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alandenisefields
02-23-2004, 11:06 PM
Hi folks. We wanted to post a brief comment about our moderators for this forum, as it seems some folks are confused about their role here.

First a bit of history: when we started these boards, we wanted to create a place for parents to discuss baby products, swap bargains and so on. As it grew, some users asked us to create a general “lounge” area for discussions of other parenting issues.

The popularity of the lounge and our other boards took us by surprise and quickly surpassed the time we had to moderate the discussions. So, we asked two board users (Beth and Rachel) to volunteer as board moderators. We want to stress that Beth and Rachel are volunteers; they don’t get paid for the hours of time they put into making this community work.

The moderators have two jobs:

1. First, make sure there is no spam or commercial pitches on the boards.
2. Second, and most importantly, make sure the discussion stays civil and that folks don’t flame one and other.

We should point out that we when we picked these volunteer moderators, we told them they could continue to post to the boards as users. Yes, we realize that on other boards that are moderated, those moderators do not contribute or post except to state the rules. While that’s fine, we felt we couldn’t asked our moderators to put in all this time on the boards, yet never join the conversation.

Some folks have objected to this, saying that the moderators shouldn’t be allowed post their opinions or declare their political leanings. Can a moderator jump into a heated thread and state their opinion while keeping everything civil? Sure, why not.

So, we want to make that clear: the moderators are allowed to post and join any conversation.

We support Beth and Rachel 100% in their efforts to make these boards a better community. We have asked them to not censor threads; only to lock those discussions that are degenerating into shouting matches.

Could we hire moderators and do away wit h this current system? Yes, but we might have to take pop-up ads on this site or charge a subscription fee to pay for those added costs. Both of those steps would NOT be what we want to do. Nor do we think most members want to see ads on this site.

We also do not want to act as censors on these boards. As you probably know, we let the discussion go in whatever direction users want. That said, we just want to reiterate some ground rules:

1. Please debate the ISSUE, not the poster. Name-calling, flaming and other personal attacks are not allowed. We realize some topics can get heated; let’s all just get along.

2. If you are easily offended by threads dealing with politics or religion, please don’t read them. There are plenty of other conversations going on. We don’t censor the topics here, so folks are free to discuss the issues of the day—even if those involve controversial subjects.

3. And we want to hear from you. If you don’t like something about these boards or have a suggestion, our email box is always open. Please click on the contact us button above to send us an email. Yes, we read them all!

Thanks again for using our boards! We hope you enjoy this community.

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jd11365
02-23-2004, 11:49 PM
I just wanted THANK YOU loud and proud for these boards. While the lounge can often get off topic...we need it...and we need Beth and Rachel to be part of it in full force. I personally don't know how I would get through some of my days without these boards. This place is a one-of-a-kind. Members are well-educated (scholastically or otherwise) and I respect them very much. I have yet to find a community like this one. Thank you for continuing to keep this community afloat!


Jamie
Mommy to Kayla
5-1-03

sweetbasil
02-24-2004, 12:59 AM
I couldn't put it better than Jamie did...thanks to the Fields for creating such a great place for us to all grow together, as parents and friends. And another big thanks to Beth and Rachel for their volunteer-moderator efforts. It's a big job, and I appreciate you both.

Melanie
02-24-2004, 03:32 AM
Thank you for your boards, your books and your clarification in this area.

:7

sntm
02-24-2004, 11:04 AM
Thank you so much for everything that you have done -- I know the boards have become something other than what you might have originally intended, but they are so important to many of us. I feel closer to some of these women, many that I have never met IRL, than to people I have known for years. I feel I can truly be myself here, warts and all. I value the discussions we have, the information I learn, the joys and sorrows of women and men out there with whom I can celebrate and mourn. I believe I am a better mother and a better person from what I have acquired here. Thank you. And thanks to our moderators, who with the other posters here, have managed to ensure that on the worst of days on this board, it is still one of the most considerate and accepting boards out there.
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shannon
not-even-pregnant-yet-overachiever
trying-to-conceive :)
PREGNANT! EDD 6/9/03
mama to Jack 6/6/03

redhookmom
02-24-2004, 07:25 PM
I would like to thank the volunteer moderators as well. I appreciate the time and energy you take to do this!

wendmatt
02-24-2004, 08:47 PM
I LOVE LOVE LOVE these boards. They have been my saviour in tough times (sane times too!). I do not post as much as some but always feel like a welcome and valid member of the community. Beth and Rachel have wonderful input and advice, it would be crazy for them to not be able to comment. They do an awesome job.
Keep it going just as it is, it's wonderful.

trumansmom
02-25-2004, 05:16 PM
I just wanted to add my thanks to both the Fields and the moderators. This board has been incredibly educational, and I love this community. Alan, Denise, Rachel and Beth have all done a fabulous job.

Jeanne
Mom to Truman 11/29/01 and EDD 4/23/04!