MamaMolly
08-19-2008, 11:16 AM
This is my own doing. I'm b!tching because I know I have no one to blame but myself, and I have to figure out what I'm going to and no one IRL (read that as DH) wants to hear me process.
So feel free to click the back button! ;)
DDs second birthday is next month. DH's parents want to come for it, fine. So we planned the party on a Saturday they can make it. Only thing is that I was planning on having a playdate/party at a local park with our house as back up in case of rain. Stupid me waited until now to try and book the park, which is naturally full. :banghead: Again, no one to blame but myself! DH of course wants to be there and is willing to take a day off work but I hate to have him do that. (We are starting fertility treatments and he'll be taking a lot of days here and there in the coming months plus he has a new supervisor...)
Add to that DDs playgroup is mostly boys and there are 10 of them. Please don't flame me! I know I'm generalizing! But it has been *my experience* for the last 2 years that the boys are more physical in their play than the girls. Again, an observational experience, not to be construed as a criticism at all. We have a tiny house, so plus the extra siblings we'd have 14 kids(!!!!) PLUS parents if everyone comes. That is crazy considering how small our house is! Plus the ILs and my Aunt and Uncle who would likely come...I was hoping that in case of rain and we had to move the party to the house then some folks would send regrets. ;)
And the last straw was this morning when I got an Evite for my neighbor's kid's party. Ugh. We just don't socialize much with the family. To be honest it wasn't even on my radar screen to invite him to DDs birthday. The ugly mean person in me (that came here to b!tch in the first place) feels like I'd *have* to invite him instead of *wanting* to. . They live 4 doors down (condo) so its not like I can have a party here and NOT invite him... So plus his little sister that makes 12 kids!
I've been hitting the back to school and end of season sales for DDs goody bags, and I don't think I'm going to have enough stuff... Oh good greif! This is getting out of hand.
But the good news is that during the time I've been typing this I've pretty much decided to do a Friday at the Park party if I can reserve the picnic area. DH can take a day, and I'll get over it. It is the course of least resistance. Ugh.
Thanks if you made it through this, and feel free to offer any advice or BTDT.
So feel free to click the back button! ;)
DDs second birthday is next month. DH's parents want to come for it, fine. So we planned the party on a Saturday they can make it. Only thing is that I was planning on having a playdate/party at a local park with our house as back up in case of rain. Stupid me waited until now to try and book the park, which is naturally full. :banghead: Again, no one to blame but myself! DH of course wants to be there and is willing to take a day off work but I hate to have him do that. (We are starting fertility treatments and he'll be taking a lot of days here and there in the coming months plus he has a new supervisor...)
Add to that DDs playgroup is mostly boys and there are 10 of them. Please don't flame me! I know I'm generalizing! But it has been *my experience* for the last 2 years that the boys are more physical in their play than the girls. Again, an observational experience, not to be construed as a criticism at all. We have a tiny house, so plus the extra siblings we'd have 14 kids(!!!!) PLUS parents if everyone comes. That is crazy considering how small our house is! Plus the ILs and my Aunt and Uncle who would likely come...I was hoping that in case of rain and we had to move the party to the house then some folks would send regrets. ;)
And the last straw was this morning when I got an Evite for my neighbor's kid's party. Ugh. We just don't socialize much with the family. To be honest it wasn't even on my radar screen to invite him to DDs birthday. The ugly mean person in me (that came here to b!tch in the first place) feels like I'd *have* to invite him instead of *wanting* to. . They live 4 doors down (condo) so its not like I can have a party here and NOT invite him... So plus his little sister that makes 12 kids!
I've been hitting the back to school and end of season sales for DDs goody bags, and I don't think I'm going to have enough stuff... Oh good greif! This is getting out of hand.
But the good news is that during the time I've been typing this I've pretty much decided to do a Friday at the Park party if I can reserve the picnic area. DH can take a day, and I'll get over it. It is the course of least resistance. Ugh.
Thanks if you made it through this, and feel free to offer any advice or BTDT.