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RwnMayfair
08-22-2005, 04:37 PM
We arrived home today, after what seemed like a rather long two days at the hospital. ;) Anyway, like Helene mentioned, Elowen is here! She was born Saturday, August 20th at 12:01PM at 8lbs 7.1oz and 21 inches long. We're thrilled and she's doing great!

I started feeling somewhat regular contractions that morning when I woke up at about 8AM or so. I'd had an occasional one the night before and probably while I was sleeping, but they didn't seem horribly regular at the time and so I didn't worry much about it. We had originally planned to go to the zoo with my Dad and stepmother that day, but I decided that we'd just call and ask them to come hang out at the house instead, just in case. ;) (Since my goal wasn't to be on the local news as, "Woman gives birth at zoo".)

Anyway, the contractions increased as we got ready, got Taran ready, and we ultimately decided that we'd need to leave for the hospital as soon as my Dad and stepmother got here since they started to become uncomfortable at about 10AM (I think we called them at about 9:30). By the time they arrived at just before 11AM, they were definitely uncomfortable and probably 5 minutes apart. Poor Taran was trying to climb all over me, and all I could really do was tell him that I couldn't deal with it right then. When they got here, he shot out the front door because he wanted to play outside and we loaded my bag and such into the car while my Dad chased him down. We got to the hospital at about 11:20AM (after having to turn around and go back for the camera - luckily not too far). They checked me real quick when we got there, though the midwife was pretty darn sure I was in labor. ;) I was at 8cm and fully effaced at that point.

They took us back to a room, discovered it wasn't going to work because someone hadn't plugged in the equipment properly, so it wasn't charged, and marched us across the hall. In there, they discovered the computer wasn't connecting to the network, but ultimately decided it didn't matter. My husband, being the computer geek that he is, decided he had to try and fix it until I told him that as much as I appreciated him trying to help, he had other things to deal with. (The nurse backed me up on that.) Things happened really, really quickly. The contractions were already painful and quick when I'd been checked before, and after a bit more laboring (which involved the nurses trying to put in an IV twice before giving up - I'd come up as GBS+ at one point), I was feeling pretty ready. My midwife had me get up on the bed so she could check, and then said that I was 10cm and ready to go because the baby was right there. She broke my water after asking if she could, and said I could start pushing if I was ready. I started pushing, and I think I pushed for maybe 5 minutes before she was born at 12:01PM. (My midwife says that her head was out with one push.)

So it was definitely a quick and pretty darn easy labor and delivery! Elowen is doing very well, and she's nursing well too which is great. Compared to last time, I have basically no discomfort, which is great. (Of course, I pushed longer last time, too.) Taran is fascinated with her, right now he likes to pat her on the head and say, "Baby!" He's also tried to share a couple of his toys with her, which scared her, but I don't think he understood that. (Currently, his method of sharing is to try and hand it over and if it's not taken, drop it on whomever he's trying to share with.)

I'm also not nearly as tired as last time, but she slept more than him while we were at the hospital, too. (Taran was very intent on getting my milk in, and hardly slept while we were there. She's had an easier time of it, I think.) The only part that was unfun was that we had to stay two days due to me having been GBS+ at one point and not getting any antibiotics during labor. (It happened way too fast, obviously.) That, and the poor girl had blood drawn something like four different times. But we're home now, and so far things are going well. Hopefully they'll continue along this path! Here's a few pictures (though I noticed the time is a bit off on them - apparently our camera was off by six hours until I fixed it a bit ago), and I'm sure we'll have more once we've readjusted to being home. :)

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Elowen and I soon after she was born.

http://members.aol.com/Callisiora/taranandelowen.jpg
Taran with Elowen.

http://members.aol.com/Callisiora/wholefamily.jpg
The whole family, later that day.

Thank you to everyone for all the congratulations! And thank you for annoucing her, Helene! Hope everyone else is doing well!

-Melissa

Taran, November 20, 2003
Elowen, August 20, 2005

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Emmas Mom
08-22-2005, 04:40 PM
Hooray & congratulations!!! So glad to hear everyone is doing well. I love the picture of the two of you, so precious. Thanks for sharing. :)

Saartje
08-22-2005, 04:42 PM
Oh, Melissa, congratulations on your beautiful little girl. Taran looks so sweet with her -- your whole family looks sweet together, in fact.

calebsmama03
08-22-2005, 04:44 PM
Congrats Melissa!! She is precious and you look wonderful! Gotta love those labors that are so quick here's no time for your hair to get mussed, LOL ;) (I had that with Sophie) Very intense, but over quickly!
Lynne
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hez
08-22-2005, 04:52 PM
Fabulous shots of you all-- I love the family shot-- especially the big smiles on all your faces :)

Congratulations!

ismommy
08-22-2005, 05:06 PM
Melissa,
It was my honor to announce her! She is beautiful and you look amazing. I love the pic of taran holding her.
we cant wait to meet her. congratulations and all our love!
Helene
mommy to Isabella
and Gunner
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MartiesMom2B
08-22-2005, 05:07 PM
Congratulations. Can I just say that you look wonderful in your picture right after birth. I'm very jealous. Rest up and take care of yourself.

-Sonia
Mommy to my Strawberry Shortcake lovin' Martie

Dcclerk
08-22-2005, 05:14 PM
I love the birth stories. Thanks so much for sharing, Melissa. What a lovely family you have!

c2lane
08-22-2005, 05:14 PM
What a great birth story and so easy!!!

Elowen is just as beautiful as her name and Taran looks like a proud big brother - you have a lovely family!

Congratulations!

~Carrie
mom to Dillan Rose 01/02/04
& our 2nd blessing due 10/6/05

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kensjen
08-22-2005, 05:36 PM
Melissa,

Congratulations! And wow, what a wonderful birth...nice and easy and quick. Sign me up for one of those!! :) :)

Your family is just beautiful, and that sweet little baby face...oh, my! So cute! Thanks for sharing the photos with us!

Enjoy your babymoon!

kristenk
08-22-2005, 05:50 PM
Melissa, you look positively radiant in the photo of you and Elowen! I love the photos! Congratulations on your new arrival - she's beautiful!

caridura
08-22-2005, 05:51 PM
Congratulations Melissa! Elowen is precious and you look wonderful! I looked like a trainwreck after giving birth, lol.

You have a beautiful family. :)

missym
08-22-2005, 05:54 PM
She's so beautiful! Thank you for sharing pictures and your birth story. Congratulations!

Missy, mom to Gwen 03/03... and #2 due late Sept 05!

Tori_s mom
08-22-2005, 05:55 PM
What an adorable family! I'm so glad to hear how well everything went (barring the computer/machinery difficulties ;). Thanks for sharing Elowen's story.

Tasha

mudder17
08-22-2005, 06:04 PM
Melissa, you all look great, especially you and Elowen. :) Taran looks like such a proud big brother! I'm so glad everything went well and I wish you more of the same in the weeks to come!

A big congratulations to all of you and a big welcome for Elowen!

Eileen

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pritchettzoo
08-22-2005, 06:20 PM
Congratulations Melissa and Welcome Miss Elowen! :)

(LOL at "Woman gives birth at zoo!")

Anna
Mama to Gracie (Sept '03) and Eli (July '05)

saschalicks
08-22-2005, 06:41 PM
Your family is beautiful! Congratulations!

jd11365
08-22-2005, 06:45 PM
What a beautiful family! Congratulations!

TraciG
08-22-2005, 06:49 PM
Congrats again, love the pictures, everyone look's great !

Glad u had an easy delivery !

jasabo
08-22-2005, 07:11 PM
Congratulations Melissa! Elowen is just beautiful!!

Lisa - mom to 2 yr old twin boys

papal
08-22-2005, 07:40 PM
Congratulation again Melissa! Elowen is beautiful!! And you look great! So it was 12.01pm..your labour went quick!

lmariana
08-22-2005, 07:53 PM
Congratulations Melissa! You looked wonderful after the birth! Awesome!

Elowen is beautiful, and I simply adore the name. Taran will be such a wonderful big brother.

Enjoy being at home!

Mariana
Mom to Gabe, 8/03
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trentsmom
08-22-2005, 09:12 PM
Congratulations, Melissa! I can't believe she came so soon after you arrived at the hospital!

SASM
08-22-2005, 09:33 PM
CONGRATULATIONS!!! You look so beautiful PP with your beautiful baby girl Elowen :) Love her name ~ flows nicely with Taran :)

You are so lucky to get such wonderful family photos so early on. Ian was all over the place ~ we have so many photos of blurry Ian's and Ian blobs! I am sooo impressed that Taran stayed still :)

And...more importantly...congrats on the quick and easy labor!! Did your hair even move??

Cannot wait to meet her :)

Hugs,

psophia17
08-22-2005, 10:25 PM
Congratulations!

Love the family pic - hang that one up :)

american_mama
08-22-2005, 11:09 PM
Melissa, congratulations! I think Elowen looks like you in the picture of Taran holding her. And Taran looks like his daddy.

Now, tell us how you came up with her name. I like it and it sounds totally unique.

essnce629
08-23-2005, 02:23 AM
CONGRATULATIONS! What a quick and easy birth! Gotta love that!

***Latia
Conner 8/19/03
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zuzu
08-23-2005, 04:51 AM
Congratulations! Welcome, Elowen!

So glad to hear all is well. Thanks for sharing the beautiful pictures.

Melissa, mom to Sarah (5/03)

toomanystrollers
08-23-2005, 07:00 AM
Oh Melissa!!

What sweet pics! And Elowen is such a good girl - taking it easy on Mommy :)

Congratulations!

barbarhow
08-23-2005, 08:04 AM
Oh my goodness-you cut it a little close in your arrival at the hospital! I love your DH trying to fix the computers-reminds me of what my DH might do.
Your family is stunning-Elowen is absolutely precious and I love the picture or Taran with her.
Congratulations. I hope you are feeling great!!!
Barbara-mom to Jack 3/27/03, a Red Sox fan
and Anna 5/12/05, my little Yankee fan!

Splash
08-23-2005, 08:33 AM
Congratulations! She's beautiful!
They kept Charlie on abx for five days after birth due to Jean's GBS. He was poked.... dozens of times. Eventually they didn't even poke him anymore because the sticks weren't closing up and they could get blood from a previous stick. Glad none of that happened with Elowen!
Love the family pic! How cute! Taran looks like a very happy big brother... for now!
E

cinrein
08-23-2005, 08:36 AM
Congrats Melissa and welcome Elowen. Your family is beautiful, especially your newest little addition. :)

Cindy and Anna February 2003

ribbit1019
08-23-2005, 09:31 AM
Melissa! I am so happy for you and I am glad it went quickly! Well except for the fact that you had to stay an extra two days and she had to be poked so nuch. :(
Thank you so much for sharing Elowen's birth story and for sharing pictures she is gorgeous and so are you for just giving birth!
Congratulations again!

Christy
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amp
08-23-2005, 09:42 AM
Congratulations again! You and your family look so smitten and proud! Your smiles are a mile long! And they should be! Your baby is beautiful! You done good mama!

Welcome Elowen!

khakismom
08-23-2005, 10:30 AM
Melissa, she is just beautiful, and you look wonderful, so happy! Congrtulations!! And I adore her name, it's gorgeous! :)

marinkitty
08-23-2005, 10:52 AM
Congratulations Melissa. She is precious and everyone looks so great and happy!!!

Holly
Mom to Mia (3.17.03) and baby brother Jack (3.23.05)

steph2003
08-23-2005, 12:21 PM
What wonderful news & a great birth story! Congrats on your beautiful family!

cvharris
08-23-2005, 12:53 PM
Melissa,

Congratulations! She is adorable.

Your family looks great. Enjoy your new little one!

Carolee
Mama to Ben (6/03)
It's a BOY! Baby brother due 12/18/05

McQ
08-23-2005, 02:52 PM
She's beautiful Melissa! And you look radiant. Congratulations mama!

Allison
~ mama to Declan and Meghan

smomom
08-23-2005, 04:00 PM
Congratulations! Elowen is absolutely beautiful. You have a gorgeous family. Thanks for sharing your pics and your story.

HannaAddict
08-23-2005, 04:49 PM
Congratulations! What a nice birth story and she was even born at a completely reasonable hour! She is very cute and so is Taran. You look great too. I am continually amazed at how fantastic all the BBB mamas look after just giving birth! You have a lovely family.

Kimberly
DS 3/18/04

ca mom to 2
08-24-2005, 12:07 AM
She's adorable! Please forgive me. I e-mailed you a question about your stroller review the other night not realizing you just had a baby. That's what I get for not checking the lounge too. Enjoy her and ignore my other e-mail.

Congratulations!

Cathy

Carly 4.5 years
Nick 13 months

s7714
08-24-2005, 12:44 AM
Those are great pictures! Congrats again! Glad everything went so well. I can relate to the computer geek issue--my DH probably would have tried to fix the computer too!

Jennifer
Mommy to
Annalia 3/03
Sophia 6/05