longstocking
07-29-2009, 06:04 PM
My bestest friend in the whole world has been for at least 18 years now. I love her to death. My only complaint is that whatever goes in her ear, comes out her mouth. Rude or not, I've learned to tell her any news last. It worked out pretty well when we moved out of UT and to CA - she doesn't know my friends so it was a bit easier (except she would tell my family things, like when I needed someone to cry to because I was having a bad day, she called my family and it was a whole drama thing). A month or so ago it came about that we realized we have a mutual friend. Although in UT she met a lady here in CA via an online chat site...this lady happens to be my neighbor and good friend. Oh goody, you can only imagine...(and what are the odds?!)
For clarification (it probably won't help) Friend 1 is my best friend, Friend 2 is my newer friend
Friend 2 is a car seat tech and very serious about it. When I mentioned to friend 1 that we were having issues with our seat and I was just going to turn DS - friend 2 shows up the next day with a car seat and installs it rear facing - okay - thank you - but, it really wasn't any of your business.
This might seem like a weird complaint but here's the latest. I mentioned to friend 1 that I had to be on a pregnancy diet. Friend 2 calls the next day and wants to now all the details about what I can and can't eat - gee - how did you find out? She called me back today and informed me she was at the store and buying groceries and she's coming over on Saturday to make a bunch of meals to freeze that go along with my diet - okay? Really, how can you say no to that? I don't know if she expects me to pay for the groceries? She didn't mention that part.
No, I'm not whining that someone wants to come cook for me I'm just bugged that I can't tell my friends anything without being discussed to the other person. It's just getting annoying.
Thus the main reason why DH very much dislikes friend 1 and refuses to hang out with her.
Weird vent I know - but thanks for reading it out (or not) it helps sometimes to just write it down rather than blow up in your friends face.
For clarification (it probably won't help) Friend 1 is my best friend, Friend 2 is my newer friend
Friend 2 is a car seat tech and very serious about it. When I mentioned to friend 1 that we were having issues with our seat and I was just going to turn DS - friend 2 shows up the next day with a car seat and installs it rear facing - okay - thank you - but, it really wasn't any of your business.
This might seem like a weird complaint but here's the latest. I mentioned to friend 1 that I had to be on a pregnancy diet. Friend 2 calls the next day and wants to now all the details about what I can and can't eat - gee - how did you find out? She called me back today and informed me she was at the store and buying groceries and she's coming over on Saturday to make a bunch of meals to freeze that go along with my diet - okay? Really, how can you say no to that? I don't know if she expects me to pay for the groceries? She didn't mention that part.
No, I'm not whining that someone wants to come cook for me I'm just bugged that I can't tell my friends anything without being discussed to the other person. It's just getting annoying.
Thus the main reason why DH very much dislikes friend 1 and refuses to hang out with her.
Weird vent I know - but thanks for reading it out (or not) it helps sometimes to just write it down rather than blow up in your friends face.