swampnurse
08-22-2006, 10:35 PM
To all you veteran mothers of toddlers, maybe you can shed some light on this and offer suggestions.
My son just turned two and has started what we call the "silent tantrum". Thank goodness it's silent! Anyway, whenever he is reprimanded or somehow offended or just doesn't feel like going along w/ the plan, he drops to the ground on his belly facing away from us and pouts. No screaming, crying, etc. and he eventually gets up and gets over it. how would you handle this? ignore him? Sometimes i humor him by pretending he is hiding and then he smiles, but it is actually pretty annoying especially when he does it in public.
His other new trick is the sobbing. If he doesn't get what he wants and he apparently isn't in the mood for the silent thing, he'll just break out sobbing and cling to me or his dad. Like tonight when he didn't want to come into the house or last night when dad said he couldn't bring his olf club into the house. My instinct is to ignore him because it is obviosuly a fake sob and can easily and instantly be stopped by giving in, which i will not do. I know it can be stopped instantly b/c his father has given in once or twice. But if he is ignored, he clings to us even harder and follows us around sobbing. THEN i feel like a terrible mother!
He has been the model child until now, the one that makes all my friends jealous. He is showing his true toddler colors now though. please help!
My son just turned two and has started what we call the "silent tantrum". Thank goodness it's silent! Anyway, whenever he is reprimanded or somehow offended or just doesn't feel like going along w/ the plan, he drops to the ground on his belly facing away from us and pouts. No screaming, crying, etc. and he eventually gets up and gets over it. how would you handle this? ignore him? Sometimes i humor him by pretending he is hiding and then he smiles, but it is actually pretty annoying especially when he does it in public.
His other new trick is the sobbing. If he doesn't get what he wants and he apparently isn't in the mood for the silent thing, he'll just break out sobbing and cling to me or his dad. Like tonight when he didn't want to come into the house or last night when dad said he couldn't bring his olf club into the house. My instinct is to ignore him because it is obviosuly a fake sob and can easily and instantly be stopped by giving in, which i will not do. I know it can be stopped instantly b/c his father has given in once or twice. But if he is ignored, he clings to us even harder and follows us around sobbing. THEN i feel like a terrible mother!
He has been the model child until now, the one that makes all my friends jealous. He is showing his true toddler colors now though. please help!