wencit
10-15-2009, 01:10 PM
About a month ago, I got an Evite from my friend's SIL (who we'll call Jackie) letting us know about a surprise baby shower for my friend. It turns out that after nearly 10 years of TTC, my friend is finally pregnant with her first baby. The Evite gave all the details about the surprise shower (time, date, location, phone number, etc), and told us to reply with our home addresses, and Jackie would snail mail us formal invitations. I e-mailed Jackie twice, once with my home address and once inquiring about any registries, but never heard back from her.
Well, the surprise baby shower is supposed to be next Sunday the 25th, and I still have yet to receive my invitation in the mail or hear anything from Jackie. What should I do? DH thinks I should still show up to the baby shower because the formal invitation is "just a formality." I'm kind of wondering whether Jackie decided to hold the baby shower at all. I should mention that my friend is only about 20 weeks pregnant, so maybe Jackie decided to change the date of the shower so that it's later in the pregnancy? I don't know. My friend is quite dear to me so I would love to attend the shower, but on the other hand, I don't want to show up to a party to which I've been disinvited -- if there will even be a party at all!
What do you all think? What would be the proper etiquette in this situation? Thanks, ladies!
Well, the surprise baby shower is supposed to be next Sunday the 25th, and I still have yet to receive my invitation in the mail or hear anything from Jackie. What should I do? DH thinks I should still show up to the baby shower because the formal invitation is "just a formality." I'm kind of wondering whether Jackie decided to hold the baby shower at all. I should mention that my friend is only about 20 weeks pregnant, so maybe Jackie decided to change the date of the shower so that it's later in the pregnancy? I don't know. My friend is quite dear to me so I would love to attend the shower, but on the other hand, I don't want to show up to a party to which I've been disinvited -- if there will even be a party at all!
What do you all think? What would be the proper etiquette in this situation? Thanks, ladies!