jennabear
08-29-2006, 04:06 PM
I have a gift dilemma. DH and I are invited to an old high school friend's destination wedding. We've decided we cannot afford to go to the wedding but we were invited to her reception for those who can't attend the wedding.
Here's my dilemma. She attended my wedding and promised that she would make us our gift. (she is a very gifted artist) We never received it. That was in 2001. Right now we're pretty strapped. We can't afford a gift but I don't want to be rude. I just don't know what to do. DH says we shouldn't give a gift because she didn't but I just don't work like that. I also know that we really don't have much money since DS started school.
What would you do?
Here's my dilemma. She attended my wedding and promised that she would make us our gift. (she is a very gifted artist) We never received it. That was in 2001. Right now we're pretty strapped. We can't afford a gift but I don't want to be rude. I just don't know what to do. DH says we shouldn't give a gift because she didn't but I just don't work like that. I also know that we really don't have much money since DS started school.
What would you do?