kclm
03-05-2003, 01:43 PM
Hello,
This is undoubtedly a silly question, so please bear with me. :) I am a first-time SAHM. DS is 3 1/2 months old. I'm wondering if I am stimulating him enough, interacting with him enough, etc. Typically, when he's not napping or feeding, he'll watch his mobile maybe 20-30 minutes, play with a kick-toy 20-30 minutes (Fisher-Price Kick N Drive gym, which he adores & I highly recommend it!), play on his activity mat about the same or a bit longer, and perhaps be in his swing for 15 minutes. The rest of the time, I read him books, walk around with him while I do my daily tasks or take him on errands, give him a bit of tummy time, or play some games like peekaboo with him or hold him propped up while he plays with toys like a large rattle that he likes but which I have to shake for him. Is this about right? What is a typical day like for this age? How much time should he spend "alone"--i.e., playing by himself on his mat or with his kick-toy or watching his mobile, etc., versus time spent interacting with me? What do all of you do with your babies all day? And how does this change as he will age--will it be the same when he's 5, 6, 7 months, etc.?
Thanks very much in advance!
Karen
Tad, 11/21/02
This is undoubtedly a silly question, so please bear with me. :) I am a first-time SAHM. DS is 3 1/2 months old. I'm wondering if I am stimulating him enough, interacting with him enough, etc. Typically, when he's not napping or feeding, he'll watch his mobile maybe 20-30 minutes, play with a kick-toy 20-30 minutes (Fisher-Price Kick N Drive gym, which he adores & I highly recommend it!), play on his activity mat about the same or a bit longer, and perhaps be in his swing for 15 minutes. The rest of the time, I read him books, walk around with him while I do my daily tasks or take him on errands, give him a bit of tummy time, or play some games like peekaboo with him or hold him propped up while he plays with toys like a large rattle that he likes but which I have to shake for him. Is this about right? What is a typical day like for this age? How much time should he spend "alone"--i.e., playing by himself on his mat or with his kick-toy or watching his mobile, etc., versus time spent interacting with me? What do all of you do with your babies all day? And how does this change as he will age--will it be the same when he's 5, 6, 7 months, etc.?
Thanks very much in advance!
Karen
Tad, 11/21/02