sariana
01-16-2010, 01:38 AM
Does this qualify as a Mommy drive-by?
I often greet a father at DS's school. His child is not in DS's class; we just happen to see each other a lot. He always has an infant in a front carrier when he drops off his DD.
After a while, I recognized his car. I noticed, with horror, that the infant seat was sitting SIDEWAYS on the back seat. I thought maybe he just turned it that way to get the baby out of the seat, but something made me think that was not so.
So today I finally got the courage to appraoch him. I asked him if he needed help installing his seat because I noticed it was not properly installed. He was really nice and said he turned it that way to get the baby out. He said his car didn't have LATCH and he didn't like how the seat installed on the base with a seatbelt. So it was easier to use the belt with the bucket seat alone. Since the belt came across the top, he had to unbuckle it every time to remove DS. He thanked me for showing concern for his child, and we each went our merry ways.
Shouldn't I feel better about taking action, especially since he did not seem upset at all? Why do I feel so guilty?
I often greet a father at DS's school. His child is not in DS's class; we just happen to see each other a lot. He always has an infant in a front carrier when he drops off his DD.
After a while, I recognized his car. I noticed, with horror, that the infant seat was sitting SIDEWAYS on the back seat. I thought maybe he just turned it that way to get the baby out of the seat, but something made me think that was not so.
So today I finally got the courage to appraoch him. I asked him if he needed help installing his seat because I noticed it was not properly installed. He was really nice and said he turned it that way to get the baby out. He said his car didn't have LATCH and he didn't like how the seat installed on the base with a seatbelt. So it was easier to use the belt with the bucket seat alone. Since the belt came across the top, he had to unbuckle it every time to remove DS. He thanked me for showing concern for his child, and we each went our merry ways.
Shouldn't I feel better about taking action, especially since he did not seem upset at all? Why do I feel so guilty?