Sugar Magnolia
05-09-2009, 04:12 PM
My dad is getting remarried this November. I am so excited for him. My dad is my best friend besides my dh. Its going to be a small ceremony, which he is flying my family (6 of us) out for. The wedding is the weekend before Thanksgiving. He has asked if we would stay over Thanksgiving and spend it with him and his new wife.
Under normal family circumstances that would be no problem. But since he announced his engagement, my mom and my mil have been making plans for us while we are out there. Which I think is a little selfish, but I am pregnant and moody. We are going to be staying at his house and he will be staying with his wife.
How should I handle this with my mom and mil? I don't get along that great with either of them because they like to take charge and tell me what I am going to do. Its my dad's wedding and if we are out there for the week, we will spend time with our other family. But I feel like we are out there to celebrate with him.
Under normal family circumstances that would be no problem. But since he announced his engagement, my mom and my mil have been making plans for us while we are out there. Which I think is a little selfish, but I am pregnant and moody. We are going to be staying at his house and he will be staying with his wife.
How should I handle this with my mom and mil? I don't get along that great with either of them because they like to take charge and tell me what I am going to do. Its my dad's wedding and if we are out there for the week, we will spend time with our other family. But I feel like we are out there to celebrate with him.