jtannerchs
12-19-2009, 02:06 AM
DD is 21 months and we are trying to wean as kindly as possible – no cold turkey. I am terrified of bottle cavities (I had horrible, rotten teeth as a child from sugar water bottles). She can drink out of a regular, non-sippy cup fairly well at this point, so inability to drink out of a cup is not why she is attached to the bottle.
Here is our situation right now:
1. 9 oz milk bottle when she wakes up and cries for “baba”
2. Water bottle for naptime
3. An afternoon bottle I am trying to get rid of – I am successful at this point about 60-70% of the time. It takes EXTREME distraction (usually have to leave the house) to avoid this bottle.
4. 9oz. milk bottle during or after dinner…again, not offered, she cries for it.
5. Water bottle for bedtime.
She doesn’t carry around her bottle (drinks it in our lap or in booster chair).
She won't take a pacifier
She doesn’t drink juice (in bottle or out) – but only because we don’t offer it.
She refuses milk in a sippy, straw cup and regular cup. I have about 15+ different kinds of sippys and straw cups – including every brand of “transition” sippy “nipples.” She will not touch them, and if she does it is only to throw it across the room and scream “NO!”
Where do I go from here, assuming I can finally get rid of that afternoon bottle? Do I then drop the morning bottle? She would only be down to 9 oz of milk a day then and she doesn’t eat yogurt, or cheese for that matter to make up for the calcium. She refuses them. Trying to offer her the milk in the cup just makes her frantic for a bottle and makes trying to distract her from the “baba” impossible.
We’ve been talking a lot lately to her about being a “big girl” and drinking milk from a cup. Today she even picked out a cup we bought at the store that was going to be her milk cup, and she seemed excited. However, when I filled it with milk at home, she started crying frantically for the “baba”, and saying “no milk cup…want baba”
Help! I am so stressed about this.
Anyone else out there that has/had a "baba" lover? All my friends had those kids that barely whimpered when they took the bottle away....
*************UPDATE 4/28/2010*****************
Just wanted to update for all those searching for weaning off the bottle.
She's 25 months and it's been 3 weeks and she is off the milk bottles! Still takes a water bottle before nap and bedtime, but no more milk bottles :-).
What happened: One day she didn't ask for milk (which always led to her begging for a bottle). I didn't offer that day. Over the course of the week she asked once or twice. But didn't fret too much over it, so I said here is a cup of milk. It wasn't the blood curdling cry she had before. It was more of a whine, and I'm fine ignoring a whine. She took a few sips. That's it.
About a week after no bottle and her not asking, she suddenly started crying for a bottle one morning. The crying became so frantic and lasted a long time so I gave in and she complained about the nipple. Turns out the nipple was probably ripped or something, but I told her this is the milk bottle nipple, I don't know what to tell you. And that did it. She didn't want it. She hasn't asked again the last few weeks.
She did it herself. :bighand:
She doesn't drink milk anymore, but has been drinking one of those Stoneyfield Farms yogurt smoothies each morning.
I think I'll sit back on the water bottles for a while...Not really concerned about them since her dentist isn't either.
Here is our situation right now:
1. 9 oz milk bottle when she wakes up and cries for “baba”
2. Water bottle for naptime
3. An afternoon bottle I am trying to get rid of – I am successful at this point about 60-70% of the time. It takes EXTREME distraction (usually have to leave the house) to avoid this bottle.
4. 9oz. milk bottle during or after dinner…again, not offered, she cries for it.
5. Water bottle for bedtime.
She doesn’t carry around her bottle (drinks it in our lap or in booster chair).
She won't take a pacifier
She doesn’t drink juice (in bottle or out) – but only because we don’t offer it.
She refuses milk in a sippy, straw cup and regular cup. I have about 15+ different kinds of sippys and straw cups – including every brand of “transition” sippy “nipples.” She will not touch them, and if she does it is only to throw it across the room and scream “NO!”
Where do I go from here, assuming I can finally get rid of that afternoon bottle? Do I then drop the morning bottle? She would only be down to 9 oz of milk a day then and she doesn’t eat yogurt, or cheese for that matter to make up for the calcium. She refuses them. Trying to offer her the milk in the cup just makes her frantic for a bottle and makes trying to distract her from the “baba” impossible.
We’ve been talking a lot lately to her about being a “big girl” and drinking milk from a cup. Today she even picked out a cup we bought at the store that was going to be her milk cup, and she seemed excited. However, when I filled it with milk at home, she started crying frantically for the “baba”, and saying “no milk cup…want baba”
Help! I am so stressed about this.
Anyone else out there that has/had a "baba" lover? All my friends had those kids that barely whimpered when they took the bottle away....
*************UPDATE 4/28/2010*****************
Just wanted to update for all those searching for weaning off the bottle.
She's 25 months and it's been 3 weeks and she is off the milk bottles! Still takes a water bottle before nap and bedtime, but no more milk bottles :-).
What happened: One day she didn't ask for milk (which always led to her begging for a bottle). I didn't offer that day. Over the course of the week she asked once or twice. But didn't fret too much over it, so I said here is a cup of milk. It wasn't the blood curdling cry she had before. It was more of a whine, and I'm fine ignoring a whine. She took a few sips. That's it.
About a week after no bottle and her not asking, she suddenly started crying for a bottle one morning. The crying became so frantic and lasted a long time so I gave in and she complained about the nipple. Turns out the nipple was probably ripped or something, but I told her this is the milk bottle nipple, I don't know what to tell you. And that did it. She didn't want it. She hasn't asked again the last few weeks.
She did it herself. :bighand:
She doesn't drink milk anymore, but has been drinking one of those Stoneyfield Farms yogurt smoothies each morning.
I think I'll sit back on the water bottles for a while...Not really concerned about them since her dentist isn't either.