DebbieJ
06-21-2005, 10:21 PM
This is driving me crazy! My DH is WAY overprotective of DS. We'll be outside and DS will want to run down the sidewalk, but DH is 2 inches behind him, ready to catch him if he falls. He is a little boy. He falls. It happens. He has plenty of scrapes, bumps, and bruises. But he's fine.
I feel this is hampering our outside family time. I like to go outside, hang out, take a walk after dinner. DH just cannot let DS be. DS wants to climb up our front patio or the front patio of our neighbors. It's concrete and it's only two steps! But DH is there, running in and swooping DS up lest he fall. He did this the other day when a bunch of neighbors were hanging out in the driveway at one neighbor's house. DS didn't want to be held, so DH ended up taking him home.
I know I shouldn't tell him how to parent his own son, but I would really like him to lighten up! I want to be able to sit outside and relax and let DS run around with the other kids a little bit. I also think some of our neighbors may be laughing at DH for being so overprotective.
Any thoughts?
~ deb
DS 12/03
And a niece or nephew arriving in early August!
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I feel this is hampering our outside family time. I like to go outside, hang out, take a walk after dinner. DH just cannot let DS be. DS wants to climb up our front patio or the front patio of our neighbors. It's concrete and it's only two steps! But DH is there, running in and swooping DS up lest he fall. He did this the other day when a bunch of neighbors were hanging out in the driveway at one neighbor's house. DS didn't want to be held, so DH ended up taking him home.
I know I shouldn't tell him how to parent his own son, but I would really like him to lighten up! I want to be able to sit outside and relax and let DS run around with the other kids a little bit. I also think some of our neighbors may be laughing at DH for being so overprotective.
Any thoughts?
~ deb
DS 12/03
And a niece or nephew arriving in early August!
http://www.windsorpeak.com/dc/user_files/10029.gif