LarsMal
10-29-2008, 02:04 PM
DS's teacher had called me a week or so ago to tell me she was sending a note home to parents. She wanted to remind them of the "no peanut" rule since there are a lot of parties coming up. DS has other food allergies, so she *said* she was going to remind parents of that, and asked if she could put my name and number on the letter. She told me she wanted to name me as the resident allergy expert (I thought she was kidding with that wording) and encourage parents to call me with questions about allergies and foods for parties.
I told her it was a great idea. I'd be happy to talk to anyone and help them find safe foods for the parties. I had also asked to be contacted so I knew what was going into the classroom (so I could send something similar for DS or suggest a brand that was safe for him).
The letter came home yesterday. The teacher actually wrote down that I am "an allergy expert". She makes it sound like I'm a freakin' allergist!!! On top of that, she mentioned the peanut rule, said I was L's mom, but didn't mention his other allergies (he's not allergic to peanuts).
I am glad that she made the effort, but I don't want people thinking I am actually an allergy expert! I know quite a bit from my experience with DS, and maybe that is enough. Who know, I'll probably never even get a phone call!
What bothers me, though, is that she didn't mention DS's allergies, which is the really important part. She made it sound like he just has peanut allergies- which is doesn't- and then provided a list of safe foods, that were all nut free, but loaded with his allergens.
I want to respond to the teacher and thank her for her continued support of making the environment safe for DS, but that I think she missed the biggest point- his ACTUAL allergies!
I'm just having trouble wording it without sounding like a complete b!tch!!!
TIA!
I told her it was a great idea. I'd be happy to talk to anyone and help them find safe foods for the parties. I had also asked to be contacted so I knew what was going into the classroom (so I could send something similar for DS or suggest a brand that was safe for him).
The letter came home yesterday. The teacher actually wrote down that I am "an allergy expert". She makes it sound like I'm a freakin' allergist!!! On top of that, she mentioned the peanut rule, said I was L's mom, but didn't mention his other allergies (he's not allergic to peanuts).
I am glad that she made the effort, but I don't want people thinking I am actually an allergy expert! I know quite a bit from my experience with DS, and maybe that is enough. Who know, I'll probably never even get a phone call!
What bothers me, though, is that she didn't mention DS's allergies, which is the really important part. She made it sound like he just has peanut allergies- which is doesn't- and then provided a list of safe foods, that were all nut free, but loaded with his allergens.
I want to respond to the teacher and thank her for her continued support of making the environment safe for DS, but that I think she missed the biggest point- his ACTUAL allergies!
I'm just having trouble wording it without sounding like a complete b!tch!!!
TIA!