TaChapm
10-04-2006, 10:43 AM
I have a cousin who has a 7 year old biological child and has suddenly come across a 21 month old boy who they are thinking about adopting. They are wanting a toddler so this is perfect but she has some fears that I think most parents probably have. I know I had these fears when pregnant with #2.
She is really worried that she won't be able to love this little boy like her first son. I know I worried that I wouldn't love Tyler like I loved Jackson but of course it just happens. I am just wondering if any of you felt this way. I think once she gets the little boy and makes him her own that she will know what I am talking about but she is just really scared that she will feel differently about an adoptive son. This has all happened within 2 weeks and is moving really fast. They have always wanted to adopt but now she is scared that she might not love him like her first.
I was also wondering if those of you who know about adoption could see if there is anything strange about this agency. Apparently the are desperatly looking for adoptive parents for newborns which seems strange. Over the past 3 years since she has been considering adopting they have always seemed to have babies needing to be adopted. It just seems too good to be true.
Here is thier website:
http://aimadoptions.org/about_us.htm
Tara
Mommy to Jackson 11-10-02
Tyler 6-9-05
& Baby Jaci 8-10-06
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http://b2.lilypie.com/sJmVm7.png
http://b1.lilypie.com/EZwnm7.png
She is really worried that she won't be able to love this little boy like her first son. I know I worried that I wouldn't love Tyler like I loved Jackson but of course it just happens. I am just wondering if any of you felt this way. I think once she gets the little boy and makes him her own that she will know what I am talking about but she is just really scared that she will feel differently about an adoptive son. This has all happened within 2 weeks and is moving really fast. They have always wanted to adopt but now she is scared that she might not love him like her first.
I was also wondering if those of you who know about adoption could see if there is anything strange about this agency. Apparently the are desperatly looking for adoptive parents for newborns which seems strange. Over the past 3 years since she has been considering adopting they have always seemed to have babies needing to be adopted. It just seems too good to be true.
Here is thier website:
http://aimadoptions.org/about_us.htm
Tara
Mommy to Jackson 11-10-02
Tyler 6-9-05
& Baby Jaci 8-10-06
http://b4.lilypie.com/gzWfm8.png
http://b2.lilypie.com/sJmVm7.png
http://b1.lilypie.com/EZwnm7.png