sidmand
08-30-2009, 09:38 AM
I'm not sure if this is a sign of something (DS is on the autism spectrum so I'm probably hypersensitive to this!) or just her personality or something to be concerned with...but DD (almost 17 months old) does not like when anyone talks to her!
Sometimes it even extends to DH but usually it's people she either doesn't know or hasn't seen in a little while. But she'll be absolutely fine and then someone will say, "oh, aren't you cute?" and she'll start crying!
It's happened in the healthclub, in a restaurant, at home with our cleaning lady, in a grocery store, etc.
I just attempted the YMCA Childwatch and told them she needs to sit in her stroller and just take everything in for about 10 minutes (she's often okay if she can just observe for a bit and this has actually worked out okay at a different gym) and have no one talk to her. They came back and told me she didn't seem to like other children. Well yeah, if they're coming into her face before she's had a chance to warm up then no, she's going to cry.
My sitter has taken her to a restaurant with another baby and tells me the other baby is thrilled at the attention and if anyone talks to DD she cries. Yeah, I know.
She's also not talking. We just started speech therapy and I don't know if they go hand in hand or are totally unrelated.
Basically I'm just wondering if I should worry about something specific (because I like to have specific when I worry :)) or if this is fairly typical and she may or may not grow out of it, but it's just personality.
Sometimes it even extends to DH but usually it's people she either doesn't know or hasn't seen in a little while. But she'll be absolutely fine and then someone will say, "oh, aren't you cute?" and she'll start crying!
It's happened in the healthclub, in a restaurant, at home with our cleaning lady, in a grocery store, etc.
I just attempted the YMCA Childwatch and told them she needs to sit in her stroller and just take everything in for about 10 minutes (she's often okay if she can just observe for a bit and this has actually worked out okay at a different gym) and have no one talk to her. They came back and told me she didn't seem to like other children. Well yeah, if they're coming into her face before she's had a chance to warm up then no, she's going to cry.
My sitter has taken her to a restaurant with another baby and tells me the other baby is thrilled at the attention and if anyone talks to DD she cries. Yeah, I know.
She's also not talking. We just started speech therapy and I don't know if they go hand in hand or are totally unrelated.
Basically I'm just wondering if I should worry about something specific (because I like to have specific when I worry :)) or if this is fairly typical and she may or may not grow out of it, but it's just personality.