Hair products (for me)

[elektra]

I am wanting to find some hair products that work for me but I haven't bought any hair stuff in years. Seriously.
If I had to pick a celebrity with my same hair to give you some reference I would say Drew Barrymore. Every time I see a picture of her with her sort of messy wavy hair, I think, that is just like my hair!
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And 90% of the time I am wash and wear with the VERY occasional blow out.
So I want something that just sort of tames it a bit, and then maybe ads some shape, definition to the waves (?) on a daily basis.
And maybe I would need something different for the blow out days? Maybe an antifrizz serum?
I was at CVS today and I was looking at the John Frieda stuff, the anti-frizz leave-in conditioner, and there was something else too. But I thought, "maybe I should consult the BBB first." :p

Back in the 90's I would do mousse and then use a diffuser to blow dry into curls. My hair was much curlier then though. It has just gotten naturally straighter as I have gotten older. And I have never really known what product to use.

I am trying to spice up my appearance a bit. :)

[AshleyAnn]

My mom has a similar hair style but slightly curlier and uses tresseme's tousse me softly line. They have a gel that comes in a jar that goes a great job defining the curls. I think she uses the shampoo and conditioner too. When I wear mine wavy I use l'oreal's stuido line's smoothing cream to keep the frizzies and flyaways in control and keeps it soft.