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egoldber
04-23-2004, 09:03 PM
Everyone here was so kind and gracious when I announced my pregnancy awhile ago.

I had an ultrasound last week where they saw a heartbeat and a baby, but the heartbeat was very low. We had a follow-up ultrasound today, and they could not find a heartbeat. So it seems we have had another miscarriage.

We are very sad, but honestly, knowing is almost better than the week of terrible uncertainty I have just been through.

Thanks for listening.

nathansmom
04-23-2004, 09:05 PM
Beth-
I am so very sorry.
Big hugs-Norah

wendmatt
04-23-2004, 09:06 PM
Oh poor Beth, my heart goes out to you. I am so so sorry to hear that, I hope you feel OK soon. I'll say prayers for you and your fam.

mharling
04-23-2004, 09:06 PM
Oh Beth! Big hugs your way.

Mary & Lane 4/6/03
[link:www.shutterfly.com/osi.jsp?i=67b0de21b370a2992536|Birthday Pics!!]

LD92599
04-23-2004, 09:13 PM
Beth:

So sorry to hear this sad news. Hugs to you and your family.

Laura
mom to William
3.5.2003

http://homepage.mac.com/ld14m

deborah_r
04-23-2004, 09:15 PM
So sorry you are going through this Beth.

JElaineB
04-23-2004, 09:16 PM
Oh Beth, I'm so sorry!

Jennifer
mom to Jacob 9/27/02

snp624
04-23-2004, 09:19 PM
I am so sorry, Beth.

redhookmom
04-23-2004, 09:21 PM
Beth,

A big hug for you and your family.

jd11365
04-23-2004, 09:21 PM
Oh Beth, I am so sorry. I don't even know what to say...I am just devastated for you. Sending thoughts, prayers and hugs your way...

Jamie
Mommy to Kayla
5-1-03

mommd
04-23-2004, 09:24 PM
Sorry to hear this. My prayers are with you and your family.

etwahl
04-23-2004, 09:26 PM
beth, i am so incredibly sorry. please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. i'm so, so sorry.

Tammy,
Mom to Lauren Genevieve
03/12/2003
www.evantammy.com

momathome
04-23-2004, 09:26 PM
{{{BETH}}} I am so, so sorry to hear this news - I know how much you wanted this baby. Take care of yourself and feel free to pm or email me if you want to talk - after having gone through 3 miscarriages in the last 6 months, I know all too well what you are going through. Hugs and prayers for you and your family.
-Lauren

hobey
04-23-2004, 09:26 PM
Beth: I'm so sorry. Big hugs.

Raquel
Nathan's Mom 12/19/03

houseof3boys
04-23-2004, 09:26 PM
Beth I am so sorry for your loss.

We are here if you need us!!!

mik8
04-23-2004, 09:27 PM
So sorry to hear about this, Beth. Travelled this road before. Must have been out of the loop. Didn't even know you're expecting. You're in my thoughts.

slknight
04-23-2004, 09:29 PM
(((Beth))), I am very, very sorry. Thinking of you.

Susan

liya
04-23-2004, 09:29 PM
Oh honey i am sooo sorry :( ..... If you need to talk at any time im here for you whenever....(((((beth))))))

ismommy
04-23-2004, 09:34 PM
Beth,

I am so sorry. I thought about you alot today. Let me know if you need anything.

boys2enough
04-23-2004, 09:49 PM
Beth, I am very sorry to hear this. How are you holding up? My thoughts will be with you. {{{HUGS}}} Lin

billysmommy
04-23-2004, 09:55 PM
Beth, I am so so sorry

Rachels
04-23-2004, 09:57 PM
Much love to you during this incredibly sad time. I'm so, so sorry, Beth.

-Rachel
Mom to Abigail Rose
5/18/02

ddmarsh
04-23-2004, 09:58 PM
I am so terribly sorry for your loss Beth.

Sarah1
04-23-2004, 10:05 PM
Oh, Beth. I am SO very sorry to hear this. You're in my thoughts.

COElizabeth
04-23-2004, 10:12 PM
Beth, I am so sorry. I'm grieving with you and wishing you comfort and peace.

Elizabeth, Mom to James, 9-20-02
EDD #2, 10-30-04

C99
04-23-2004, 10:14 PM
Oh Beth! I am so, so sorry for your loss.

JLiebCamm
04-23-2004, 10:19 PM
Thinking of you.

jbowman
04-23-2004, 10:19 PM
Beth--I can't tell you how sorry I am. I will keep you in my prayers.

caleymama
04-23-2004, 10:19 PM
Beth, I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.

cdlamis
04-23-2004, 10:24 PM
Oh Beth- I am so sorry. My heart dropped when I saw your name as the author of this thread.
Keeping you all in my prayers and thoughts~

Daniella
Mom to Julia 6-13-02

amp
04-23-2004, 10:32 PM
Oh, Beth, I am so terribly sorry about the loss of your baby! I know how thrilled you were to be pregnant again, and I am sure that the last week has been agony! Hugs to you and your DH.

muskiesusan
04-23-2004, 10:47 PM
Beth, I am so very sorry. You will be in my thoughts.

Susan
Mom to Nicholas 10/01/01
& Baby #2 due 4/23/04!!!!

em_jon98
04-23-2004, 11:11 PM
Beth,

I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

stella
04-23-2004, 11:13 PM
Darn it!! I am so sorry!! I just hate this for you all.

Thinking of you...

jamsmu
04-23-2004, 11:18 PM
Beth, So sorry to learn of your loss. Thinking of you and your family.

With hugs,

chrissyhowie
04-23-2004, 11:20 PM
Beth,

I am so saddened by the news of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

alandenisefields
04-23-2004, 11:20 PM
We're sorry to hear that as well Beth.

alan & denise fields
authors

Marisa6826
04-23-2004, 11:21 PM
Beth-

I am so very, truly sorry.

Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

HUGS

-m

bluej
04-23-2004, 11:23 PM
I'm very sorry Beth. My thoughts are with you.

pritchettzoo
04-23-2004, 11:29 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.

Anna
Mama to Gracie (9/16/03)

NEVE and TRISTAN
04-23-2004, 11:29 PM
Beth our thoughts are with you and family...I am so sorry for this news and was so confident for you from some of your post. I am sorry I didn't know you were going thru uncertainty or I'd have offered an ear or a shoulder...

You know where to reach me if you need to talk....
You take care of yourself and know we are all thinking about you.
Neve
http://home.nc.rr.com/ourbabytristan
AKA "mama2be"-forgot password
and Baby Boy Tristan born @UNC
Feb 25, 2003
Brother to 3 pups "gees" and 2 kitties

RwnMayfair
04-23-2004, 11:31 PM
I know you don't really know me, but I'm so sorry, Beth. :(

::BIG hugs:: to you and your family.

-Melissa

Taran Reed - Nov, 20, 2003

Jeanmick
04-23-2004, 11:48 PM
Very sorry to hear of your loss...

Jeanette and family

Melanie
04-23-2004, 11:50 PM
Beth, I'm so very sorry for your loss.

starrynight
04-23-2004, 11:56 PM
{hugs} Beth, I'm so sorry for your loss hon.:( (we need a crying smilie) You and your family are in my thoughts.

JenCA
04-23-2004, 11:59 PM
I'm so very sorry to hear that. :(

DDowning
04-24-2004, 12:00 AM
Oh Beth. Hugs to you during this difficult time.

jec2
04-24-2004, 12:12 AM
Beth,

Sorry for the sadness. I'm thinking warm thoughts for you. Hugs to you.

MelissaTC
04-24-2004, 12:13 AM
:-(

My thoughts are with you and your DH...

lrucci
04-24-2004, 12:22 AM
I'm so so sorry for your loss. You're in our thoughts and prayers.


Lisa
Mom to Kyleigh Elizabeth 7/19/03

lisams
04-24-2004, 12:39 AM
Oh Beth, I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Lisa

trumansmom
04-24-2004, 12:42 AM
Oh, Beth. Please know my heart is breaking for you. And I do know that it's easier to deal with the reality of a loss than wondering. But that's like saying it's better to have a broken foot than a broken leg - it hurts regardless.

Sending prayers and healing thoughts for you and your family.

Jeanne
Mom to Truman 11/29/01 and Eleanor 4/14/04

Karenn
04-24-2004, 12:45 AM
This must be such a hard time for you! I'll be thinking of you and your family.

sbjf
04-24-2004, 12:52 AM
Oh Beth, I am so sorry. I'm also sorry that you went through such a difficult week of wondering, too. Lean on dh, hug each other tight and just cry and let it all out.

I'm thinking of you.

jubilee
04-24-2004, 12:55 AM
Oh Beth, I am so sorry. This just is awful...

mommyj_2
04-24-2004, 04:21 AM
Beth,
I'm so sorry for you. Know that I'll be thinking of you in the coming weeks ahead.
I'm sending you hugs and lots of positive energy.

Eloise36
04-24-2004, 04:33 AM
Beth, I am so sad to hear the news. You and DH are in our prayers.

toomanystrollers
04-24-2004, 07:33 AM
{{{{{{{{{Beth}}}}}}}}}}}

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking of you.

sweetbasil
04-24-2004, 07:46 AM
Beth,
I'm so terribly sorry, honey. Your sweet family is in our prayers.

Hugs,

aliceinwonderland
04-24-2004, 08:29 AM
I am so so sorry. I don't even know what to say. My heart is breaking for you and your family right now.

eri and the bean, due April 19th

sugarsnappea
04-24-2004, 08:54 AM
Oh Beth- I am so sorry. I don't know what to say. HUGS to you and your family...

JulieL
04-24-2004, 08:59 AM
Beth,
You and your family will be in my prayers.

JMarie
04-24-2004, 09:17 AM
Beth, my heart goes out to you and your family. Please let us know if we can do anything for you.

Jennifer
Mom to Aidan Christopher
01/28/03

Calmegja2
04-24-2004, 09:40 AM
Peace be with you and yours, Beth. I'm so very sorry.

Kate888
04-24-2004, 09:54 AM
Oh, {{{{{{Beth}}}}, I'm so so sorry! My thoughts are with you and your family! Big hugs to you...


Kate
Mama to Maya 2-17-02

llcoddington
04-24-2004, 11:56 AM
I am so sorry to hear this. I will be praying for you.

Lana
mommy to Lauren 12/5/03

new_mommy25
04-24-2004, 12:06 PM
(((((((((((BETH)))))))))))))))

I am sorry.

hez
04-24-2004, 12:16 PM
You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers, Beth.

momtoemma
04-24-2004, 12:44 PM
Beth,

I'm so sorry for you and your family. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Tondi G
04-24-2004, 01:17 PM
Oh Beth, I am so very sorry. I know it doesn't make it any better for you but I just went through the EXACT same thing.... had a D&C two weeks ago (my 2 week follow up was yesterday). The week of uncertainty certainly is the worst part!

If you need to talk to someone who has recently dealt with the same I am always here [email protected]

This was my second MC in a row so I am having some tests run.... let me know if you need/want some info on all that stuff!!!!!

(((((HUGS))))) headed your way.

~Tondi and Mason (7/8/01)

khakismom
04-24-2004, 01:25 PM
Beth, I am so sorry to hear this--I was so hopeful. Big hugs to you sweetie and many, many prayers for you and your family. You'll be in my thoughts.

brigmaman
04-24-2004, 01:26 PM
Sending hugs your way, Beth! I'm so sorry to hear this.

August Mom
04-24-2004, 02:47 PM
I'm so sorry, Beth.

justlearning
04-24-2004, 02:50 PM
Beth, I am so sorry for your loss--my prayers are with you and your family.

tinkerbell1217
04-24-2004, 03:22 PM
I am so very sorry!!! I have been there, 4 times. Not much I say will help except take care of yourself and lots of (((HUGS)))


Kelly

lisaE
04-24-2004, 05:43 PM
I am so sorry for you and your family.

mamahill
04-24-2004, 06:24 PM
I'm so sad for you. Please take care of yourself. Hugs...

cinrein
04-24-2004, 07:49 PM
Beth,

I'm so sorry. I've been thinking about you all day and hope you're doing OK. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. We're here if you need anything at all.

Cindy and Anna 2/11/03

cchavez
04-24-2004, 08:31 PM
Beth, I am so sorry. Please know that we are praying for you and your family.

cuca_
04-24-2004, 09:46 PM
I am very sorry about your loss. Take care.

Carmen

Jeanne
04-25-2004, 01:09 AM
I'm sorry to hear that, Beth.

Imperia
04-25-2004, 07:02 AM
OH Beth,

I have just come back froma trip and read your sad news. I am so sorry for you and your family. I hop eyou are getting all the love and support you must be needing now.

*hugs*

Imperia

cvharris
04-25-2004, 02:28 PM
Beth,

I'm so sorry. Big hugs to you and your family.

Carolee and Ben (6/14/03)

Vajrastorm
04-25-2004, 02:34 PM
Oh Beth. I'm so sorry!

calebsmama03
04-25-2004, 03:23 PM
Oh Honey, I'm so very sorry! I don't know what to say, but do know you're in my thoughts and prayers.
Lynne
Mommy to Caleb 3/3/03

MommytoDylan
04-25-2004, 04:02 PM
Beth,

I am so very sorry for you!

Love,
Meredith

mary b
04-25-2004, 06:27 PM
Beth, I have been out of the town and just saw your message. I am so, so, sorry! Please take care and I will keep you, Sarah and your DH in my prayers!

Mary

parkersmama
04-25-2004, 09:32 PM
Beth, I'm so very sorry. You are in my prayers.

lmintzer
04-25-2004, 10:13 PM
Beth,
I am so sorry for your loss. Try to take care of yourself during this difficult time. I'm thinking of you and your family.

smilequeen
04-25-2004, 11:24 PM
Beth, I am so sorry. Big hugs to you :(

daisymommy
04-26-2004, 12:33 AM
Beth, my heart cries for you. I am so sorry this has happened again. If there is anything we can do for you, please let us know. Peace and comfort go out to you...

smomom
04-26-2004, 09:43 AM
Oh, Beth. My heart goes out to you. Take care of yourself and know that our thoughts are with you.

lizamann
04-26-2004, 09:48 AM
I'm sosorry to hear that, Beth. Take care of yourself.

jojo2324
04-26-2004, 10:06 AM
I'm so sorry Beth.

josephmama
04-26-2004, 10:13 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss Beth. You're in my thoughts,

KGoes
04-26-2004, 10:38 AM
I'm so sorry! Prayers to you and your family.
Kelley
DD born 7/03

suribear
04-26-2004, 01:52 PM
I feel really sad for you, Beth. Take care,

Kris

vikivoly
04-28-2004, 03:09 PM
Beth,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.