Happy 2B mommy
05-15-2009, 04:30 PM
A few months back I posted a BP about how my cousin, who is widowed, NOT wealthy and in her early 60's, is paying for a lavish (app $25-30,0000) wedding for her son, who was employed part-time and his finance, who works 2 pt minimun-wage jobs while going to school. Oh, AND they live with her. The happy couple are in their late 20's and early 30's (so, a bit younger than DH and I)
Last night was my aunt's 90th Birthday. My cousins and their kids (including the ones from out of state) wanted to have a nice celebration. We went out to a nicer resturant to celebrate (DD was really, really good AND used her "fancy Nancy" manners! Yeah! I was really proud of her). The groom-to-be showed up wearing jeans, a T-shirt with some sort of writing on it and a very dirty hoodie. He also hadn't shaved for a day or two. We inquired how the wedding plans were going. The bride has had some sort of falling out with her brother and now they don't have a ring bearer - so they've asked my 49 -year-old cousin, who is the groom's godmother, to be the ring bearer because "She gave us the ring".
Gave you the ring?... Sure enough! It is my cousin's first engagement ring (her DH has become pretty successful and she's had at least 2 upgrades through the years). And yes, my cousin confirmed that it was a gift, because, well... you know... money is tight for poor "Matt" So... not only is this putz expecting for his widowed mother to pay for his fiance's "dream wedding" BUT he didn't even get her a ring??!!!
The only good news is that this idiot is now at least employed full-time -poor DH has to listen to him complain how his "job sucks" throughout the meal.
The wedding shower is this weekend. I just got the invite last night (I was emailed the date about 1 month ago, but no specifics). At first I told DH that I really didn't want to go, but part of me is tempted... it's like being in the audience of a Jerry Springer show!
Last night was my aunt's 90th Birthday. My cousins and their kids (including the ones from out of state) wanted to have a nice celebration. We went out to a nicer resturant to celebrate (DD was really, really good AND used her "fancy Nancy" manners! Yeah! I was really proud of her). The groom-to-be showed up wearing jeans, a T-shirt with some sort of writing on it and a very dirty hoodie. He also hadn't shaved for a day or two. We inquired how the wedding plans were going. The bride has had some sort of falling out with her brother and now they don't have a ring bearer - so they've asked my 49 -year-old cousin, who is the groom's godmother, to be the ring bearer because "She gave us the ring".
Gave you the ring?... Sure enough! It is my cousin's first engagement ring (her DH has become pretty successful and she's had at least 2 upgrades through the years). And yes, my cousin confirmed that it was a gift, because, well... you know... money is tight for poor "Matt" So... not only is this putz expecting for his widowed mother to pay for his fiance's "dream wedding" BUT he didn't even get her a ring??!!!
The only good news is that this idiot is now at least employed full-time -poor DH has to listen to him complain how his "job sucks" throughout the meal.
The wedding shower is this weekend. I just got the invite last night (I was emailed the date about 1 month ago, but no specifics). At first I told DH that I really didn't want to go, but part of me is tempted... it's like being in the audience of a Jerry Springer show!