kozachka
04-27-2007, 05:23 PM
Maybe this is the wrong board for this kind of question but I think some if not many of you would be able to relate... While most days I am proud of the deals that I find, there are days (like yesterday) when I can't help but wonder if saving are really worth the time and effort I put into achieving them.
Let me give you an example. I had to book a rental car for 10 days in FL. Hotwire quoted me $227 for economy car, don't remember how much a midsize car was, probably $20 more. After checking FatWallet travel board and bidding a few times on Priceline, I ended up with a midsize car for $199. Was the >$50 savings worth the time it took away from my sleep? Probably not, considering our finances, still I could not help it. Similarly, I spend hours upon hours, if not days, trying to ge the best deal on hotels. We love travelling so it's almost a hobby for me, I learn a lot about the area in the process and for most part we have great experience but maybe we would have been as happy with something suggested by a travel agent? I can probably work as one myself having planned our trips for the last 9-10 years in even such exotic locations as Vietnam.
Also, I am getting a distinct feeling that I am too cheap as far as my clothing and shoes are concerned. People who make far less than I do spend few times more on their wardrobe while I wear the same (classic good quality) thing season after season. Some of my suits are 10 years old! My boss' PA just bought her 3rd pair of boots (only :eyeroll $300) this season alone while I am still wearing boots that I bought pre-DS. Granted they did not see much wear in California the first few years but still. I like nice things but cringe at the prices.
Need to learn to be less cheap.
P.S. I don't have as much of a problem buying things for DS & DH and splurging on meals in restaurants. Go figure.
Let me give you an example. I had to book a rental car for 10 days in FL. Hotwire quoted me $227 for economy car, don't remember how much a midsize car was, probably $20 more. After checking FatWallet travel board and bidding a few times on Priceline, I ended up with a midsize car for $199. Was the >$50 savings worth the time it took away from my sleep? Probably not, considering our finances, still I could not help it. Similarly, I spend hours upon hours, if not days, trying to ge the best deal on hotels. We love travelling so it's almost a hobby for me, I learn a lot about the area in the process and for most part we have great experience but maybe we would have been as happy with something suggested by a travel agent? I can probably work as one myself having planned our trips for the last 9-10 years in even such exotic locations as Vietnam.
Also, I am getting a distinct feeling that I am too cheap as far as my clothing and shoes are concerned. People who make far less than I do spend few times more on their wardrobe while I wear the same (classic good quality) thing season after season. Some of my suits are 10 years old! My boss' PA just bought her 3rd pair of boots (only :eyeroll $300) this season alone while I am still wearing boots that I bought pre-DS. Granted they did not see much wear in California the first few years but still. I like nice things but cringe at the prices.
Need to learn to be less cheap.
P.S. I don't have as much of a problem buying things for DS & DH and splurging on meals in restaurants. Go figure.