momofjandl
12-07-2006, 04:29 PM
We hired a nanny over the summer b/c we were about to start a business. We decided to wait on the business but kept the nanny anyways to give me some time to myself.
Well it seems that it is costing us a little more than we can afford right now. (Cutting into our savings.) On top of that she has been very short and impatient with my oldest. (Who I admit can be frustrating.) However, I feel that I am paying her to be professional and to do a job. Which is to care for my two kids. (She has no other job responsibilities.)Also, when I say frustrating (he's almost 4) he is just very active and at times doesn't listen or gets too excited. But he is calmed by doing quiet things like reading etc. He is not aggressive in any way.
I have talked to her about the best ways to handle my oldest and she did well for a while. But has regressed into old patterns. Lately my oldest has said that he doesn't like her and is using the terms good boy and bad boy. Which are terms we do not use and have told her so. We use words like good choices or good behavior.
So I think it's to the point that I need to let her go but am not sure how to. In our contract it states that we will give each other a 30 day notice, which I intend to keep. However it's holiday season, she's a college student, and I feel sort of bad. I know she will be mad, but I know that this is the right choice for our family. DH says it's my decision.
What to do? Thanks in advance!
Well it seems that it is costing us a little more than we can afford right now. (Cutting into our savings.) On top of that she has been very short and impatient with my oldest. (Who I admit can be frustrating.) However, I feel that I am paying her to be professional and to do a job. Which is to care for my two kids. (She has no other job responsibilities.)Also, when I say frustrating (he's almost 4) he is just very active and at times doesn't listen or gets too excited. But he is calmed by doing quiet things like reading etc. He is not aggressive in any way.
I have talked to her about the best ways to handle my oldest and she did well for a while. But has regressed into old patterns. Lately my oldest has said that he doesn't like her and is using the terms good boy and bad boy. Which are terms we do not use and have told her so. We use words like good choices or good behavior.
So I think it's to the point that I need to let her go but am not sure how to. In our contract it states that we will give each other a 30 day notice, which I intend to keep. However it's holiday season, she's a college student, and I feel sort of bad. I know she will be mad, but I know that this is the right choice for our family. DH says it's my decision.
What to do? Thanks in advance!