LD92599
12-08-2006, 10:32 PM
The good news is that DS is now back to sleeping in his bed, alone, all night. The bad news is that if I'm home he doesn't go to sleep until I do (or even after if DH is still up) and it's a constant battle from 8pm onward til 11 or so. The stall tactics are driving me (and DH) up a wall! Help!
I know we *need* to establish a set routine but it's sooo hard. For example, we'll be out tomorrow until later on in the evening; we'll have DS in his PJs and keep the music low, etc on the way home in the hopes that he'll fall asleep; Sunday we have plans w/ my sis and BIL to do Christmas stuff so again, another evening out. Monday I have an organization meeting of which I'm President of, so DH gets bedtime and then Tuesday i'm having a few of the moms from meetup.com over for a Photoshop Lesson!
So we'll start in earnest on Wednesday but even still I need help against the stalling. Our bedrooms are all on the 2nd floor; our main floor is easily seen from the top of the staircase; DS will often come into the hallway and lay down to watch whatever TV we're watching (we're thinking of DVR soon so he's not watching stuff he shouldn't be).
The stalling ranges from being hungry, thirsty, needs to go potty, can't find a "certain" matchbox, etc. Not sure how much more of this we can take!
Oh, and forgot to mention that If It's a night (ie: this coming Monday) where I'm out for the evening, DS is asleep on the couch by 9pm at the latest and then easily transferred to bed?
Regarding Naps: He does nap for ~hour / day at school. Weekends he doesn't get a set nap and bedtime is a LITTLE easier but HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
TIA! This is long!
Laura
Will is three and a half - we're now making progress with sleeping!
I know we *need* to establish a set routine but it's sooo hard. For example, we'll be out tomorrow until later on in the evening; we'll have DS in his PJs and keep the music low, etc on the way home in the hopes that he'll fall asleep; Sunday we have plans w/ my sis and BIL to do Christmas stuff so again, another evening out. Monday I have an organization meeting of which I'm President of, so DH gets bedtime and then Tuesday i'm having a few of the moms from meetup.com over for a Photoshop Lesson!
So we'll start in earnest on Wednesday but even still I need help against the stalling. Our bedrooms are all on the 2nd floor; our main floor is easily seen from the top of the staircase; DS will often come into the hallway and lay down to watch whatever TV we're watching (we're thinking of DVR soon so he's not watching stuff he shouldn't be).
The stalling ranges from being hungry, thirsty, needs to go potty, can't find a "certain" matchbox, etc. Not sure how much more of this we can take!
Oh, and forgot to mention that If It's a night (ie: this coming Monday) where I'm out for the evening, DS is asleep on the couch by 9pm at the latest and then easily transferred to bed?
Regarding Naps: He does nap for ~hour / day at school. Weekends he doesn't get a set nap and bedtime is a LITTLE easier but HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
TIA! This is long!
Laura
Will is three and a half - we're now making progress with sleeping!