sarahsthreads
10-31-2008, 12:06 AM
DD got a letter the other day. I recognized the last name on the return address as someone from her preschool class, so I let her open it while I was sorting through the rest of the mail.
The letter turned out to be that sticker club chain letter that's been circulating lately. And DD can read, so before I realized what it was she'd already gathered that she was going to get stickers! From people! Lots of stickers! In the mail! But for various reasons I absolutely do not want to participate. (Mostly because 36 potentially complete strangers - friends/acquaintances of the people I'd send it to - would then have DD's name and address. That weirds me out. Also because this has been through most of my close friends and we've all broken the chain already.)
I'm annoyed that the class address list was used in this manner. I kind of expected that the list would be mainly used to set up play dates or coordinate teacher gifts like it was last year, not to send chain letters. Am I being unreasonable? Should I contact the mom to let her know I won't be participating, just ignore it, or suck it up and send it along but not put my DD's name in the second spot? WWYD?
And if anyone has any advice on how to convince a 4 year old that being in a sticker club is not as exciting as it sounds, that'd be great too. I may have to buy some stickers myself and drop them in the mail to her under fake names! :p
Sarah
The letter turned out to be that sticker club chain letter that's been circulating lately. And DD can read, so before I realized what it was she'd already gathered that she was going to get stickers! From people! Lots of stickers! In the mail! But for various reasons I absolutely do not want to participate. (Mostly because 36 potentially complete strangers - friends/acquaintances of the people I'd send it to - would then have DD's name and address. That weirds me out. Also because this has been through most of my close friends and we've all broken the chain already.)
I'm annoyed that the class address list was used in this manner. I kind of expected that the list would be mainly used to set up play dates or coordinate teacher gifts like it was last year, not to send chain letters. Am I being unreasonable? Should I contact the mom to let her know I won't be participating, just ignore it, or suck it up and send it along but not put my DD's name in the second spot? WWYD?
And if anyone has any advice on how to convince a 4 year old that being in a sticker club is not as exciting as it sounds, that'd be great too. I may have to buy some stickers myself and drop them in the mail to her under fake names! :p
Sarah