neeleymartin
07-08-2009, 06:29 AM
my sil's 3 yr old won't stay in bed at night. they moved him into a double/queen bed about 6-8mos ago. he was moving into a new bedroom so they thought that it was a perfect time to introduce the new "big boy bed". since then, with my sil or bro will go into bed with him until he falls asleep. it's been working well, but some idependence is in order.
this past week, sil tried to just put him in and walk away (after typical bedtime routine) screaming fits, "mommy help", "daddy help". finally after about 40minutes of screaming, sil went in and decided to lay down with him. out like a light in 5 minutes or less (likely worn out from all the crying). would he have fallen asleep soon if she hadn't gone in? as you all know i am a HUGE fan of cio. but is 3 too old to do so?
any advice on how to get this kiddo to stay in bed and go to sleep without the fits? She put a hook lock on the outside of the door (b/c he can open doors by himself) it was the only way to keep him in. tia for the great advice.
this past week, sil tried to just put him in and walk away (after typical bedtime routine) screaming fits, "mommy help", "daddy help". finally after about 40minutes of screaming, sil went in and decided to lay down with him. out like a light in 5 minutes or less (likely worn out from all the crying). would he have fallen asleep soon if she hadn't gone in? as you all know i am a HUGE fan of cio. but is 3 too old to do so?
any advice on how to get this kiddo to stay in bed and go to sleep without the fits? She put a hook lock on the outside of the door (b/c he can open doors by himself) it was the only way to keep him in. tia for the great advice.