MegND95
08-23-2005, 11:00 AM
I was at the playground yesterday and there were several Mom's standing around who had two kids, the youngest in all cases was an infant in arms. As I was chasing my very active three across the park, I heard them discussing the challenges of going from one to two children. They all agreed how hard it was to now have two kids, and divide time and attention.
I giggled a little to myself, because they were all standing and chatting while I was running, climbing and jumping to keep up with my kids.
Anyway, I was curious to know what others thought about the transition from a man to man defense to the zone.
My oldest two are only 15 months apart, so I never had a chance to adjust to just one child. The next one came along before I could really catch my breath. My life was constant diapers, sleep deprivation and spit-up stained clothes. When our third came along, I had a terrible time re-adjusting my life to accomodate an infant. Prior to his birth, I could be out the door in less than five minutes and carried virtually nothing with me. My kids were becoming independent. Our lives were nicely scheduled. I could spend a fair amount of time devoted to one on one attention with my kids.
Now, I am lucky to spend 5 unintterupted minutes with any child. Getting out the door is an adventure, as is any outing. Multi-tasking is not my strong suit, but a necessity with three kids. Don't get me wrong, our third baby is a blessing and we love him to pieces, but in terms of difficulty, going from two to three really rocked my world.
What have been your experiences??
I giggled a little to myself, because they were all standing and chatting while I was running, climbing and jumping to keep up with my kids.
Anyway, I was curious to know what others thought about the transition from a man to man defense to the zone.
My oldest two are only 15 months apart, so I never had a chance to adjust to just one child. The next one came along before I could really catch my breath. My life was constant diapers, sleep deprivation and spit-up stained clothes. When our third came along, I had a terrible time re-adjusting my life to accomodate an infant. Prior to his birth, I could be out the door in less than five minutes and carried virtually nothing with me. My kids were becoming independent. Our lives were nicely scheduled. I could spend a fair amount of time devoted to one on one attention with my kids.
Now, I am lucky to spend 5 unintterupted minutes with any child. Getting out the door is an adventure, as is any outing. Multi-tasking is not my strong suit, but a necessity with three kids. Don't get me wrong, our third baby is a blessing and we love him to pieces, but in terms of difficulty, going from two to three really rocked my world.
What have been your experiences??