Melaine
07-10-2008, 08:18 PM
So here's the story...
My twin girls are almost 21 months old. They are....well, super sensitive, and kind of extreme in their personalities. They are somewhat unpredictable and moody. At first I thought they might have some kind of sensory disorders, but lately I think that they are just very sensitive by nature and seem to be able to work through it better as they get older.
I didn't want to push potty training, but at the same time I was getting the vibe that they were ready. They come to me immediately when their diapers are dirty and often when they are wet, and I'd been showing them how I go potty.
I read the Potty Training in Less Than A Day (or whatever it is called) because my dad trained me that way in only 3 hours which I thought sounded great. I had my sister come in town to help me on Tuesday and had all the props ready.
It was a disaster....
The girls were pretty intrigued by the dolls that pottied...and I think they understood must of it. However, I couldn't bribe them to sit on the pottys for more than a few seconds. DD1 jumped up and almost immediately peed in her training pants. She was shocked and terrified (actually they both were). I'd been following the book exactly but I wasn't about to say "NO" loudly and scold them since they were already in tears.
We calmed them down and sat them on the potties again. Even bribing them with an almost constant flow of cookies, I couldn't get them to stay long enough. Pretty quickly, they popped up and DD2 peed in her training pants (she is the more sensitive of the two). She had a total meltdown, ran to the door of the kitchen and acted terrified. We then offered them all the treats we had but they would have none of it.
SOooo...my decision at that point was to pack all the supplies up and pretend like it never happened. We went back to diapers and went off to watch a movie to distract them from their "traumatic" experience. I'd love any and all advice because these are my first two and since they had to come at once *lol* we are even more overwhelmed about this!
I guess my question is, should I try this method again soon, or put it off for a month or two, or try some other method, or what? Thanks for your wisdom!
MORE QUESTIONS:
Sorry if I am not following the right etiquette in updating my post. Thanks for all your responses, and I hope maybe you can help me a little more.
So, it's been a week or so since the original failed potty training experience. Since then, I have been adding a lot of dialogue to our conversation about potty training, bought the girls little pottys that are comfier for the bathroom, and I take them in with me whenever I go myself. I am taking the "no pressure" route for now, but this is really weird:
The girls all of the sudden seem 100% aware every time they pee and it gets them very upset! Not only that but they leak now nearly everytime. I've watched them, and it's like they know they are about to pee and they are scared about it (presumably from the big "potty day" experience) so they spread their legs out kind of weird and wet their diapers. They start whining and it often seems to leak out because of this weird position that they are standing in....so now they have me change them the moment they are dirty or wet and they seem upset...what is this all about????
My twin girls are almost 21 months old. They are....well, super sensitive, and kind of extreme in their personalities. They are somewhat unpredictable and moody. At first I thought they might have some kind of sensory disorders, but lately I think that they are just very sensitive by nature and seem to be able to work through it better as they get older.
I didn't want to push potty training, but at the same time I was getting the vibe that they were ready. They come to me immediately when their diapers are dirty and often when they are wet, and I'd been showing them how I go potty.
I read the Potty Training in Less Than A Day (or whatever it is called) because my dad trained me that way in only 3 hours which I thought sounded great. I had my sister come in town to help me on Tuesday and had all the props ready.
It was a disaster....
The girls were pretty intrigued by the dolls that pottied...and I think they understood must of it. However, I couldn't bribe them to sit on the pottys for more than a few seconds. DD1 jumped up and almost immediately peed in her training pants. She was shocked and terrified (actually they both were). I'd been following the book exactly but I wasn't about to say "NO" loudly and scold them since they were already in tears.
We calmed them down and sat them on the potties again. Even bribing them with an almost constant flow of cookies, I couldn't get them to stay long enough. Pretty quickly, they popped up and DD2 peed in her training pants (she is the more sensitive of the two). She had a total meltdown, ran to the door of the kitchen and acted terrified. We then offered them all the treats we had but they would have none of it.
SOooo...my decision at that point was to pack all the supplies up and pretend like it never happened. We went back to diapers and went off to watch a movie to distract them from their "traumatic" experience. I'd love any and all advice because these are my first two and since they had to come at once *lol* we are even more overwhelmed about this!
I guess my question is, should I try this method again soon, or put it off for a month or two, or try some other method, or what? Thanks for your wisdom!
MORE QUESTIONS:
Sorry if I am not following the right etiquette in updating my post. Thanks for all your responses, and I hope maybe you can help me a little more.
So, it's been a week or so since the original failed potty training experience. Since then, I have been adding a lot of dialogue to our conversation about potty training, bought the girls little pottys that are comfier for the bathroom, and I take them in with me whenever I go myself. I am taking the "no pressure" route for now, but this is really weird:
The girls all of the sudden seem 100% aware every time they pee and it gets them very upset! Not only that but they leak now nearly everytime. I've watched them, and it's like they know they are about to pee and they are scared about it (presumably from the big "potty day" experience) so they spread their legs out kind of weird and wet their diapers. They start whining and it often seems to leak out because of this weird position that they are standing in....so now they have me change them the moment they are dirty or wet and they seem upset...what is this all about????