lovin2shop
10-30-2009, 10:47 PM
Adding spoiler in case you aren't up for dealing with a very heavy topic.
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I have a friend with metastatic breast cancer. I knew the prognosis was grim, but she just found out that it has spread to her brain, liver, and bones. Time is probably very short. This is not someone that has been part of my daily life, but someone that I grew up with and would see maybe once a year or so. I live in a different town. I would like to do something nice, but I don't know what to do. Honestly, what do you do for someone that in all likelihood is dying? She has two boys almost the exact same age as mine.
I have a get well card in purse that I planned to send this week along with a gas card, which I thought would help with the commute costs of her treatment. Now, this feels wholely inadequate. I posted a short message on her website, but beyond this, is there anything that I can do that doesn't say that I've given up, but isn't "get well soon", if you know what I mean? I'm sure there isn't any right answer, and part of this is just me venting, but if you have any words of wisdom, I could definitely use them right about now.
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I have a friend with metastatic breast cancer. I knew the prognosis was grim, but she just found out that it has spread to her brain, liver, and bones. Time is probably very short. This is not someone that has been part of my daily life, but someone that I grew up with and would see maybe once a year or so. I live in a different town. I would like to do something nice, but I don't know what to do. Honestly, what do you do for someone that in all likelihood is dying? She has two boys almost the exact same age as mine.
I have a get well card in purse that I planned to send this week along with a gas card, which I thought would help with the commute costs of her treatment. Now, this feels wholely inadequate. I posted a short message on her website, but beyond this, is there anything that I can do that doesn't say that I've given up, but isn't "get well soon", if you know what I mean? I'm sure there isn't any right answer, and part of this is just me venting, but if you have any words of wisdom, I could definitely use them right about now.