HIU8
08-30-2008, 10:43 PM
UPDATE
DS and I discussed it today. Especially b/c DS had a meltdown at a friends bday party. He only knows the bday boy and one other boy and he clung to me for 1 hour (poor DD is so used to being independent when this happens). Meanwhile this evening another chilld from the neighborhood said hi to DS and he stopped and waved and said hi back and told the little boy that he was going to the playground. When I asked DS why he behaved differently the night before with other children he told me he didn't want them to do bubbles on his lawn, just on his porch and he didn't want the girls there (at almost 4 girls have become yucky). We discussed appropriate behavior, so we shall see.
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DS is extremely shy. He isn't that way at school, just around the neighbor kids (most of whom are around his age). Tonight they all came over when they saw us blowing bubbles outside (with parents). DS didn't want them to do bubbles with him and ran to the porch laid down and started to wail. This is not the first time he has done this. However, he will go to their yards and play. He just does this when they come to his yard. DS will also not say hi to friends at school when we get there. He roars. Sometimes he smooshes his face into this look and stares at people when they say something to him. DH thinks we need to take DS to a psychologist b/c he thinks this behavior is b/c of something deeper that we need to take care of. I don't know what to think. Anyone BTDT?
DS and I discussed it today. Especially b/c DS had a meltdown at a friends bday party. He only knows the bday boy and one other boy and he clung to me for 1 hour (poor DD is so used to being independent when this happens). Meanwhile this evening another chilld from the neighborhood said hi to DS and he stopped and waved and said hi back and told the little boy that he was going to the playground. When I asked DS why he behaved differently the night before with other children he told me he didn't want them to do bubbles on his lawn, just on his porch and he didn't want the girls there (at almost 4 girls have become yucky). We discussed appropriate behavior, so we shall see.
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DS is extremely shy. He isn't that way at school, just around the neighbor kids (most of whom are around his age). Tonight they all came over when they saw us blowing bubbles outside (with parents). DS didn't want them to do bubbles with him and ran to the porch laid down and started to wail. This is not the first time he has done this. However, he will go to their yards and play. He just does this when they come to his yard. DS will also not say hi to friends at school when we get there. He roars. Sometimes he smooshes his face into this look and stares at people when they say something to him. DH thinks we need to take DS to a psychologist b/c he thinks this behavior is b/c of something deeper that we need to take care of. I don't know what to think. Anyone BTDT?