Moneypenny
05-31-2006, 01:19 PM
I'll preface this by saying we have a somewhat strained relationship with the mom and dad who live next door to us. We're polite, but certainly not close. With that said, their soon-to-be 4 year old daughter, who is often outside unsupervised (mom or dad must be watching out a window) comes over to our yard whenever we are outside with DD. The girl loves to play with the sand and water table and Avery likes her, so we're fine with the fact that she comes over. However, this isn't a formal play date or anything. She just runs around the fence to come over, mom or dad will eventually come looking for her, ask her if she's being good, and then go back inside. My question is, when we go inside we tell her to go back to her yard. Are we reponsible for making sure her mom or dad know she's back in their yard? I feel odd just sending her away and don't want her to wander off completely, but I don't feel like I'm ever formally "in charge" of her, and I don't *want* to be formally in charge of her. I feel like if we act as though we are taking responsibility for her whenever she comes over uninvited that it could be problematic for us down the road (I don't trust that the neighbors wouldn't try to blame us for something). On the other hand, I don't want to ban her from coming over because she likes Avery, and with 5 brothers and sisters I think she really enjoys this quiet time with my polite and friendly DD (and DH and I are much more polite and friendly than her parents are, as well). WWYD in this situation?
It's very odd to me because I can't imagine DD being 3 years old and just running around the neighborhood without me being right there.
Susan
mama to my cutie pie, Avery
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It's very odd to me because I can't imagine DD being 3 years old and just running around the neighborhood without me being right there.
Susan
mama to my cutie pie, Avery
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