I WANT TO STRESS WE ARE ALL FINE: But unfortunatly lil T-meister will not be a big bro YET...

[mama2be]

I felt the need to post since several of you knew I was heading to the hospital yesterday...but then I'll off of the computer awhile. Please know we are all fine and actually handling things better than I could have imagined. My parents are arriving this morning...

Tristan and I slept in yesterday and about 30 minutes after waking up I started getting a severe right sided pain. It escalated to the point where I could barely move and jsut wanted to curl up into a ball. It bounced from cramps to severe pain, cramps and then hit a wall of pain where I called the Drs office and said "if you can't fit me in for an US then I'll go the ER"...They fit me in, Steve met us up there and while I drove I felt a gush of blood. I was certain I was miscarrying.The pain subsided some and when my DR did the US and as he questioned me he actually thought it was cyst burst due to the pain getting better, he also thought he saw fluid in there from it. So he actually had me thinking I might not be misscarrying. But the probe was hurting me in spot that he thought weird it hurt so bad so he sent me for a Stat "hospital quality" US where the tech was great and shared with me what she saw...so I was prepared. She saw nothing in the uterus and thought she was seeing a fallopian tube pregnancy. She came back and said the radiologist thought this to. Of course I clung on the word "thought" and baggered the poor DR. I was scheduled for immediate surgery that hey predicted to be 1 /2 hours and it was done in 45. I begged my DR to relaease me once I could pee and prove I couldn hold water down. They wanted to keep me but thank god I was released at about 1:30AM.

WE really are doing fine and have to say it sure does help to have Tristan...he "sung" to me the car while I drove and cried...and jsut smiled away at the hospital...

Anyway I'll be off the computer since parents coming and must clean...but please know we are fine I jsut wanted to make certain I told folks since you all knew I was pregnant..

AHHH Bugaboo wakes...

[parkersmama]

Oh, Neve. I'm so very sorry. I know you were so thrilled to be pregnant and you must all be very sad. I'm glad to see that you're doing well but I know you're grieving and I'm grieving for you, too. Please know that you're in my thoughts and prayers. Have a nice visit with your parents and come back when you feel up to it. {{{HUGS}}}

[Rachels]

Oh, Neve. I'm so sorry. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

-Rachel
Mom to Abigail Rose
5/18/02

[daisymommy]

Oh Neve honey,
I'm so sorry. I know how excited you were. We're here if you need to talk about it. I know there's nothing else I can say to make it all better. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
And after all that, don't you dare go cleaning! Let someone else take care of you! :)

[Calmegja]

I'm so very sorry, Neve.

Please leave the cleaning to someone else, and rest as best as you can.

Peace to you.

[kathsmom]

Neve,

I am so sorry about this. I know how excited you were. Please know that I am thinking of you, Steve, and Tristan. Please don't worry about cleaning - I am sure your parents understand. You just need to rest and take care of yourself.

Again, I am so sorry. We are here for you!

[smomom]

Neve,

I can't begin to imagaine all of the emotions that you are feeling right now. Please take comfort in knowing that so many of us have you and your family in our thoughts.

[flagger]

Oh Neve,

Ms. Flagger and I are so sorry. Ectopic pregnancies are so painful and we are so glad that you are alright. I know the loss is devastating, but you mean so much to all of us that I am glad that you, Steve and Tristan are all ok!

All our best,

Chuck

[momtoemma]

Neve,

I am so sorry this has happened. It's a good thing you caught it early, and the doctor was able to perform emergency surgery. I went through this a few years ago, and my tube burst before they did the surgery. I'm so glad you are all doing fine! Hang in there. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts. Hug Tristan a little tighter today.

Stephanie

[nitaghei]

Neve,

I am so sorry for you, Steve and Tristan. Glad to know that you're fine. I hope that having your parents there will also be a comfort.

Nita

[MelissaTC]

Hugs to you all :(

[sugarsnappea]

Neve,

I am so sorry to hear this. Your family is in my thoughts.

Take Care,

[alkagift]

We'll be thinking of you, Tristan and Steve--please enjoy this time with your parents to relax and recover. We're so sorry that this has happened. I'm so glad that Tristan was there for you!

Allison
Mom to Matthew Clayton, 5/19/03

[atlbaby]

Neve,
I am so sorry for you, Steve, and Tristan. I'm glad your parents are coming so you will have family around you now. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I do hope you can leave the cleaning to someone else.

Thinking of you,

-Rachel
Mom to Arielle Jill, 10/30/01
#2EDD 10/24/03-Another Girl!:)

[jojo2324]

Neve, I am so, so sorry. I know how much you wanted this to happen. I am thinking of you, and you know if you need anything, give a holler. BIG HUGS to you three.

[sntm]

Oh, Neve, I hadn't heard you were pregnant. I'm so sad for you that this pregnancy didn't work out. I'll be thinking about the three of you today. Take care and tell Tristan to be especially sweet to mom today.

shannon
not-even-pregnant-yet-overachiever
trying-to-conceive :)
PREGNANT! EDD 6/9/03
mama to Jack 6/6/03

[Kate888]

Oh, Neve, I'm so, so sorry... Hugs to you...I'll be thinking of you and your family. Hope you feel better soon and please take good care of yourself. {{{Big Hugs}}}

Kate
Mama to Maya 2-17-02

[natividad]

Neve, sweetie, I am so, so sorry. You, Steve and Tristan will be in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you all from Naty and baby Alexander.

Naty

[nathansmom]

Neve-
I am so sorry. I'm glad Tristan is there to help keep you going.

Love

[Andrea S]

Neve,

I am so sorry. I am glad you guys are doing fine, but you need to take it easy. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers.

Andrea
mom to Andrew 8/14/02

[gravymommy3]

Neve,

I am so sorry you are having to experience this. I am sitting at my keyboard crying.

Let your parents, Steven and the T-meister help you heal.

Hugs!

[egoldber]

Neve, I am so, so sorry.....

If you need ANYTHING, you know my number. We'll be there in 2 days, so please let me know.

[Annette_C]

Sweetie,
My heart is breaking just thinking how you all must feel right now. Thank you for posting that you're all doing ok...that reassures me a little.
You know how dear you are to us so please take good care of yourself and, hopefully, you'll feel up to coming to the retreat.
Please feel free to call/e-mail me if you need anything!
Lots of hugs to all three of you!
Annette
SAHM to Sabrina 6/24/02

[mamahill]

Ah lady, my heart aches for you. May you find the love and comfort you need in the arms of your guys...

[amp]

Neve,

I am so, so sorry that you and your family are going through this. When I was up in the middle of the night, I even checked to see if you had posted how you were. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hug your hubby & your precious boy a bit tighter today. Take care...

[Sandy]

Oh Neve,
I am so sorry. I can't imagine how hard this is to go through. You, Tristan & Steve are in our thoughts. Big ((Hug)) from Alexander and I. Let us know if you need anything.


Sandy
mom to Alexander Thor 3/16/02

[blnony]

Neve-
I just want to say I'm sorry that you all have had to go through this; but I am glad you are feeling okay and have so much love and support around you to help you through this.
Please let us know if there is any way we can help.

[cinrein]

Neve,

I'm so very sorry, I know how excited you were. I'm glad everyone is home and "ok", but I know you will be grieving. Be kind to yourself over the next few weeks and definitely get your therapy in the form of Tristan hugs. (It's amazing how those warm little arms around your neck can make your troubles fade.) Please know that I'll keep your family in my prayers and will be thinking about you. We're here if you need to cry, vent, swear, complain, whatever.

Cindy
Mama to Anna 2/11/03

[todzwife]

Aww Neve...hugs and prayers. Feel better soon, get some rest. We are all here to help.

[khakismom]

Neve, I am so very sorry to hear this. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! I can't even imagine what you are going thru--but I'm thinking of you and sending warm thoughts your way.

...Maureen

Mom to
Kathleen 3/22/01
Ellen 6/4/03

[sweetbasil]

Neve,
We're thinking of you and your sweet family is in my prayers. Wishing you rest, comfort, and that you'll feel all the love we all have for you...

Big hugs,

[trumansmom]

Neve,

My heart is breaking for you. I'm so sorry you had to go through this, but am so happy you are okay.

Please let your family take care of you. You deserve a little pampering. I know Tristan will do his part to help you heal.

You'll be in my prayers.

Jeanne
Mom to Truman 11/29/01

[Shirale]

Neve,
I am so so sorry....I wish you only the best and just want you to know that you are in my thoughts and payers
Shira

[COElizabeth]

Neve,

I'm so very sorry that you have experienced this loss. I know you have been so excited about being a mama-to-be again. I am glad that the surgery went smoothly and that you are at home recovering. Please take care of yourself. I know the love of your family and friends is the best medicine you can have, but please let them take good care of you while you heal. We'll be thinking of and praying for you and will look forward to you coming back when you are feeling up to it.

Elizabeth
Mom to James
9-20-02

[Karenn]

Neve,
I'm so sorry. You'll be in my prayers.

[celfsh]

Neve,

I am so very, very sorry for your loss. Please know that we are thinking of you.

Hugs,

celeste
mom to olivia 9/25/02

[chrissyhowie]

Neve,

I am so sorry you had to experience this. Please let yourself get some rest. My thoughts will definitely be with you.

[peanut4us]

oh Neve, I am so sorry. Please know that my thoughts arw with you.

[brubeck]

Neve I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad that you have a loving husband and son, not to mention caring family, to help you in this time. Please know that you have the support of everyone here.

[jd11365]

I'm so sorry...sending hugs and positive vibes your way...

[nohomama]

Neve,

I'm very sorry to read your post. It was clear that this was a pregnancy that you very much wanted and I feel badly that you are having to weather this loss. Take care of yourself.

[josephsmom]

I'm so sorry, Neve. I hope the love of your friends and family will help you heal.

Helene
mommy to Joseph 12/29/01

[KMommie]

I am soo sorry about your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Jeannie
mommy to Kiki 4/18/03

[jubilee]

Neve, I am sorry. You and your family are in my prayers,

[heytootsy]

So sorry to hear, Neve! I'll be thinking of you. You kow, you hate to hear this, but if it wasn't ment to be....Keep your head up high and give T-man a great big hug.

[cara1]

So Sorry. Glad you're keeping your spirits up.

[emilyr]

Neve,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I can't imagine the pain and emotions you must all be going through. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Rest up while your family is there.

Emily

[stillplayswithbarbies]

Oh Neve, I'm so sorry to hear this. You'll be in my thoughts.

...Karen
Jacob Nathaniel Feb 91
Logan Elizabeth Mar 03

[lukkykatt]

Neve, I am so sorry about your loss. I am glad to hear that you have lots of loving family members around you right now. I'll be thinking about you.

[zen_bliss]

oh neve, my heart breaks. i am so grateful you were able to get fast, excellent medical attention and i wish you an easy recovery. let the cleaning go! warm thoughts are your way from all of us in your extended BB family. i hope you can get lots of rest and let steve, t-man, & your fur babies comfort you. blessings from our 'pack' to yours.

[ddmarsh]

Aw Neve - great big huge (((hugs))) to you all. I'm so sorry and will be thinking of you.



Debbie

[houseof3boys]

Neve - So sorry to hear. Let litte T and the doggies help you feel better!

I'll be thinking of you.

[Grace_underfire]

I am so very sorry. It is so hard to go through something like what you just went through. I have not been here for long at the boards, but I can tell what a sweet lady you are. I hope you are able to find rest and peace in this situation. Make sure to let your family help you, and rest a lot both phsyically and emotionally.

[Marisa6826]

Neve, to echo all the others, I'm so very sorry.

Remember we're here for you good news or bad.

We love you! :)

-m

[nigele]

Oh, Neve, Simon and I are so sorry for your loss. You seem to be handling it better than I could imagine. Please let me know if you need ANYTHING and you know I will be at your house in an instant.

Love to you, Steve and Tristan.

[mary b]

I am so sorry for your loss, please take care!!!

Mary

[newbelly2002]

Neve, I wish I could do more than say I'm sorry. I know you really wanted this pregnancy to work out; I'm sorry it didn't happen differently. Rest and try to enjoy some well deserved TLC from Steve,Tristan and your folks.

Paula, Mama to Dante
http://www.shutterfly.com/osi.jsp?i=67b0de21b32384e84594 -6/25 update

[AngelaS]

Big ((((HUGS))))!

[August Mom]

I'm so sorry, Neve. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

[Roleysmom]

Neve,

I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking of the three of you.

Paula
-- mom to Roley Julia 01-04-02

[himom]

Neve, I am so sorry to hear about your loss and I hope you will heal quickly both physically and emotionally. Let Tristan give you lots of love and cuddles! We'll be praying for all three of you.

Jodi
Mommy to Joshua, born February 2003

[spu]

Oh Neve, I'm so sorry. My prayers are with you.

susan

twin girls 7.20.02
charlotte & else

[etwahl]

Sweetie, I'm so sorry. I just emailed you.

Tammy,
Mom to Lauren Genevieve
03/12/2003
www.evantammy.com

[agomalley]

Neve,
Please know that I'm sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you are all handling it Ok. You're in my thoughts.

Anabelle and Ryan born 4/9/03

[mommyj]

I'm so sorry for you. Know that you, Steve, and Tristan are in my thoughts. I'm sending you lots of love and positive energy. I hope your parents visit goes well.
Take care.

[smilequeen]

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I wish the best to your family.

[liya]

oh honey im so sorry....hold that baby close to you he will be both your healers....im so glad you got inmediate attention though....you are in my thoughs...hugs....

[mam615]

Glad to hear you are doing okay, but so sorry to hear your news. I'll be thinking of you. Be sure to take some time for yourself -- I hate to hear that you are cleaning up. I hope your parents bring you lots of love, support, and comfort.

[Momof3Labs]

Oh, Neve, I'm so, so sorry. Let me know if you want to talk - I also have a great site for miscarriage support, if you need it.

[Vajrastorm]

Oh Neve. Take care. And let your family take care of you.

[C99]

Oh, I am sorry, Neve.

[ctsiouts]

I am so sorry to hear your news. What an ordeal. You sound like you are dealing extremely well with it. I'm sure it makes a world of difference to have Tristan too.
Again, I'm sorry!

[barbarhow]

Neve-I am so sorry for your loss. I am so glad that you have your family-especially Dh and your beautiful Tristan to help you through this time. There is nothing more magical and healing that the smile of your baby. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Barbara-mom to Jack 3/27/03

[MommytoDylan]

I'm praying for your comfort and hoping you'll feel loved and supported here. I am so sorry for your loss!

[JMarie]

Neve... I am so sorry... My heart just aches for you right now... You take care of yourself and I'll be there in two days... Don't you dare worry about how clean the house is...

Jennifer
Mom to Aidan Christopher 01/28/03

[KathyO]

I'm so very sorry to hear this, Neve. I hope that your guys take good care of you over the next few days, and we wish you a speedy recovery.

Best,

KathyO

[DDowning]

I'm sorry Neve to hear this but I'm glad Tristan was there to console you.

[SASM]

Neve,

Oh...I am so numb, Neve, I do not know what to say. PLEASE know that I am sooo sorry for your loss. I want to email you but do not want to "clutter" your box. If you need to talk, you have my number. PLEASE call me if you need to talk or vent. Please take care of YOU!!

BIG Hugs,

[mharling]

Neve -
Thinking of you and sending comforting thoughts your way.

Mary & Lane 4/6/03
http://www.shutterfly.com/osi.jsp?i=67b0de21b3237413c427 - New 6/18

[partyof5]

Neve,

I am so sorry of your family's loss but I am glad that they were able to diagnose your ectopic pregnancy because Steve, Tristan, and all of us need you. Please take care of yourself and know that I am sending my thoughts and prayers your way. *HUGS*

~Cindy
mommy to...
Isabella (1999)
Sophia (2001)
Ethan (2003)

[luvbeinmama]

Neve,

I'm so sorry, I know how devastating it is to lose one early. I'm SOOO glad you are okay, and caught it right away. Big hugs to you.

[Melaniee]

I'm so sorry. Cleaning, though? You are super-woman!

[candybomiller]

Neve,

Sorry I haven't been here in a while. I'm so sorry to hear about this. I know how much you were looking forward to this. Our prayers are with you. Give Tris a big hug. And a big ((HUG)) to you and Steve as well.

Candy
Mommy to Matt
5/22/02

[justlearning]

Neve,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss and will keep you in my prayers. The way that you were able to draw strength from Tristan's presence shows what an incredibly strong and positive woman you are--Tristan is lucky to have a mom who appreciates him so much. Please take care of yourself and enjoy the time with your family.

[kristine_elen]

You are in our thoughts, Neve.

[memedee]

So sorry.
Take care of yourself.
I am so glad you have your family there to help you out .
Love and hugs.
Dori