Help! Need a messenger bag for 2! Saw the FL Mothership today and it was HUGE!

[Kearstenn]

OK..I thought I had settled on the getting a Sling Tote and the Oi Oi Messenger for baby #2 coming in Sept. I have a 2.5 year old...just starting to work on potty training (and it's not going well!). My DH really like the Messenger, so that was put on the list, but I saw the Fleurville Mothership today, which is suppose to be a little bit smaller, and it was huge! Does anyone own the Messenger? Is it a monster to carry around? Any other suggestions for a messenger bag???
Thanks! Kear

[audball]

I owned the oioi messenger and at 5'2", I didn't think it was huge at all. If you opt for the nylon fabrics, they tend to mold their shape to what you are holding in it. But my bag never looked stuffed and I packed for 2 in dipes for awhile.

Other messengers:
Lexie Barnes SuperStar
JuJuBe Be All
Dadgear/daisygear Messenger
Timbuk2 Small or Medium Messenger with divider pocket (custom)
OiOi Hobo Bag
Holly Aiken Messenger (I think it's called the Airship or Bomber?)