tnrnchick74
03-17-2008, 10:16 AM
Ok, so one of my dear friends told me a long time ago that she had a crib & changing table she could loan me for my baby coming in May/June.
She showed me pics, told me the brand-name (very nice & good quality)...so I planned on NOT buying a crib and changing table because I was thankful I could borrow.
Yesterday was the day that I could go and pick the furniture up at her mother's house. My friend was working that day and unable to get off. Now, I don't want to believe that my friend lied to me, or did a "switch" OR that her mother did either of those things...I think the world of my coworker! But the crib we received was a cheap $99 walmart special that was broken! The changing table was just as bad. The only resemblence to the picture I was shown was the color!
So I have my Mom there (she has a truck) to load the stuff - Mom didn't say antyhing to me, we jsut took the stuff home and put it together. IT LEANED ALMOST 30 DEGREES on its own and there was no way to tighten it anymore. I was SOO upset & started crying...and couldn't stop. I hadn't budgeted any $$ for baby furniture because I THOUGHT it was taken care of.
My Mom quickly dissassembled the crib, loaded me in the truck, and took me to Burlington Outlet where they were having a HUGE sale on tons of models of cribs. She ended up buying me a Delta Jasmine 5-in-1 crib and a Delta Chelsea dresser/changing table. No, they aren't a "matched" set - but they are close enough! I know that the Delta cribs/furniture are not "high $$$" but it is pretty nice and its MUCH better than what I was going to be stuck with!
We spent until 11 pm putting things together. But theroom looks so nice. So why am I still very upset? I feel guilty that my Mom HAD to buy the furniture for me. I guess I also feel like I failed as my first big decisions as a mother - I made the decision to accept the loan of the furniture.
So now, I have to figure out a way to give back the crib/changer without making my friend feel bad. I also have to work extra to pay my Mom back - she took the $$ out of her vacation fund! I know she says I don't HAVE to pay her back, but I feel obligated!
Why can't I just sit back and be happy about the beautiful furniture!!! I just want to crawl into a hole and cry!!!
Thanks for listening!
She showed me pics, told me the brand-name (very nice & good quality)...so I planned on NOT buying a crib and changing table because I was thankful I could borrow.
Yesterday was the day that I could go and pick the furniture up at her mother's house. My friend was working that day and unable to get off. Now, I don't want to believe that my friend lied to me, or did a "switch" OR that her mother did either of those things...I think the world of my coworker! But the crib we received was a cheap $99 walmart special that was broken! The changing table was just as bad. The only resemblence to the picture I was shown was the color!
So I have my Mom there (she has a truck) to load the stuff - Mom didn't say antyhing to me, we jsut took the stuff home and put it together. IT LEANED ALMOST 30 DEGREES on its own and there was no way to tighten it anymore. I was SOO upset & started crying...and couldn't stop. I hadn't budgeted any $$ for baby furniture because I THOUGHT it was taken care of.
My Mom quickly dissassembled the crib, loaded me in the truck, and took me to Burlington Outlet where they were having a HUGE sale on tons of models of cribs. She ended up buying me a Delta Jasmine 5-in-1 crib and a Delta Chelsea dresser/changing table. No, they aren't a "matched" set - but they are close enough! I know that the Delta cribs/furniture are not "high $$$" but it is pretty nice and its MUCH better than what I was going to be stuck with!
We spent until 11 pm putting things together. But theroom looks so nice. So why am I still very upset? I feel guilty that my Mom HAD to buy the furniture for me. I guess I also feel like I failed as my first big decisions as a mother - I made the decision to accept the loan of the furniture.
So now, I have to figure out a way to give back the crib/changer without making my friend feel bad. I also have to work extra to pay my Mom back - she took the $$ out of her vacation fund! I know she says I don't HAVE to pay her back, but I feel obligated!
Why can't I just sit back and be happy about the beautiful furniture!!! I just want to crawl into a hole and cry!!!
Thanks for listening!