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bluestarfish18
01-05-2010, 08:29 PM
He's not a young guy, 71 this year, but tries to stay active as much as possible. He's lost over 200 pounds since my mom moved back in 10 years ago (loooooong story).

He was biking his usual route yesterday afternoon when a crowd of obnoxious high school runners sideswiped him, causing him to fall. Fortunately someone found him later and called 911. His helmet was completely shattered (CAT scan soon to come), he has 5 fractured ribs and a shattered pelvis. I'm assuming we're looking at months and months of bed rest and another year or so of PT. He's so fortunate to have my mom back to help him out, since he has absolutely no friends.

He was just in the hospital 3 days ago for swine flu, and now this. I've never been on the greatest terms with my dad, but he's still my dad...KWIM?

Please send whatever thoughts you have to him. Thank you everyone.

WitMom
01-05-2010, 08:34 PM
Oh, that is absolutely terrible! I can't believe anyone can be so cruel and uncaring to another person. I am wishing him all the best for a complete and speedy recovery. Keep us posted.

citymama
01-05-2010, 08:35 PM
So sorry to hear about your dad - hope he makes a speedy and full recovery.

sidmand
01-05-2010, 08:36 PM
P&PT for your Dad and family. Hope everything turns out as well as it can.

:22:

elektra
01-05-2010, 08:40 PM
P&PT for him. Hope he starts healing very soon.

jent
01-05-2010, 08:40 PM
Oh, that is just awful! Sending P & PT your way.

billysmommy
01-05-2010, 08:42 PM
That is terrible!!! We'll be thinking of him and sending lots of P&PT his way. Please keep us updated as you can

elizabethkott
01-05-2010, 08:47 PM
That's just horrible!
Prayers and positive thoughts coming your dad's way. Hoping he heals fast.

SnuggleBuggles
01-05-2010, 08:50 PM
Oh no!! PT headed your family's way!!!

Beth

pinkmomagain
01-05-2010, 08:54 PM
Oh my goodness! Sending positive thoughts his way!

shawnandangel
01-05-2010, 08:54 PM
Wow, not one person but a group of high schoolers. All old enough to know better, all of whom choose not to help. I'll be saying a prayer for your dad.

ThreeofUs
01-05-2010, 09:43 PM
I'm so very sorry this happened to your dad! P&PT coming his way.

infomama
01-05-2010, 09:45 PM
Oh my goodness, your poor Dad! Prayers for healing and comfort.

MontrealMum
01-05-2010, 09:50 PM
That's just awful - your poor dad! Sending lots of P&PT to all of you :hug:

elephantmeg
01-05-2010, 10:04 PM
oh no! Sending P+PT. Keep us updated!

hillview
01-05-2010, 10:07 PM
P&PT for your dad and your family!
/hillary

Melarina
01-05-2010, 10:38 PM
praying for your family -- so sorry your dad is going through this difficult time

maestramommy
01-05-2010, 10:39 PM
OMG, I'm so sorry! I will be praying for your dad.

Did they catch the kids that did it? Horrible!

jenfromnj
01-05-2010, 10:43 PM
P&PT coming your way! That's terrible about what happened, thank goodness someone found him and called 911. I hope you get good news from the CAT scan--my brother was in a very bad biking accident years ago (had to be taken by Medivac helicopter from the park he was in), and his helmet was completely shattered but it protected his head--the ER doc told us that those helmets are designed to withstand incredible abuse and still protect your head.

Mamma2004
01-05-2010, 11:09 PM
Oh no!!!!! I am so sorry that your dad - and now all of you - are going through such a horrible nightmare.

I'll say a prayer for your dad and will keep sending lots of good thoughts your way. Hugs to all of you!

MMMommy
01-05-2010, 11:19 PM
Hoping for a speedy recovery for your father. Prayers for him!

MamaMolly
01-05-2010, 11:23 PM
Oh no! That is really terrible. P and PT to your dad, and shame on those high schoolers!!!!!

StantonHyde
01-05-2010, 11:52 PM
that is awful!! I know someone who was biking and a car of high school boys sped by and a kid hit her in the rear with a text book. She biffed it--but the book fell and it had the kid's name it. Paybacks buddy!! P&PT for all concerned!

Corie
01-05-2010, 11:56 PM
Lauren,

I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad! I hope he makes a speedy
recovery!!

KpbS
01-06-2010, 12:27 AM
So sorry to hear this terrible news. P+PT for your family--esp. your dad. :hug: :hug:

niccig
01-06-2010, 01:17 AM
Plenty of P&PTs for your Dad. I hope he recovers quickly.

gatorsmom
01-06-2010, 01:26 AM
Oh no! I'll definitely be thinking and praying for your dad. How awful.

LexyLou
01-06-2010, 01:38 AM
That's horrible! I'll be thinking of your dad.

bubbaray
01-06-2010, 01:53 AM
P&PT for him. Hugs to all of you. :grouphug:

wencit
01-06-2010, 02:03 AM
Oh, that's awful! I hope your dad makes a full and complete recovery. And I hope karma bites those high schoolers in the butt -- what a terrible thing to do!

boolady
01-06-2010, 07:33 AM
I hope he feels better soon. I'll be thinking of all of you.

bluestarfish18
01-06-2010, 10:51 AM
Just got an update from my mom. Dad is now conscious (sp?), but has bruising on his brain. He'll be in the hospital for another few days, but it's aftercare we're concerned about. My mom is a tiny 4'11" Chinese lady who can't lift my dad out of bed to use the bathroom, shower, etc. Now we're looking at rehab care for a few months.

On the bright side, he's in a brand spanking new hospital in Orange County with very few patients and plenty of nurses, so he's constantly be doted on :)

As for the runners, I don't think my dad remembers seeing any jersey logos or school names. I can't believe that such cruelty exists in people. Seriously, who gets pleasure from helping an elderly man fall off his bike?

Thank you to all of you for such wonderful support. It's truly a miracle that a girl can find solice from friends all over the country.

WatchingThemGrow
01-06-2010, 10:55 AM
Thanks for the update. Continued P&PT for your family as he progresses. I think a similar thing happened to my dad's friend on his bike, except that it was a car. Just can't imagine how people would do that.

carolinamama
01-06-2010, 10:56 AM
P and PT for your dad. That's just terrible.

JTsMom
01-06-2010, 10:58 AM
Lots of P&PT for your dad. :hug:

athompson
01-06-2010, 11:04 AM
P&PT for both of your parents and you as well:hug5:

mousemom
01-06-2010, 11:26 AM
Praying for a full and speedy recovery!

Clarity
01-06-2010, 11:29 AM
Aww, this makes me angry! I'd be calling the local high school and asking to speak to the principal. Hands down it was runners from that district.
I hope your dad heals quickly and I'm glad he's getting such great care in the hospital. P&PT coming his way!

elephantmeg
01-06-2010, 01:27 PM
thanks for the update, glad that he's neurologically OK

billysmommy
01-06-2010, 01:30 PM
Thanks for the update. I hope his recovery continues to go well

maestramommy
01-06-2010, 03:35 PM
Thank you for updating! Will continue to keep him in prayers and thoughts:hug: