crl
02-12-2010, 06:04 PM
UPDATED IN POST 11
My SIL drives me nuts, mostly because she expects DH to help her and she never returns the favor. The list would go back to their childhood and extend to the present day, but in the interest of shortness, I'll just summarize it as he's (and we've) helped with money, labor, time, advice (asked for advice), knowledge, etc, etc, even when it has been really inconvenient for us. And she just does not reciprocate.
She stayed here recently while in town for a conference and it was horrid. I was so mad by the end of it that I did things like give her a map of the nearest ATM rather than offer to drive her (she had turned down previous opportunities when we were already out and the walk was only about 1/4 of a mile).
Anyway, she's supposed to be coming back in a couple of weeks. I'm thinking of taking DS out of town. I've been thinking about doing it anyway. He wants to go to play in the snow. DH is insanely busy at work so we're going to have to do it without him if we want to go. So, I'm thinking maybe I should just schedule it for when she's going to be here and miss her visit.
Does this make me evil? (If it makes a difference, my kid would want to see her, but she does NOT interact with him well--mostly she just says no to whatever he asks her to do with him.) Would you do it?
Catherine
My SIL drives me nuts, mostly because she expects DH to help her and she never returns the favor. The list would go back to their childhood and extend to the present day, but in the interest of shortness, I'll just summarize it as he's (and we've) helped with money, labor, time, advice (asked for advice), knowledge, etc, etc, even when it has been really inconvenient for us. And she just does not reciprocate.
She stayed here recently while in town for a conference and it was horrid. I was so mad by the end of it that I did things like give her a map of the nearest ATM rather than offer to drive her (she had turned down previous opportunities when we were already out and the walk was only about 1/4 of a mile).
Anyway, she's supposed to be coming back in a couple of weeks. I'm thinking of taking DS out of town. I've been thinking about doing it anyway. He wants to go to play in the snow. DH is insanely busy at work so we're going to have to do it without him if we want to go. So, I'm thinking maybe I should just schedule it for when she's going to be here and miss her visit.
Does this make me evil? (If it makes a difference, my kid would want to see her, but she does NOT interact with him well--mostly she just says no to whatever he asks her to do with him.) Would you do it?
Catherine