Mom2Jackaroo
07-04-2007, 09:34 PM
Sleep is our biggest stumbling block. DS has reflux, with pretty severe spit up. It interfered with his ability to sleep as a newborn, going through days without naps and frequent wakenings through the night beyond what it should be. With the help of Zantac and a pacifier, we've gotten to a happy compromise...about 3 naps a day for anywhere from 2-3hrs total and then a reasonable bedtime between 8 and 9. But he has NEVER been able to self-soothe enough to fall asleep on his own.
DS just turned 4 months, and discovered many things to keep him awake. This includes smiling at mom and dad, turning over, chewing on his hands, pacifiers, kicking, coughing, spitting up, etc. I let him try to play it out at 2 am, and he lasted an hour on his own before I tried to put him back to sleep. Though naptimes are still easy to put him to sleep, putting him to sleep for the night instantly turned difficult. He's had several 3 hour long marathons, and I hate to encourage this habit.
The Baby 411 says to Ferberize at 5-6 months, but not on babies under 4 months and leaves a grey area. We haven't bought the actual book by Ferber, but will be getting that tomorrow. Has anyone had success at 4 months, and did you have a GERDling? We attempted to start the process tonight, but DS played happily for 45 minutes, then cried himself into a coughing fit that needed our intervention (he is recuperating from a double ear infection).
Thoughts? Am I a push-over mommy?
DS just turned 4 months, and discovered many things to keep him awake. This includes smiling at mom and dad, turning over, chewing on his hands, pacifiers, kicking, coughing, spitting up, etc. I let him try to play it out at 2 am, and he lasted an hour on his own before I tried to put him back to sleep. Though naptimes are still easy to put him to sleep, putting him to sleep for the night instantly turned difficult. He's had several 3 hour long marathons, and I hate to encourage this habit.
The Baby 411 says to Ferberize at 5-6 months, but not on babies under 4 months and leaves a grey area. We haven't bought the actual book by Ferber, but will be getting that tomorrow. Has anyone had success at 4 months, and did you have a GERDling? We attempted to start the process tonight, but DS played happily for 45 minutes, then cried himself into a coughing fit that needed our intervention (he is recuperating from a double ear infection).
Thoughts? Am I a push-over mommy?