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mamato1
09-27-2006, 11:33 PM
Well, we had a great time. We got there early while the band was still practicing. When we got to the gate everyone knew who we were and they were so nice to us. We went over to where the band was warming up and the band director came over and gave Brendan a Ravens (their mascot) t-shirt and led him over to the drum line. One of the girls in the band held him on her lap while the drum line played for him. Of course, the drill team girls fawned all over him. It turns out that Ed had read my email to the entire band, flag, and drill team so all of the kids already knew Brendan's name and were so welcoming to him.

When they were ready to take the field, they sent us into the stands to the reserved band section. We then sat there and got to watch the band on the field, they then joined us in the stands and they were all so sweet. The senior drum major came over and showed Brendan how to direct and asked him to help him when they were on the field. They let him touch their instruments and ask questions. They let him try on their hats and even fed him some of their snacks. The band director had arranged for the Ravens mascot to come in the stands and meet Brendan specifically, so Brendan got to go down and meet him.

It was Homecoming so the half-time show was the crowning ceremony and the band moved their half-time show to the end of the game. As the band left the stands, they all walked by Brendan and gave him high-fives! Brendan ate it up.

As they were announcing the half time show the announcer said, "Please welcome the band's newest honorary member 2 and 1/2 year old Brendan XXXXX. It was so neat, because Brendan recognized they were talking about him and just lit up! Then the band director's wife took him onto the field and let him sit on her lap right up front for the whole show.

Needless to say, it was a fantastic night. I am so touched by all of the effort that they all put in. We are planning on sending a picture of Brendan in his Raven's shirt and some money to help fund their trip to New York for the Veteran's Day parade where they will be the only high school band West of the Mississippi playing!

Thanks for letting me share this amazing mommy happening!
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...someone comes along who restores your faith in humanity. Read my email exchange with the local high school band director for some fuzzy good feelings!

Hi,

My name is Chris XXXXX and while I am a counselor in the XXXXXX
XXXXXX schools, I live in your attendance area. My son, who is 2 1/2
years old, is obsessed with musical instruments. We can hear your early morning practice from our house and he is so thrilled. Well, last night he slept through the night without waking me up and this morning he went to the bathroom like a big boy (if you know what I mean :)) and I promised him we would come watch marching band practice. Well, as you know, you were not outside practicing this morning and he was crushed! Could you please let me know when you will be outside practicing again. I promise we will stay well off to the side and not be a distraction in any way. The truth is he is so awed by music that he will just sit quietly and watch as long as I will let him.

I appreciate you taking the time to read my strange story and request.
I hope at the very least it gave you a little chuckle. Please know that if you are still around in about 13 years you will have a young man coming to your class who desperately wants to learn how to play the
contrabassoon!

Regards,

Chris (and Brendan) XXXXX
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Hi Chris

You made my day. We'll be on the field Friday morning. We won't start
doing what Brendan wants to see until about 8:45. We would love to have him come out. We'll take good care of him!

Ed
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Ed-

You are wonderful for taking the time to respond. Unfortunately,
parent-teacher conferences are this week and I will be unable to come on Friday, perhaps we can catch you next week on Tuesday or Thursday. I can not thank you enough for taking time to respond. I know that your days are incredibly busy as an educator.

Chris
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Hi Chris

Actually, I have another thought. I have a Ravens shirt for your son. If you guys want to come to the game Friday night vs. XXXXXXXX West, we'd love to have you sit with us. If you're interested, I'll leave passes for you at the gate.

Ed
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Tell me BBB mamas isn't that the sweetst thing???I swear when we get there I am going to kiss this man on his lips. What a wonderful gesture that is so far above and beyond. I can not tell you how many times I have gotten all misty eyed over this. (Brendan is pretty excited too!)

Thanks for letting me share my little slice of happiness.

Chris

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ribbit1019
09-27-2006, 11:57 PM
That is so incredibly nice!! What a great guy. :)

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lisams
09-28-2006, 12:04 AM
That is the best story I have read in a long time!!!! What a wonderful person he is to go out of his way for a young child. Have fun at the game!!

Aunt to sweet baby boy
09-28-2006, 01:06 AM
That is so nice. Have a great time at the game chris (and Brendan).

He sounds like a really nice guy!

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denna
09-28-2006, 01:10 AM
That is really the sweetest thing and a great story! You should tell Ed when you see him that he made alot of your friends day too, but his kindness.

It really does restore your faith.

Thanks for the great story!

MayB
09-28-2006, 06:23 AM
What a cute story and a great guy. Please update us after the game. I can't wait to hear Brendan's reaction.

karolyp
09-28-2006, 07:14 AM
How wonderful! I am so excited for you guys - and I hope you have lots of fun on friday!! Perhaps you could get him a thank you card, or atleast write to his supervisor on the school board? Anyhow,let us know how it goes on Friday!!

And congrats on the potty training!

starrynight
09-28-2006, 09:16 AM
What a sweet thing to do! :D

heidiann
09-28-2006, 10:17 AM
WOW, how sweet is that guy. That is so nice, I hope you guys have fun tomorrow night.

Heidi
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amp
09-28-2006, 10:28 AM
Chris, that is so sweet! Makes me miss home and wish Jake was going to be going to those schools too. What a nice man! And how cool that you even thought to contact him. I think he got the warm fuzzies from it, just as you did. Have fun at the game!

candybomiller
09-28-2006, 10:58 AM
Chris, that's awesome. Brendan is going to have such a great time on Friday night!!

But, uh, I probably wouldn't kiss the guy on the lips. ;)

Alice523
09-28-2006, 12:54 PM
That is so wonderful! How kind of him. I think it's very cute that your son is so excited about music, too. Thanks for sharing such a positive story. Have fun on Friday night!

mamicka
09-28-2006, 02:32 PM
Awesome! Have a great time at the game.

Allison

daniele_ut
09-28-2006, 03:00 PM
Thank you for sharing that! As the wife of a music teacher, that just warms my heart to read. I wish there were more teachers dedicated to fostering a love of music in young children. Kudos to you Chris for encouraging Brendan! I can't wait to hear how it goes!

sethsmom
09-28-2006, 08:44 PM
As a music teacher myself, I am always so thrilled whenever kids show such a passion for music. So far all I've gotten from Seth is a passion for noise (at least he has a good sense of rhythm, though!)

I agree that this teacher is a great guy for supporting your son when he's not even in his music program. I've met many-a band director who's world revolves around their marching band, and who doesn't even have time for even the 8th graders they will (hopefully) be teaching next year!

But I've also got to give Kudos to you for encouraging that love and giving your son opportunities to pursue his passion and learn as much as he can take in. Way to go, mamma!

hez
09-28-2006, 09:16 PM
That makes me smile really big :) Thank you for sharing such a happy story!

punkrockmama
09-28-2006, 09:24 PM
>That makes me smile really big :) Thank you for sharing such
>a happy story!


Ditto! That is just all kinds of awesome. :) :) So good to hear a story like that.

Wife_and_mommy
09-28-2006, 09:51 PM
Thanks for sharing such a great story!

I also need to check out our local high schools. DD *loves* music as well and would love to watch a marching band.

Miss seeing you around here, Chris. Hope all is well. :)



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mudder17
10-02-2006, 01:44 PM
Wow, that is just amazing! It's neat to know there are definitely people like him out there! Thanks for updating with your experience, Chris. I'm glad you and Brendan had such a wonderful time! :)


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tarabenet
10-02-2006, 01:47 PM
Awwwwwww! Thanks so much for the update! I'm all teary-eyed, just imagining Brendan's excitement, and yours, too.

maestramommy
10-02-2006, 01:51 PM
This is just incredible! Thanks for sharing such a great experience with us.

mommyoftwo
10-02-2006, 01:56 PM
What an amazing story for a wonderful little boy. I think it is wonderful that you are helping to support the band on their trip. Band was a very important part of my life in high school and college and IMO they people involved in them are generally pretty special. The whole story just makes me happy inside.

lisams
10-02-2006, 02:10 PM
Maybe it's the hormones but your update got me all teary eyed. It's so nice to hear stories like this.

amp
10-02-2006, 02:12 PM
Chris, you just brought tears to my eyes! That band director and that band rock! Cheers to you for even contacting him, which is what allowed this whole process to happen! And I would bet that those kids spent a lot of time talking about little Brendan that night too!

sdoyle
10-02-2006, 02:24 PM
I am so glad you and Brendan had a good time. I was thinking of you this weekend when we were driving by a school having their Fri night FB game. It's great to see such a sweet post.

(BTW- we are considering moving to the city you live in so I am glad the people at the schools are so nice!)

Stacy

tarynsmum
10-02-2006, 02:31 PM
Wow! How cool for your DS. Thanks for the update, sounds like you guys had a great time!

karolyp
10-02-2006, 02:32 PM
OMG - this post made me all teary!!! I am so astounded at what this band teacher did for you and Brendan - he deserves "teacher of the year!!!" Is there anyway you can return the favor???

Now I can't wait for DD to get a little bit bigger so we can go to the football games to hear the band!

elliput
10-02-2006, 02:48 PM
That is the coolest thing ever! I am so glad Brendan had such a wonderful time. :-)

mamato1
10-02-2006, 02:50 PM
Stacy I would love to answer any questions you have about this area. It is not perfect, but it is a great place to raise kids.

Chris

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sidmand
10-02-2006, 02:58 PM
Glad to read I'm not the only one who got teary-eyed when I read your update (and I thought it was just PMS!). That is such a wonderful story! Brendan must have had an awesome time.

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elephantmeg
10-02-2006, 03:38 PM
that's awesome!

niccig
10-02-2006, 04:58 PM
Wow, that's a great teacher and group of students. You're right, good guys still exist.

Nicci

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niccig
10-02-2006, 04:59 PM
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elliput
10-02-2006, 05:04 PM
Wow, Nicci! I think 5 is a record. :P

sdoyle
10-02-2006, 08:59 PM
Thanks so much! I will e-mail you tomorrow if that's OK?

niccig
10-02-2006, 09:55 PM
Something funky happened. The mouse button on my laptop got stuck and so I ended up with 5 extra posts. What a pain.. x(

candybomiller
10-02-2006, 10:44 PM
What a fantastic time Brendan must have had. I assume you got pictures, right?!

ribbit1019
10-03-2006, 01:30 AM
Just awesome. :) ;)

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Globetrotter
10-03-2006, 01:59 AM
That is one of the sweetest, cutest things I've ever heard of!

Kris

JTsMom
10-03-2006, 07:19 AM
Oh my gosh, that is one of the nicest stories I've heard in a long time! I'm sitting here all teary thinking about how happy you guys must have been.

I'm wondering if you sent this story into the local newspaper with a little blurb about their upcoming trip if people would send in some donations. I can't imagine anyone not being touched by this!

traciann
10-03-2006, 11:05 AM
What a wonderful story! My DH is a high school band director, and I retold the story to him and he loved it.

Traci

denna
10-03-2006, 11:30 AM
Chris-

That is so great Im so glad you guys had so much fun, that is just the sweetest thing!!!

I think your idea of a donation is wonderful, and Im sure it will be greatly appreciated. They sound like such a great group.

Im glad you guys had so much fun.

Thanks for sharing this great story again...

Denna

MartiesMom2B
10-03-2006, 12:26 PM
That's awesome. I'm glad he had so much fun.

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mamato1
10-03-2006, 01:45 PM
I have been busy at work and home since I posted this yesterday and had not had a chance to come back and read all of the replies. Thanks so much for sharing my enthusiasm. I love the idea of trying to get this into the paper to solicit donations for the band. I will definitley check into that!

Thanks All!!