Jen in Chicago
04-07-2004, 10:27 AM
Me again with sleep problems- UGH!
We were in a good groove, 1 waking a night. Last week he got the flu and started getting a molar, and since then the sleeping has gone DOWNHILL FAST!
We sort of follow Weissbluth (2 naps (at daycare) and early bedtime.) After the last 2 nights I am strongly considering a consultation with him. I am thinking I would be a better enforcer if I met with him. I have not requested to meet with him before b/c I have not been willing to be a strong enforcer. I am starting to question everything I do regarding Jude's sleeping. Here are our unofficial houserules:
Bedtime routine starts around 6:30/6:45 (hard for a working Mom)
PJ's, diaper change, 3 books and a bottle
He'll fall asleep with the bottle
Crib
From this point on- only change a diaper if it has leaked and Mommy and Daddy are no fun and don't play (we barely talk)!!! We don't leave the room, and we don't turn on the lights
2.5-3 hours later for the rest of the night wakings, then up between 5 and 6 (I have learned earlier to bed, later to wake is the reality for Jude.) The later he wakes the happier he is when he wakes.
Last night he was up at 10, 11:30/12 something until almost 2, 4 then up for the day at 6:05. At 10 he drank 7 oz, and the rest only 2-3 oz. The long time I tried no bottle and let him CIO for 30 minutes. When I came back in he started jumping and wanted to play. We rocked and rocked and he squirmed/snuggled/cried/coo'ed... when I would think he was asleep I would put him in his crib and he INSTANTLY would wake up. Sometimes I could keep him in there and rub his back, but eventually we would end up back in the rocking chair again.
DH is traveling, so it is just me. We no longer nurse.
Any advise would be appreciated. Getting him down at night the first time is not a problem, but the later times are a problem.
I forgot to mention, before being sick last week he and the other May 2003 babies at daycare were on a No Morning Nap Strike, and he would take a 2-2.5 hour afternoon nap. Since being sick he is taking a .75-1.5 hour am nap, and a 2-3 hr afternoon nap. I am wondering if I should ask daycare to limit his afternoon nap.
We were in a good groove, 1 waking a night. Last week he got the flu and started getting a molar, and since then the sleeping has gone DOWNHILL FAST!
We sort of follow Weissbluth (2 naps (at daycare) and early bedtime.) After the last 2 nights I am strongly considering a consultation with him. I am thinking I would be a better enforcer if I met with him. I have not requested to meet with him before b/c I have not been willing to be a strong enforcer. I am starting to question everything I do regarding Jude's sleeping. Here are our unofficial houserules:
Bedtime routine starts around 6:30/6:45 (hard for a working Mom)
PJ's, diaper change, 3 books and a bottle
He'll fall asleep with the bottle
Crib
From this point on- only change a diaper if it has leaked and Mommy and Daddy are no fun and don't play (we barely talk)!!! We don't leave the room, and we don't turn on the lights
2.5-3 hours later for the rest of the night wakings, then up between 5 and 6 (I have learned earlier to bed, later to wake is the reality for Jude.) The later he wakes the happier he is when he wakes.
Last night he was up at 10, 11:30/12 something until almost 2, 4 then up for the day at 6:05. At 10 he drank 7 oz, and the rest only 2-3 oz. The long time I tried no bottle and let him CIO for 30 minutes. When I came back in he started jumping and wanted to play. We rocked and rocked and he squirmed/snuggled/cried/coo'ed... when I would think he was asleep I would put him in his crib and he INSTANTLY would wake up. Sometimes I could keep him in there and rub his back, but eventually we would end up back in the rocking chair again.
DH is traveling, so it is just me. We no longer nurse.
Any advise would be appreciated. Getting him down at night the first time is not a problem, but the later times are a problem.
I forgot to mention, before being sick last week he and the other May 2003 babies at daycare were on a No Morning Nap Strike, and he would take a 2-2.5 hour afternoon nap. Since being sick he is taking a .75-1.5 hour am nap, and a 2-3 hr afternoon nap. I am wondering if I should ask daycare to limit his afternoon nap.