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JoyNChrist
08-28-2007, 03:15 PM
Well...

My u/s got moved to this morning (the tech was out sick yesterday), which is why I didn't post the due date y'all were expecting yesterday.

But when we went in today, there was no heartbeat.

I guess I probably shouldn't have posted anything until I had the u/s, but everything went so smoothly with Avery that I never really thought there could be problems. Thankfully, we hadn't told our families, so at least we don't have to deal with that.

I'm okay...just processing, I guess. I honestly hadn't really come to terms with the idea of being pregnant again, so this is just a lot to get my head around.

Anyway, I just wanted to let y'all know what was going on...

LarsMal
08-28-2007, 03:23 PM
Oh no, Stacy! I'm SO sorry to hear that. BIG (((HUGS))) to you and your hubby- and Avery, too, of course.

We're here for you if you need any support.

lizajane
08-28-2007, 03:26 PM
oh stacy, i am so sorry for your loss. peace to you and keith. the Lord works in mysterious ways. we are here for you.

TaChapm
08-28-2007, 03:30 PM
Stacy,
I am so sorry! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your DH.

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SnuggleBuggles
08-28-2007, 03:31 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.

Beth

linsei
08-28-2007, 04:04 PM
I'm sorry for your loss.

Linda

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californiagirl
08-28-2007, 04:08 PM
Oh man, what a roller coaster ride! I'm so sorry.

lisams
08-28-2007, 04:28 PM
I'm so sorry. Thinking of you.

NeyhaR
08-28-2007, 04:34 PM
I'm so very sorry. A similar thing happened to me (unexpected pregnancy, excitement/anxiety/processing, only to find out it wasn't meant to be...). I hope you find comfort in your family and this community too.

bubbaray
08-28-2007, 04:36 PM
So sorry for your loss. Hugs


Melissa

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cvanbrunt
08-28-2007, 04:58 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss.

-Carrie

Melanie
08-28-2007, 05:12 PM
I'm sorry, Stacy.

deenass
08-28-2007, 05:16 PM
Stacy,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss - unexpected or not, it is a loss - and you need time to grieve.

Don't be afraid to tell people - it is nothing to be ashamed of and you have the right to receive comfort from people sho love and care about you.

ellies mom
08-28-2007, 05:30 PM
Stacy-
I'm really sorry.

megs4413
08-28-2007, 05:34 PM
so sorry, sweetie.

Marisa6826
08-28-2007, 05:38 PM
:(

I'm sorry, Girlie.


Tell your DH that regardless of today's events, he's still not keeping the damn ferret. (hope that at least made you smile a little bit ;) )

hugs

-m

maestramommy
08-28-2007, 05:41 PM
I'm very sorry Stacey. It IS so much to process. Remember we're here for you.

elizabethkott
08-28-2007, 05:55 PM
So sorry for your loss.
(((((Hugs)))))

scoop22
08-28-2007, 05:58 PM
Stacy
thoughts are with you and your family. thinking of you through this time!!!

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o_mom
08-28-2007, 06:39 PM
I'm so sorry.

crAbbymom
08-28-2007, 06:41 PM
(((Hugs))) I'm so sorry for your loss.

JBaxter
08-28-2007, 06:50 PM
HUGS... It is heartbreaking Ive been through it twice.

karolyp
08-28-2007, 07:03 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs mama

kdeunc
08-28-2007, 07:07 PM
Stacy,
I am so sorry for your loss.

elephantmeg
08-28-2007, 07:41 PM
I'm sorry Stacy. Prayerful good wishes to you and your family as you work through the emotions.

fortato
08-28-2007, 07:43 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Take care...

cleo27
08-28-2007, 07:51 PM
I'm sorry - even though it was a surprise, it is still a lot to process.

Hugs,

Ceepa
08-28-2007, 08:05 PM
Oh, Stacy.

I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself.

-Ceepa

lovelytwins
08-28-2007, 08:34 PM
BIG HUGS!

KrisM
08-28-2007, 08:59 PM
I am very sorry for your loss.

Nooknookmom
08-28-2007, 09:12 PM
Oh, I am so sorry. Huggs & more huggs.

mommy_someday
08-28-2007, 09:18 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss.

gatorsmom
08-28-2007, 09:42 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. So many of us have been through something like this, feel free to vent about it to us.

Lisa
Mom to Gator July 2003
And Cha-Cha July 2005
and surprise! twins due 11/07!

lmintzer
08-28-2007, 09:42 PM
Stacy,
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. Try to care of yourself during this tough time.

mudder17
08-28-2007, 10:16 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss Stacy. Peace and hugs.


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Fairy
08-28-2007, 10:16 PM
Stacie, I'm very sorry. Whatever way you grieve that helps is the right way. It's ok not to tell your famililes. And it's ok TO tell your families. Whatever feels right to you. We're a good community for support. You're a nice girl; good things will continue to come. In the meantime, I'm very sorry.

-- Fairy

jk3
08-28-2007, 10:26 PM
I'm so sorry.

Jenn
DS 6/03
DS 5/07

Tondi G
08-29-2007, 01:28 AM
Oh no! I'm so sorry. Having been through 2 missed MC's myself I've been there. It is a lot to get your head around! It sucks.... no other words for it! HUGS headed your way mama!

~Tondi
Mommy to Mason 7/01 and Aidan 5/05

denna
08-29-2007, 03:10 AM
I'm sorry for your loss Stacey.

Mamma2004
08-29-2007, 06:41 AM
Stacy, I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers go out to you and your family.

Stephanie

caleymama
08-29-2007, 07:42 AM
I'm so sorry to see this news.

AbbysMom
08-29-2007, 08:29 AM
So sorry to hear that. Hugs to your and your DH.

mamicka
08-29-2007, 09:12 AM
I'm so sorry, Stacy. {{HUGS}}

Allison
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Mommy Of A Little Angel
08-29-2007, 09:57 AM
Oh Stacy I am so sorry for your loss. I had something very similar happen and it is definitely hard to get your head around. You are in my thoughts. <Hugs>

Puddy73
08-29-2007, 11:07 AM
Oh honey, I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself.

Jennifer
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TraciG
08-29-2007, 11:15 AM
So sorry , thinking of you !

almostmom
08-29-2007, 11:42 AM
so sorry to hear your news. glad you have us to share the good and the sad with. hang in there. you're not alone.

DrSally
08-29-2007, 01:05 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss :(

ett
08-29-2007, 02:15 PM
I am so sorry. Hugs.

jawilli4
08-29-2007, 03:23 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss, too.

SASM
08-29-2007, 05:32 PM
Stacy,

I am so sorry. I know that the pg was a shock but it is still an unexpected loss and I am so sorry. Believe me, I can relate. If you need something to read to help you, I have some things that I can email you...LMK.

HUGE (((((hugs)))).

Happy 2B mommy
08-29-2007, 10:28 PM
So sorry to read about your loss.

punkrockmama
08-30-2007, 12:07 AM
Oh Stacy. Hon, I am so sorry to read this. Big hugs to you. Take care down there.


ETA: Uh, I meant down south, you know, cause that's where you live. Not actually "down there". Oh for goodness sakes....

katiesmommy
08-30-2007, 07:10 AM
Oh Stacy, I'm so sorry. There are no words. My heart breaks for you.

Jenn98
08-30-2007, 07:18 AM
I imagine it is a lot to wrap your head around. Give yourself time to process it all and work through it all. (((HUGS))) to you and your family.

bostonsmama
08-30-2007, 12:51 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss, Stacy. There is something universal about loss that no matter how much time you had or where your feeling lay on the spectrum, it's hard to experience.

jenjenfirenjen
08-30-2007, 01:25 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that. Big hugs mama.