terrible situation.
How are your children holding up?
Wishing you rest and peace at this rough time.
elizabethkott
06-17-2007, 11:17 AM
(((((HUGS)))))
Of all the freakin' inconsiderate things, on all the freakin' days.
We're here for you.
nfowife
06-17-2007, 11:17 AM
I'm so sorry you are going through this. {{{hugs}}}
elliput
06-17-2007, 11:29 AM
Chris, I am sorry this has happened. (((((HUGS))))) I hope you and your children will find a bright future.
psophia17
06-17-2007, 12:20 PM
There are no words (((HUGS)))
trentsmom
06-17-2007, 12:48 PM
I am so sorry. I want to grab your DH, shake him, and ask, "What the h*** are you thinking?! Once you have kids, you are no longer the primary focus!"
Fairy
06-17-2007, 02:44 PM
I'm so sorry, Chris.
momathome
06-17-2007, 03:20 PM
Chris, I am so very sorry you are going through this. Hugs and peace to you.
lmintzer
06-17-2007, 03:52 PM
Christine,
I am so sorry! What a horrible thing to happen. Is there anyone near you that you can turn to for some support today? A friend who can come over or a family member?
daniele_ut
06-17-2007, 04:22 PM
I am so sorry! I pray that your little family will find peace during this difficult time.
cdlamis
06-17-2007, 05:59 PM
Oh boy.... What a horrible thing to do! I am so sorry you are going through this especially on Father's Day when you were at least trying to do something nice for him.
HUGS!
Daniella
Mom to Julia 6/02
and Bella 12/04
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thomma
06-17-2007, 06:19 PM
So sorry.
Kim
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jadamom
06-17-2007, 06:46 PM
I'm so sorry, Chris. What a terrible thing to do on Father's Day.
Nooknookmom
06-17-2007, 07:21 PM
OMG-I'm so sorry, don't know what to say. Just hug the kids tight-that'll help a little.
alexsmommy
06-17-2007, 08:40 PM
So sorry. Try to take care of yourself. Please surround yourself with friends/family who can help and support you and your DC through this painful time.
Alaina
Alex Feb '03
and #2 in early summer '07
candybomiller
06-17-2007, 09:07 PM
I hope you return the shirt!
Melanie
06-18-2007, 12:20 AM
Timing is everything. I'm sorry. What an ass to do that in front of your kids.
heatherlynn
06-18-2007, 05:34 AM
I'm so sorry. Big ((((hugs)))) to you.
H-
Heather
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juliasmom05
06-18-2007, 08:12 AM
I'm so sorry, Chris. ((((HUGS)))).
Marci
kijip
06-18-2007, 10:42 AM
Ugh. I am so sorry. What an awful way/time to announce he wanted a divorce. Much love to you and your kids.
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Mommy Of A Little Angel
06-18-2007, 11:40 AM
Wow, Chris, I am so sorry. That is a horrible situation. I hope you have lots of friends and family to surround yourself with right now. I am just so sorry... <Hugs>
Puddy73
06-18-2007, 01:13 PM
Wow, what an a**. Big hugs to you and your kids. I pray that you are able to find some peace and comfort in this awful situation.
Jennifer
Mommy to Annabelle 9/08/03 & Finn 10/31/05
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BaileyBea
06-18-2007, 03:19 PM
Chris... I am so sorry! Big ((HUG)). You have a lot of support here so please let us know how you are doing?
Nancy
npace19147
06-18-2007, 03:52 PM
I am so sorry to hear that. Please find a good divorce attorney and protect your assets asap - it sounds like you need to make sure you and your kids are taken care of.
JoyNChrist
06-18-2007, 06:37 PM
Oh my. I'm so very sorry...my prayers are with your family. HUGS!
ShanaMama
06-18-2007, 07:44 PM
I am so sorry. I hope you can find the strength & peace to deal with this. As PP said, we're always here when you need to vent.
dr mom
06-19-2007, 01:19 PM
What a jackhole. He couldn't have found a better time and place?!
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