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MistieandMichael
05-05-2009, 02:48 PM
Well it was fun ladies...fun fun indeed. I just had my follow up u/s yesterday that confirmed that we lost the baby. If I don't complete the miscarriage by Thursday, I go in for a D&C this Friday. I guess if I were to find a positive side to it all...at least summer is around the corner with lots of BBQ's, lounging pool side, and lets not forget margaritas. :54:

malphy
05-05-2009, 02:55 PM
I dont know what happened with your posts I just wanted to say I am sorry for your loss.

Ceepa
05-05-2009, 02:57 PM
Good luck to you.

stella
05-05-2009, 02:59 PM
I'm sorry for your loss.

SnuggleBuggles
05-05-2009, 03:04 PM
I am sorry for your loss. Best wishes for the future you hope for.

~Beth

mariza
05-05-2009, 03:04 PM
First I wasnt to say how sorry I am for your loss, I haven't been there so I can't offer anything but humble thoughts and prayers for you and hope you can find peace. I'm sure it is not any easier with Mother's Day around the corner. If I knew how to do a hug icon I would put it here.
As for the rest of your post, I must say that I'm sorry that you had experiences that made you feel compelled to right what you did. I guess I missed the threads you wrote about. I first came here 5 years ago when PG with my 1st baby and now both of my kids are toddlers so I guess I am grouped in to the "no baby" category but all I can say is that I have found wonderful advice here on many topics from baby, personal issues, consumer stuff (aka...shopping deals!), etc. I have also had other advice that I've taken with a grain of salt and moved on. I guess I'm saying I definately understand the need to take a break right now, but when the time comes and you need a place to come for advice or to vent or whatever I wouldn't give up on us all over here. Good luck.

jayali
05-05-2009, 03:04 PM
I didn't follow most of your post, but wanted to say how very sorry I am for your loss. There are no words except it just plain sucks.

KBecks
05-05-2009, 03:04 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss, and I hope that summer brings you some fun and relaxation and good times.

I must have missed the comment that upset you, but I'm also sorry you had a bad experience. Perhaps we'll see you again sometime!

Take care.

DietCokeLover
05-05-2009, 03:09 PM
I'm not sure I understand most of your post, but I did want to say how sorry I am for your loss. I can't even begin to understand how much pain you are probably in. I wish you all the best.

boltfam
05-05-2009, 03:11 PM
I am very sorry for your loss. :hug5:

I don't know exactly what happened, but don't let it get to you. There are a lot of people I disagree with too, but they have their opinion and I have mine. I hope that you will come back again when you are ready. Advice is advice, and we'd love to hear yours again.

egoldber
05-05-2009, 03:17 PM
I am very sorry for your loss.

LBW
05-05-2009, 03:31 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what you are going through right now.





(For reference, I believe the OP was referring to a post in this thread:
http://windsorpeak.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=321232)

citymama
05-05-2009, 03:37 PM
I am really sorry about your loss. This must be a really hard time for you, and I sincerely wish you the best. Take care of yourself.

Momof3Labs
05-05-2009, 03:43 PM
I'm sorry for your loss.

hbridge
05-05-2009, 03:47 PM
Hugs. I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are a mother and always will be. Your child did not survive, but that does not take away from what you are. Take comfort that you love your child and that there is another angel in heaven.

Wishing you some peace on Mother's Day...





PS When I was looking for advice I took it from whatever source seems to have the best solution. Since every situation is different and every child is different, no one thing works universally. Thank you for your contributions here. Be well.

infocrazy
05-05-2009, 03:57 PM
I'm sorry for your loss.

bubbaray
05-05-2009, 03:58 PM
I'm sorry for your loss.

mudder17
05-05-2009, 07:11 PM
I am very sorry for your loss and wish you the best of luck in the future. :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

billysmommy
05-05-2009, 07:18 PM
I'm sorry for your loss

kijip
05-05-2009, 07:18 PM
:hug: I am so sorry for your loss.

mom2one
05-05-2009, 07:31 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.

elephantmeg
05-05-2009, 07:37 PM
huge hugs to you

clc053103
05-05-2009, 07:40 PM
I am very sorry. I've BTDT unfortunately and wish I had some wonderful words of wisdom, but I don't- I wish you healing.

elizabethkott
05-05-2009, 08:05 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss.

mamaoftwins
05-05-2009, 08:36 PM
I am sorry for your loss and wish you the best.

JMS
05-05-2009, 08:38 PM
I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you're able to do whatever you need for yourself to help get through this difficult time. Hugs

Mamma2004
05-06-2009, 06:45 AM
I am late to the boards and have clearly missed a great deal.

I'll just focus on my sincere condolences to you during this difficult time. I am very sorry for your loss. :hug:

neeleymartin
05-06-2009, 07:15 AM
so sorry for your loss. you seem to be dealing with the heartbreaking news better than many/most people. keep your head up. i really believe that everything happens for a reason. hang in there. :kisscheek:

good luck with the wine and margaritas. ;)

KrisM
05-06-2009, 08:16 AM
I'm very sorry for your loss.

calv
05-06-2009, 08:23 AM
very sorry to hear about your loss. May you find the peace and happiness that you need.

gatorsmom
05-06-2009, 10:08 AM
I'm so sorry. I went through the exact same thing you did (including the oh-so-fun D&C) and it just all sucks.

:grouphug:

jse107
05-06-2009, 10:35 AM
Ditto. BTDT, not fun. I'm so sorry. I hope that you're able to join us again soon.