Sugar Magnolia
02-02-2009, 11:31 AM
Title really says it all.
Dh is getting his PhD in Medicinal Chemistry. Last week he attended a conference and a classmate and friend was offered a post doc. Later dh found out the same guy was given a substantial amount of money from a fellowship they both have. It sounds like dh has a case of jealousy, but dh wrote all this guys designed all of his friends research (it was dh's project but his adviser wanted him to work on something else). So dh's name has to be on everything this guy does (papers, posters, etc).
Dh is really bummed out. He is angry (not at his friend). I really don't know how to help him through this. I keep telling him that I am sure happens. Any ideas how to support him?
(It does not help that this guys wife is going to get a boob job with the extra money! And we have a baby coming in 4.5 months!)
TIA!
Dh is getting his PhD in Medicinal Chemistry. Last week he attended a conference and a classmate and friend was offered a post doc. Later dh found out the same guy was given a substantial amount of money from a fellowship they both have. It sounds like dh has a case of jealousy, but dh wrote all this guys designed all of his friends research (it was dh's project but his adviser wanted him to work on something else). So dh's name has to be on everything this guy does (papers, posters, etc).
Dh is really bummed out. He is angry (not at his friend). I really don't know how to help him through this. I keep telling him that I am sure happens. Any ideas how to support him?
(It does not help that this guys wife is going to get a boob job with the extra money! And we have a baby coming in 4.5 months!)
TIA!