lil_acorn
03-03-2010, 10:01 PM
I need help ladies. My 6 year old is great, calm, mild mannered 95% of the time. It is the other 5% I am struggling with. When he gets upset, he completely loses control & is unable to stay calm. Sometimes it is over the silliest things. But when he gets like that, you cannot talk to him rationally. He will start screaming and yelling at us, threatening us, and even physically assaulting us (throws punches, throws objects). It is a very dangerous situation.
We do all the things we're supposed to (I think). We stay calm, keep our voices at regular level. We tell him to stay calm. we try to ignore him but he tends to continue to instigate. We ask him to breathe deep, count to 20, go to his room etc, but this does not work. We cannot leave him safely in the room for fear he will do damage to himself or his room. We have grounded him, taken away games / tv (within reason 2 - 5 days, as we read you can't make it indefinite as it has no value).
Once he calms down, he completely understands his behavior was unacceptable and what he did was wrong. He has never acted like this at school & only gets out of control with us (lucky us). Can anyone give any other suggestions?
We do all the things we're supposed to (I think). We stay calm, keep our voices at regular level. We tell him to stay calm. we try to ignore him but he tends to continue to instigate. We ask him to breathe deep, count to 20, go to his room etc, but this does not work. We cannot leave him safely in the room for fear he will do damage to himself or his room. We have grounded him, taken away games / tv (within reason 2 - 5 days, as we read you can't make it indefinite as it has no value).
Once he calms down, he completely understands his behavior was unacceptable and what he did was wrong. He has never acted like this at school & only gets out of control with us (lucky us). Can anyone give any other suggestions?