MacMacMoo
03-04-2009, 10:54 PM
Vacation time is at a premium in our family. however we have to go back home before the parents start accusing us of never letting them see the grand kids. So home includes DH parents, DH sister (and her family consisting of husband and a set of twins), my mom (and step dad), my dad (step mom and 2 half brothers), and my sister (though she would be okay as being part of my mom's clump). home is in Atlanta, Ga.
So do we go and spend a day with each? Do we have one big restaurant dinner? Should we try seeing the sites or just spend the days lounging and "catching up?" Do we rent a car or be driven around? Do we place housing hoping each night or just book a hotel and visit with people but have a set place to return to?
We have tried various things, and every time DH's family whine complain moans and groans that we don't give them enough time or that they feel that we are pigeon holing them into a set slot. his family as a whole suffers from high anxiety and have to feel like they are in control and things have to be planned out to a T.
DH and I on the other hand don't really like schedules. we like the flexibility to do things spur of the moment. This is suppose to be a vacation an enjoyble thing to make us want to do it again lol.
So do we go and spend a day with each? Do we have one big restaurant dinner? Should we try seeing the sites or just spend the days lounging and "catching up?" Do we rent a car or be driven around? Do we place housing hoping each night or just book a hotel and visit with people but have a set place to return to?
We have tried various things, and every time DH's family whine complain moans and groans that we don't give them enough time or that they feel that we are pigeon holing them into a set slot. his family as a whole suffers from high anxiety and have to feel like they are in control and things have to be planned out to a T.
DH and I on the other hand don't really like schedules. we like the flexibility to do things spur of the moment. This is suppose to be a vacation an enjoyble thing to make us want to do it again lol.