TamiRuns
12-02-2009, 02:07 PM
Background....both of our boys prefer the men in our family over the women. They gravitate toward their uncles and male cousins....not a big deal. But what I've noticed within the past 6 months, and became obviously clear today, is that our 2 1/2 yr old will go up to most any male (when dh isn't with us) and want to be friends with him. Today I took the boys to Bounce U (if your not familiar with this place, it's an indoor play area with giant inflatables.) Weve been there before and the boys LOVE one of the male employees who works in the play area making sure all the kids are safe and also plays with them- that's his job. My little guy follows this employee around wanting him to play with him. I'm always right there to supervise of course and this doesn't bother me too much. But today our little guy was going up to the other dads and wanted them to play....would take their hand to attempt to lead them where he wanted to play....all the time, I'm there saying "come (do this or that) with mommy" - I don't want any of these people to think I don't want to play with my boy/s. But the little one gets mad and doesn't want ME.....most of the dads there today were very kind and weren't bothered by him but I'm
concerned at how trusting ds2 is. I don't have experience with this - ds1 is very social but never approached others like his brother is doing. Is this a phase? It's not like this happens very often - only in a play type environment when he is free to roam. I just can't help but think how willingly he would go off with any of the men we encountered today.....or if he got away from me in a store. (not that I expect that to happen...)
Sorry so long....any advice to share or similar experience? TIA!
concerned at how trusting ds2 is. I don't have experience with this - ds1 is very social but never approached others like his brother is doing. Is this a phase? It's not like this happens very often - only in a play type environment when he is free to roam. I just can't help but think how willingly he would go off with any of the men we encountered today.....or if he got away from me in a store. (not that I expect that to happen...)
Sorry so long....any advice to share or similar experience? TIA!